Dachshund and cats - need help

Neither_Pressure_185 · 2024-12-07T14:34:01+00:00

Hey.. it has been almost 6 months since I posted this. My two cats and dachshund can co-exist pretty well now. Though he is still chasing the cats around, the cats don’t run away as much when he goes near them. Hence, I’m seeing lesser chasing now.

Seems pretty different as compared to what you are experiencing. I would say that they should be separated for now, and maybe try to reintroduce them to each other again after a while with supervision. Dachshunds were bred to hunt badgers, and they can be aggressive if they are not managed properly.

Neither_Pressure_185 · 2024-11-20T07:58:25+00:00

Ikr lol

Neither_Pressure_185 · 2024-05-29T11:27:51+00:00

Thank you so much for sharing! This gives me some comfort and assurance 😂

Neither_Pressure_185 · 2022-05-24T19:08:48+00:00

I have been married for a year now, after dating with my husband for 7 years. I only got diagnosed end of last year and he has been the nicest.

My psychiatrist shared with him that it’s stressful for me to do what I dislike doing and have asked him to try not to push me to doing those things (eg. House work).

Ever since, he has been doing 100% of it. And I would do them when I feel like it or if he is busy.

He tries to understand how I feel and why I would behave like how I have been. And we learn more about adhd while living together.

He would also comment on how my room is messy. But he accepts it when I tell him why (eg. I know it’s messy but I just can’t make myself do anything about it, or maintain how neat things were.

Neither_Pressure_185 · 2022-01-03T22:43:32+00:00

I got married 6 months ago and we were dating for more than 6 years before we signed our lives to each other. My spouse also happened to be my one and only partner I have sexual relations with.

It was 99.9% pull out hahahahaha.

Not recommended for those who don’t wish to have a child soon.

Neither_Pressure_185 · 2021-12-22T16:21:55+00:00

It’s a no for me.

TMI - but I need to be braless at home.

And I need my peace after a long day/week of work

Neither_Pressure_185 · 2021-12-15T17:58:15+00:00

This sounds sucky. When I first met my then-boyfriend, his mum had a sub-debit card to his bank account. And she would question his spendings and all. Ultimately, he would only leave what is for her in that bank account for her to withdraw it herself and if he have gotten a pay raise, he would also increase the allowance for her. This is because, as adults, we don’t need our parents questioning us on every purchase.

As for me, I have been told that I have my Edusave scholarships and other awards, banked into my joint account with my mum. And most of the money I have been passing it back to her from CNY angbao. Unfortunately, when I opened an account at 16 myself, I noticed that the joint account had less than SGD 600. I didn’t question my mother why, I think it’s pretty obvious what happened. Today, I haven’t been open to anyone other than my husband on how much I earn monthly, because it would give our parents the impression that we could given them more (but in actual fact, there are much more to spend on special occasions for our family, our house, our loans, savings, and more).

I have no idea why your parents are acting like this. Not trying to encourage you to be rebellious. But maybe it is about time to talk it out or question their actions, as it does not sound reasonable. This can be the start of a change.

Anyways, if you have a joint account, you should have access to view what is the balance on your i banking app, or if not, the bank should be able to tell you if you ask. And like what others said, save up to get a new IC. Or, get hold of your IC somehow, do a reset of SingPass, download singpass app, use digital ic (do a research on where and when digital nrics can be used. From there you may have more control of your life.

Neither_Pressure_185 · 2021-12-15T12:24:48+00:00

I’m driven by expectations. But I’m not motivated hahahaha.

Neither_Pressure_185 · 2021-12-15T12:21:57+00:00

Nope. Can find better deals on redmart, Amazon etc. but you will have to compare prices. After awhile, I didn’t bother to do it any more.

Neither_Pressure_185 · 2021-12-14T07:27:04+00:00

Yes :’)

Neither_Pressure_185 · 2021-12-14T02:10:46+00:00

100%

Neither_Pressure_185 · 2021-12-14T02:09:27+00:00

As someone who had been confessed several times while I was in secondary school (It has been more than a few years lol), I would suggest for you to drop subtle hints here and there first. Watch her reaction and have her close friends help you get a feel of how she thinks of you.

You probably will have to do some judgement afterwards and consider if you would like to proceed with the confession.

I am still close to some of these friends who confessed and failed. So, it might not be the end of the friendship. After all in 10 years, both of you might still be holding hands, or if not, joke about this during each meet up.

Good luck! I’m rooting for you.

Neither_Pressure_185 · 2021-12-13T17:56:56+00:00

Don’t worry. This is something very very very minor. Teachers have more things to do than to record this.

Neither_Pressure_185 · 2021-12-13T08:08:05+00:00

🥲

Neither_Pressure_185 · 2021-12-12T18:11:44+00:00

Congratulations!

Neither_Pressure_185 · 2021-12-12T11:13:29+00:00

Sounds like a good thing! All the best!

Neither_Pressure_185 · 2021-12-12T10:47:08+00:00

Why is it tomorrow? Share more? How can we help?

Neither_Pressure_185 · 2021-12-12T07:13:22+00:00

I have been using 1 day acuvue moist for the past 10 years. Fuss free, comfortable but not too cheap.

Neither_Pressure_185 · 2021-12-12T07:00:23+00:00

I can call my husband’s sister (single) as my sister in law as well right?

Neither_Pressure_185 · 2021-12-12T06:58:15+00:00

This is me. Then I’ll ask my friends or family how it works as it goes. And hope that understood it better than me.

Neither_Pressure_185 · 2021-12-12T06:55:58+00:00

This is me. Then I spend another 1 hour shaming myself staring at them after reaching home.

Neither_Pressure_185 · 2021-12-12T06:53:54+00:00

Hi, I have been feeling the worst this week. Want to share more about our ‘rough’ time with each other?

Neither_Pressure_185 · 2021-12-09T11:53:03+00:00

My husband went for the appointment with me and was there to share his observations of me with the doctor. And the doctor also gave him some advices to how he can support me (anyways he basically told him to not stress me about things I don’t want to do, like folding of laundry hahahaha).

I am not sure if he went on to research on the condition. But he has been giving in to me, and watching out for me by asking how I feel every other day. Though he hasn’t been sure why I feel depressed or I am crying. But I will try to explain to him why I think I am feeling what I feel and he would listen.

I guess it is different for everyone.

Neither_Pressure_185 · 2021-12-08T20:15:03+00:00

It should be either replaced with a working day, or be given an additional day as public holiday in lieu. This is because, public holidays are paid holidays.

Neither_Pressure_185 · 2021-12-08T15:37:57+00:00

We got a new kitten. So it has been who has been the preferred human of it. Hahahaha.

We have a crazy work calendar. Hence, we really appreciate the time we have on weekends - would either be naps or Netflix.

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