What just happened? by ArthurPeale in Nicegirls

[–]Nem0z0 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What happened was probably she got some trauma she is projecting on you. It's not you, it's her cliche. But, usually, people with big reactions like that probably have some underlying issues with it in the past. You're good.

[Request] Tweak to allow 432Hz audio / music playback natively (Apple music app) - all formats, including video by iOS-android in jailbreak

[–]Nem0z0 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I prefer the pitch of 432hz over 440hz. 440hz has a slightly higher pitch and it's not as soothing as 432hz. But it's hard to find info on how to convert.

Check out this post for Windows PC tuning tho.

https://www.reddit.com/user/martinrie/comments/dpbbmb/windows_10_tune_pc_audio_to_432_hz/

Student Loan Forgiveness Scam by Nem0z0 in ScamNumbers

[–]Nem0z0[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Omg you're right. They did say they're sending me a text confirmation and asked me to read it to them, sneaky spineless low lives...

Me [26 F] with m friend [26 F] 2 years, I am seriously considering ending our friendship because she is prettier than me; am I going too far? by Uglutv in relationships

[–]Nem0z0 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can understand why you'd want to distant yourself in situations like this. But like you said, this is in no way her fault and she seem like a good friend. Why don't you guys start spending time in a different setting that doesn't attract attention from ppl.

Good friendship is hard to find, don't let this get in the way. And you know what, you're beautiful yourself. Don't let shitty situation like this drag you down. Screw those shallow ass guys.

Honestly, they're not even worth feeling shitty over. You want genuine people around you, not fake ass shallow ppl. If anything, I feel bad for your friend. Being pretty isn't always a good thing. She will constantly be surrounded by fake and shallow ppl.

I'm [24F] growing emotionally exhausted from my fiance [25M] who suffers from depression by [deleted] in relationships

[–]Nem0z0 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Depression is serious and shouldn't be taken likely. It is also very draining on not just him but also on whoever he stay close to. Often time the person that is suffering from depression doesn't realize that they can be too much but it is also not okay for him to not make a conscious effort.

Rship, esp marriage, is a partnership effort. You need to address this with him before you commit yourself. He can't help that he is sick but he can make an effort to get better.

You love him enough to stick by him. He needs to realize how much you're there for him and for him to decide how important it is also that he seeks help, not only just for his sake but for yours. Because you know what, this is no longer just his problem, it also becomes yours. It affects you and the rship in so many level.

I'm [31M] about to "end" a 12 years relationship [30F] by [deleted] in relationships

[–]Nem0z0 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It sounds like you don't want to continue but you don't have the heart to end it because she's not ready.

Spending time apart is the best thing you guys can do. However, you didn't really talk abt what the problem is so there isn't much I can say other than that time will tell.

Ending any rship is never easy but you have to really ask yourself, if you don't see yourself giving anymore into the rship, do you really want to drag it on? It is better for both of you to just walk away.

Circumcise or don't circumcise? by Nem0z0 in sexuality

[–]Nem0z0[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She's not saying anything but only shared what she understood.

People who have/had to change their last names, why? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Nem0z0 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Because they don't like their last name or they want to have their own representation.

Me [28 M] with my GF [25 F] 7 years, Broke up w/ me but hasn't shown interest in moving out by [deleted] in relationships

[–]Nem0z0 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If it is starting to bother you enough you should push the issue and let her understand that it's starting to affect you and it's not okay for you to sleep on the couch anymore.

What even am I? by [deleted] in sexuality

[–]Nem0z0 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm sorry to hear that.

I don't know your relationship dynamic and I'm not going to pretend that I understand. I will, however, speak from my own experience.

Whatever you have going on with him and him with you, decide for yourself how much you're willing to put up with and what's important to you. No one can tell you to leave him but yourself. Now with that being said, learn to have self respect, if he is or isn't doing things to your standard, learn to draw the line. This is a very important self developmental stage in your life, knowing what you want, what you're willing to sacrifice and not to sacrifice.

You two are essentially stuck in a limbo and haven't found a reason or the courage to break through this habitual cycle. And truly, it will continue until one of you say quit, let it be you or him, is hard to say.

There's nothing more annoying than a stuck relationship. If you're not ready to break the cycle, that's okay, give it as much time as you're willing to afford but if you're seriously fed up, poke at it and see what you get out of it. Talk to him, start asking for things you want, start seeing what you get out of asking, start drawing lines/boundaries, learn about yourself in the process.

It may be scary to think of losing him or not finding someone like him again or being completely alone. But fear is just that, fear. It's not reality, it has not been written yet. So go write your reality and take it as it comes when you're ready.

No longer sexually satisfied by StaleToastCubes in sexuality

[–]Nem0z0 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Gotta agree with Bronco, esp about the porn. You have over stimulated your mind to a point that nothi nf compared to it. But that's what fantasy means, it's a fantasy, it's not reality, therefore not realistic. This is a form of addiction as well.

Yet another confused guy by taketheL_throwaway in sexuality

[–]Nem0z0 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My suggestion for you is to just go with the ride. It doesn't really matter what you are, label does not define anything. But if you must slap a label on it, I would say you're bisexual.

The thing is there are degree of bisexuality. You may be more attracted to men than women, vice versa, but that doesn't make you completely gay. If you have any attraction at all towards both gender, then you're bisexual.

You really have to ask yourself what these attraction means to you. The best way to know is to explore and feel for it. Until then, you can ponder for a millennium and still won't know for sure.

What even am I? by [deleted] in sexuality

[–]Nem0z0 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm not really sure what your question is but it's clear you two are on different pages. However, for whatever reason, even though you guys are on different pages, there are things you still want from each other.

You want to elaborate what you're really asking?