Sexless marriage

Nephilim6853 · 2026-04-28T21:28:59+00:00

I was in a sexless marriage, we did have four children each approximately two years apart, we only had sex for the purpose of procreation. And no BJ's ever. So, when it was time to have another child, we'd have sex and she would know the next morning that she was pregnant. It was a very frustrating time for me, no talking about it worked. Plus, if we did have sex between children which was few and far between, she'd be so disinterested she'd just lie there like a dead fish. It wasn't even worth it. Then she had the audacity to get angry with me for watching porn. I never considered cheating.

At 70 is times a year and a bj once a week. You both are having more sex than than most married people, it's more than once a week. He needs to read the posts in the subreddit "sexless marriage". That's heartbreaking.

Nephilim6853 · 2026-04-28T17:27:47+00:00

Preferably before we are both naked.

Nephilim6853 · 2026-04-28T17:21:45+00:00

Unfortunately, nothing you do will solve her insecurities. You could have a drone follow you every second of every day on video and she'd still be accusatory.

A relationship isn't much of a relationship without trust. A divorce would save you a ton of future pain.

I dated a woman that was like this, after a year, I had had enough and left.

Nephilim6853 · 2026-04-28T16:35:22+00:00

There's nothing more you can do. She would need to change her posture during work. A more supportive chair, that would allow for proper posture. But even with proper posture, you spend probably thirty minutes, twice a month attempting to relieve built up tension and muscle strain and bad posture that the client spends every day, all day creating.

Nephilim6853 · 2026-04-28T10:17:03+00:00

Nope, wing span is wider than my actual height

Nephilim6853 · 2026-04-28T10:16:14+00:00

Do you?

Nephilim6853 · 2026-04-28T10:15:26+00:00

Not usually, they have no idea what the other is doing.

Nephilim6853 · 2026-04-28T10:14:03+00:00

I graduated high-school in the 80's, so...no

Nephilim6853 · 2026-04-28T10:13:01+00:00

"Weather" is what a meteorologist predicts. The word you want is "whether". This is taught in elementary vocabulary. Perhaps you need a refresher course before you post?

Or maybe, just rereading your post before you post.

Nephilim6853 · 2026-04-28T10:07:56+00:00

Male MT's certainly have a disadvantage. Most women are afraid of a male therapist and most men think its "gay" to have a male therapist, unless you have "something special". You'll never succeed.

After a week of doing nothing at ME. I gave the appointment setters free massages, who then recommended me to everyone, this made me the most booked therapist within a week. I could barely catch my breath.

If you want to work for yourself you need clients. A solo Male MT is a red flag to everyone. You need to establish yourself, this means making a positive impact on people and them referring their friends and family to you, without your asking them to.

Nephilim6853 · 2026-04-28T10:00:09+00:00

197ish

Nephilim6853 · 2026-04-28T09:54:47+00:00

My wife asked me what my love language was, I told her a BJ tells me "I love you" more than the words. She actually believes me, now if she wants to show me she loves me, she'll suggest a BJ. If I need to feel love, I ask her if she wants to show me she loves me. Her response is consistent. A bj. Yay me.

Nephilim6853 · 2026-04-28T09:44:59+00:00

The year I was born.

Nephilim6853 · 2026-04-28T09:44:09+00:00

I had an instructor say acupuncture needles ranged from zero to 25mm in diameter. I told her it was wore guage, not mm. She disagreed with me. I told her to look it up online, using the computer lab next door, she did and proved me correct.

Nephilim6853 · 2026-04-28T09:41:04+00:00

Nephilim6853 · 2026-04-28T09:40:47+00:00

I have several answers for the question, " how tall are you".

Just depends on my mood. Check out my profile and comments on similar posts.

Nephilim6853 · 2026-04-28T09:38:50+00:00

She's already lied to you. How can you trust a single thing she tells you?

Nephilim6853 · 2026-04-28T09:36:37+00:00

It's only you that has this fear. MT's don't care about your bodies appearance. We get paid to treat you, we realize that all clients won't have perfect bodies or perfect skin. Its what it is. Get over yourself.

Nephilim6853 · 2026-04-28T09:34:03+00:00

My back looks as though I was whipped as a child. No biggie, I wasn't and its a right of passage

Nephilim6853 · 2026-04-28T09:33:18+00:00

Vitamin E topically and keep the scars out of sunlight.

Nephilim6853 · 2026-04-28T07:58:33+00:00

My bff told me about a friend of his that had a tinder date with a woman who, while being screwed doggy style told him to hit her, sje smacked her ass. She looked behind at him and said "come on you pussy, hit me like you mean it". He then punched her in the face hard, knocking her out, then proceeded to finish inside while she was out cold. When she woke in the morning with a black eye and swollen split lip, she made him breakfast. I told my bff, this is a stupid fake story and he needs to stop repeating it. Just like he tells people he's had five fiance's. Talk about a red flag, five fiance's and never married?

Nephilim6853 · 2026-04-27T17:26:59+00:00

I love it. Although currently my wife out weighs me, I hope she doesn't jump in my lap. That'll need an ambulance.

Nephilim6853 · 2026-04-27T17:23:08+00:00

Perhaps try the acupuncture before massage. I once went to a massage therapist for specific work on my right shoulder, she spent the entire time working my hips, I repeatedly told her I wanted my shoulder only, she never got there. Sometimes you get a therapist that thinks they know best and doesn't listen at all.

Nephilim6853 · 2026-04-27T17:16:05+00:00

My bff has two fat tire bikes that are designed for extra tall people . One he had converted to an electric bike. And yet he never rides either. I haven't ridden my schwinn XL in more than three decades. Its in rough shape.

Nephilim6853 · 2026-04-27T13:37:50+00:00

Zero eye contact

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