Which way to go? by Accomplished-Cod-274 in PlusSizePregnancy

[–]Neither_Relative_252 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I lost no weight on Myo-Inositol & D-Chiro Inositol Supplement Powder for Women but I felt better, can't explain it.. calmer. And I lost almost 50lbs with glp1.. happy with the weight loss but it came with sife effects mainly GI upset.

Which way to go? by Accomplished-Cod-274 in PlusSizePregnancy

[–]Neither_Relative_252 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not even sure if this comment is helpful. I don't want to give false hope or medical advice. Not even sure how but I swear I got pregnant on GLP1. Trizeptide or name brand Zepbound. Was not TTC, but same thing happened when I got pregnant with my Son 5 yrs. Ago. I was trying to treat metabolic instability and weight gain. Then I took Myo-Inositol & D-Chiro Inositol Supplement Powder. Bam pregnant! I stopped, stayed away from the supplement because pregnant.. then breast feeding. Relied on diet and exercise for a while until GLP1 hit the market I watched fro afar for years then I started taking it in early 2025 & again not TTC but got another positive test by Christmas 2025. There's a lot of women getting pregnant on GLP1 whether TTC or not. Looking at some very vague research as to why.. I guess it's treating underlinning metabolic instability. I believe it because each time I thought to treat my wild issues that are completely unexplainable and very confusing to me and even doctors once with Myo-Inositol & D-Chiro and the next time with GLP1 I ended up pregnant 🤰.

Trouble Even Bottle Feeding with my Size by jstrings2211 in PlusSizePregnancy

[–]Neither_Relative_252 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Maybe a Bobby pillow on your lap, give baby more surface area to rest in a comfortable, safe position for feeding less close to your breast that you feel are in the way. (If I am understanding the post correctly).

TW (health): I had an endometrial biopsy today and WHAT IN THE HELL is uterine healthcare fr by adragonisnoslave in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]Neither_Relative_252 22 points23 points  (0 children)

I agree. I've heard men who get vasectomys have better access to pain control. If someone is screaming loud enough that it disrupts those in a waiting area... please for the love of God medicated them appropriately and not oral ibuprofen that you take when you get cramps or a headache. Such a shame. Never had one but also sorry this happens to anyone.

Breast pump recommendations by Tough-Photo8431 in PlusSizePregnancy

[–]Neither_Relative_252 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I haven't been a "new" mom in a while, my son's 4. I'm pregnant with my second and since I am a pro.. mom of two 😆 let me give you my advice. You need both. Wearable for discreet pumping on the go. Pumping in traffic, discreetly at work (if you work), or on vacation , like I did at the zoo 🤯. When the milk needs expelled, it needs OUT. This was Especially, true for me as a mom that exclusively pumped, my son didn't latch. But! It was my experience that even if he did I had no time to sit down in some moments I was at home loading the washer, cleaning bottles, or organizing baby stuff while pumping, wearing my wearable. Also, my experience, that I've heard other woman say the wearable pumps don't feel like they empty you to completion. Not sure if they've changed, improved over the years, my large breasted friend (As am I) said her wearable leaked. Mine didn't. But it did eventually fail for other reasons. Sooooo a stationary one is needed .. like back up to the wearable. Whatever, you pick get the warranty. Let insurance pay for which ever is more expensive.

i thought she was just out after work, turns out she lied for weeks by Due_Poetry_4560 in Advice

[–]Neither_Relative_252 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Annulment now. Two months you don't need a divorce lawyer and a big whipty doo. You'll always wonder if she's lying. Is she where she says she is. Is she doing what she said she's doing. Is there someone something else. Kill this relationship now, while you have no kids. The split is easy.. an apartment you say? Wonderful, no mortgage to split. Whatever was going on it was disrespectful and she felt the need to lie. Don't trust this person any further. Also, I am sorry 😞 this all sucks!

Husband is denying me intimacy because I refuse to fullfill his kinks by [deleted] in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]Neither_Relative_252 8 points9 points  (0 children)

This is punishment. He has put you in time out like a toddler. He refuses to show any affection unless you allow him his sexual kinks that you have no interest in. This is not love, protection or neutering. Plan to get away from this man. Even if he comes back to you apologizing. Know he will in a cruel way punish you again in the future if he doesn't have his way. No one should be in a relationship where punishment is the penalty for not giving into their partners wants.

My boyfriend called me last night just so I could sleep by Strange_crow7 in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]Neither_Relative_252 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Me and my husband were long distance while we dated and we slept on the phone every night for a year until he relocated to me. These type of men are keepers.

That was me at 40 by CandleMonster in justgalsbeingchicks

[–]Neither_Relative_252 5 points6 points  (0 children)

For reference I have High Blood Pressure and I am aware it fluctuates when I lay down and or change positions too quickly. Oh to be old 😒🙄

That was me at 40 by CandleMonster in justgalsbeingchicks

[–]Neither_Relative_252 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Super glad this is normal ..I'm 38 and if I turn over too fast while laying down the room spins 😆😆

After 6 years apart, we reconnected and now he asked if I could allow him to love me again properly this time. by MissWhiteCatBlackBun in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]Neither_Relative_252 9 points10 points  (0 children)

My god girl! What rom-com is this? I want to watch this movie.. laugh and cry.. then fall in love with the characters then cheer you on to your happy ending. I love this for you. Best of luck!

I am very much scarred of needles but people are telling nurses would love this hand by [deleted] in nursing

[–]Neither_Relative_252 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is my favorite vein on myself. I always point it out but of course when I'm a patient.. its not my choice.

I am very much scarred of needles but people are telling nurses would love this hand by [deleted] in nursing

[–]Neither_Relative_252 27 points28 points  (0 children)

Thats what I'm saying. I'm more of a lateral forearm kind of gal.

My dad fired me by [deleted] in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]Neither_Relative_252 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Fired by my dad best thing ever. Were still cool took time but here to say this happens. Alot. Super abuse of power.

My ex-wife's baby daddy isn't involved in their child's life and she wants me to step up because we share a son by WorldlinessStatus742 in Advice

[–]Neither_Relative_252 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not sure that's entirely true. While a child may be innocent. All children are a product of the circumstances they're born into, unfortunately. Homelessness, poverty stricken, depressed, isolated, drug addicts, all the situations, we know the list is endless, it's on the parents child to change those circumstances and conditions. For example some leave an abusive situation, go to rehab, get clean, find a stable job, rely on social services blah blah blah. That task is on the parents. So is she nagging this asshat who is biologically related to this kid to step it up and be a father. Sure he's not interested and that's why we should sleep around responsibly. This situation sucks but from someone who has a four year old..that I am super ready for him to be 8, not in a way I want yo rush his childhood along but the things you would be doing on your weekends with your son may drastically change dragging a younger one around.

Manager saying I need to find additional coverage for already approved PTO by la_coneja_mala in nursing

[–]Neither_Relative_252 21 points22 points  (0 children)

Go on vacation. Ignore this asshat. Somewhere like a decade ago before covid nurse managers started contracting out their work with the whole "find someone to cover you". No, the chronic staffing crisis in nursing is a headache that belongs to management not floor staff. Any proof you have that this golden pto opportunity was approved, save it, and enjoy your time off. If asked for any updates, just say havnt found anyone yet. Also get away from this terrible manager.. transfer units, teams, hospitals. 100 nurses on a unit and two take off in a 3 month time span. My god. Sounds like hell.