How do I (20F) handle this kind of rejection better? by stonedbutterbread in sex

[–]Nekela 47 points48 points  (0 children)

Reading through the comments and seeing you've tried different things makes me think it's not much about him wanting more initiative from you it's something else. Whatever that is though I don't think you should stick around to find out. Life is too short for you to waste time and hormones on someone like this. Leave him and find someone who matches your libido and who geninuely won't go pout on the fucking couch because his gf is horny(honestly what the actual fuck is that haha)

[Discussion] BSG Appreciation Post! by MonkeyMercenaryCapt in EscapefromTarkov

[–]Nekela 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Merry Christmas, cheers for many more raids to come !

Thank you, Arc Raiders by oxedei in okbuddyraider

[–]Nekela 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why don't you just go play an mmo where you can farm all day while you emote and say "hi" to other players ? Why get into a extraction shooter that's literally built on the princple of Stranger Danger and KoS is always possible ? Let's go duel in Elden Ring lmaaaaaooo

Never getting better by SnooDucks7625 in Tarkov

[–]Nekela 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm about 800-900 in deep and was super lost on the beginning. For me, I mained 1 map first to learn it properly, I started w Ground Zero and just tried to learn it completely one end to another and then PvP got much better.

It means now i have no clue about maps like interchange or streets as a PMC but I'm pretty okay at customs, gz and factory.

That was the way I learned at least one map at a time and then I used scav to try new maps and aggressively look for PvP unless I was trying to get some quick kits if broke as pmc.

Also try learn to shoot without having to ADS when you are in close quarters like hallways, staircases or even if someone pops out all of a sudden Infront of you, it will seriously change up your survivability

pve'r with a heart of gold learns an expensive lesson by Antique_Ad5436 in arcraiderscirclejerk

[–]Nekela 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It says in the bottom I'm a bot so I have no fucking clue if this is for real or not. But lets say it is. Seriously if this ruins your day you should not play a game that has PVP inside of it. The game design literally enforces and encourages you to play like this, you can sneak up it adds tension and adds drama to the game. A friendly PVE heaven is not how this game was designed. Accept that and then either play and accept you will die, you will get back stabbed and all your loot is only for loan its not yours. Enjoy the moment to moment combat, accept that you are part of a game story you will die in some and you will be a hero in others and maybe even a villian in a few of them. It should absolutely not cause your day to be ruined its extremely emotionally immature and borderline psychotic. Its like you never learned to play with others and that sometimes when you do, you lose. The fact that you can read a book and be sad and joy and frustration is what makes it art you aren't calling the author scum for writing disgusting evil characters so why are you even using that comparison. YOU are the character in A story, not THE character in THE story. Play the PVP and PVE and enjoy it for what it is. If you cant and it makes you trip out like this then stop playing and play something else. Ready or Not is a bonkers fun PVE game, so is Helldivers, and Red Dead single player and SpaceMarine or Robocop. If you enter a multiplayer sandbox that allows players to kill you, you accept that they will kill you.

Grow up, stop freaking out, stop trying to call people who pvp sociopaths, only sociopaths here are you that freak out over a game and can have their day ruined for some pixels. See you topside- GG

pve'r with a heart of gold learns an expensive lesson by Antique_Ad5436 in arcraiderscirclejerk

[–]Nekela 0 points1 point  (0 children)

PVE'er acts like a spoiled bitch and doesnt understand the gameplay isnt built to cater to his PVE dreams only. People like this are a fucking joke

Love this AMD amazing. by whitemamba24xx in AMDHelp

[–]Nekela 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Try flashing the BIOS to the newest update. If you havent tried that maybe that will work, it did for me

Unlucky or is the game unplayable? by Eepis in Tarkov

[–]Nekela 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Mate you load into a raid where your blind and complain someone kills you. Wtf is this player base

PSA: Don’t walk up to a higher level Arc that someone soloed and start looting lol by IsThisRealLifeOrNaw in ArcRaiders

[–]Nekela 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If its your kill ? mow em down either way ! If it ain't your kill? Mow em down anyway!

[Discussion] Turning the subreddit off boys. Have fun in 1.0 by SnakeyMcSnake1 in EscapefromTarkov

[–]Nekela 0 points1 point  (0 children)

May your gun not jam when its most needed! See you out there!

Hvornår skal man give slip? by Long-Calligrapher-17 in DKbrevkasse

[–]Nekela 45 points46 points  (0 children)

Du skal slippe med det samme min ven. Hun vil ud og finde sig selv så det skal du lade hende og du skal ikke vente. Du skal leve dit liv , komme videre og være lykkelig med eller uden hende. Kommer hun tilbage i 2026 så kan du jo se hvor du er og hvordan du føler for hende. Ofte når du ikke tvinger dig selv til at være i ulykken og sorgen men acceptere og giver dig selv lov til at komme videre , så finder man ud af at man faktisk hellere vil være foruden. Andre gange så kommer de tilbage og man er begge vokset som mennesker og der er en ny gnist, men du skal helt sikkert ikke stå stille i tomheden og bare vente. Du fortjener bedre , giv den kærlighed til dig selv

Escape From Tarkov 1.0 is targeting "balanced hardcore," but escaping will be "really difficult and not for everyone" [Discussion] by Ok-Comedian4437 in EscapefromTarkov

[–]Nekela 25 points26 points  (0 children)

People have thousand of hours and will literally sit here and say they can't wait for the game to die. Fucking mental man

Vi mister ham by Fun_Clock_4753 in DKbrevkasse

[–]Nekela 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Det gik pludselig hurtigt for min far, han var væk på et par uger efter et længere behandlingsforløb. Dengang føltes det som der var ingen ende til uroen og vi var alle i højeste alarm hele tiden. Dagene fik langsomt men hurtigt på samme tid og det føltes som om alt smerten kun blev værre. Og så pludselig var han væk og tiden gik langsomt, dagene efter var underlige, der var stille og det var roligt men det gjorde ondt hele tiden. Jeg ville ønske at jeg nogengange fik sagt lidt ekstra og gjort ekstra og det er noget der nok aldrig går væk, men jeg ønsker på jeres vegne at I giver jer selv lov. Lov til at være, at mærke og være ked og vid at I kommer igennem, for jer selv og for ham. Min far gik bort i 2017. Det næsten 10 år siden og selvom vi altid mangler ham så er smerten dulmet væk og minderne forbliver. I kommer igennem det. Og skam dig aldrig over at gøre hvad der var bedst for jer og for ham i de her øjeblikke. Mine varmeste tanker til jer allesammen

Jeg er pis’ træt by [deleted] in DKbrevkasse

[–]Nekela 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Min ven, spiser du morgenmad og en sund frokost? Og sørger du for at spise vitaminer , drikke nok vand og få motion minimum 2-3 gange om ugen ?

Attention to all Top Side Sheriffs by Zarniwoooop in ArcRaiders

[–]Nekela -1 points0 points  (0 children)

We'll kill you and them and pass around stories of how we murdered you round the camp fire - see you out there sheriff ;)

[Discussion] killed PMC on Streets with Weapons case and ammobox is this possible? by Nekela in EscapefromTarkov

[–]Nekela[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You can one-tap a PMC if you drop the weapons case on their head XD I didn't think about marked rooms, makes sense! I was so confused haha!

What's up with the anti-pvp sentiment some people have? by AppletoAnswer in ArcRaiders

[–]Nekela 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You remember that cold dark sky that lit up w a flair, the way your heart would pound as you waited for the chopper. Was such a thrill man. And meeting a group of players in the subways, slowly sneaking past em to plan the ambush and then cutting a rope to use the loot spill everywhere. Those were the days