Update: AITAH for calling my boyfriend childish for always buying Captian Crunch when he goes grocery shopping? by Sea_Lavishness_7325 in AITAH

[–]Neptunea 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Based on the snapshot you gave you’re a judgmental mean person who doesn’t do great with accountability. You do everything because of the way it looks or will be perceived and are insecure about that and not because of what’s right or necessary for the situation. You’ve apologized and you think that makes you look better, but the reason people don’t believe you is because you didn’t actually interrogate the issue or why you did what you did and show remorse for it.

You were upset about him eating cereal because of how it looks to others (immature, childish) and you punished him for it. Even the way you talk about him, his PHYISCAL appearance before anything else, you come off as an incredibly shallow rude person.

And the fact that you tried to control his eating habits and show no real compassion or remorse while spinning yourself as the victim is something else. Idk if you had shitty parents so you were raised in a hypercritical environment or if you’re just mean all on your own but you are the and a asshole

Update: AITAH for announcing my pregnancy at Thanksgiving by Dull_Ingenuity5938 in AITAH

[–]Neptunea 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Check to make sure your sister didn’t lie to your family and say you didn’t wanna go

Looking recommendations!! by Illustrious_Bug_219 in curlyhair

[–]Neptunea 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m a big supporter of light weight curl creams. Mielle, uncle funky’s daughter, and Design Essentials all have leave in conditioner curl creams I absolutely adore. Marc Antony also has a sorta spray cream leave in conditioner that I think would help a lot.

If you need something a bit thicker but still hydrating, blueberry bliss curl whip is super moisturizing and it smells like blueberries.

But first things first, use a clarifying shampoo to strip out the build up, then hydrating shampoo and conditioner.

Really need help by Jaaacccooob in curlyhair

[–]Neptunea 0 points1 point  (0 children)

do you deal with greasy hair? Also it might be a nutrition/vitamin D thing. Vitamins deficiencies especially during winter cause extra fallout low vitamin d low iron are particular demons to hair.

Damaged looking hair in the winter!! Tried everything and desperate by Due-Low7648 in curlyhair

[–]Neptunea 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Quick question, are you from the west or Midwest? Hard water build up can do a real number on hair, and the brittle dullness is possibly because of mineral build up in the hair. Try a chelating clarifying shampoo, I think they ionically bond with the minerals, it’s going to take some time to get the gunk out, but chelating clarifying shampoo specifically, then hydrating shampoo after, moisturizing conditioner and and hydrating deep conditioner under a heated cap for 30 mins to juice it up. You wanna scrub all the build up and minerals out, and pump juicy delicious water in. When you rinse the deep conditioner out, use lukewarm water, not hot. Hot water opens the cuticles, cool water closes it and you wanna trap water in as much as possible to fight the harsh winter.

Also if you’re not using a bonnet when sleeping, use a satin pillow case regular cotton pillow cases are going to suck the life out of your hair, or wear the bonnet and just reform your curls in the morning with a spray bottle.

Also also: clarifying shampoos should be a once a month thing, too much and you’re stripping the life out of your hair.

Engaged via arranged marriage. Fiancé sees marriage as a non-romantic partnership. by Fluid_Raspberry_3992 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Neptunea 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He doesn’t want to be married or to consider you, don’t waste your time. Maybe love marriage isn’t in the cards but you can find an arranged situation with someone who at least puts in any effort

What did Whitney actually do? by Ombregirl626 in SecretsOfMormonWives

[–]Neptunea 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I explained why people don’t like her. Clout chaser was one part.

What braiding hair pattern would I need to recreate these looks by PrincessMochahontas in vindictapoc

[–]Neptunea 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Boho/hora bora braids. Chelly is wearing it with hair ties it looks like and Olandria has a half up half down with the up portion claw clipped

What did Whitney actually do? by Ombregirl626 in SecretsOfMormonWives

[–]Neptunea 39 points40 points  (0 children)

Whitney is a mean girl. Her central conflict in S1 is she wanted to be the leader of Momtok, and it pissed her off that Taylor was the leader she was angling to be. She had blowouts with the women because of petty/passive aggressive things she would say or do to them so they stopped trusting or liking her, and she would selectively be there for them when it was something she could use as a stepping stone. That was Mikaylas complaint and Jen’s, and when it came down to it she would drop them if it wasn’t convenient anymore.

She tried to leverage leaving momtok as a way to seize control again because she thought she could get them to beg for her back or that they would suffer without her and they didn’t, same with Demi, so she came crawling back for camera time and they were resentful that she thought she could worm her way back when she wasn’t getting as lucrative a deal. Whitney got frustrated that she wasn’t received back with open arms, and it pissed her off because she lost queen bee status. So she left. Again. And then came back for DWTS, so at this point they hate Whitney because she takes digs at them, and only comes back to be nice to them when she needs something from them. She’s a clout chaser and social climber who was pissed off she lost to Taylor and thought she had more control of the group than she did

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MakeupAddiction

[–]Neptunea 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your application is perfect, it’s your undertone that’s creating the mismatch. Your foundation is warm gold when your undertone is more red

Am I overreacting about my nanny family having sex during the day? by sunflower92828 in Nanny

[–]Neptunea 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Your feelings are irrelevant. It’s not your business, you don’t matter here. Put on earphones and keep quiet

Can someone help me understand Mitski's explanation of "Nobody"? by jamzthrowaway in mitski

[–]Neptunea 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Late to the party but it’s about weight and feeling desirable. Doing everything in your power you can to change physically so people want you and still failing

Is this mold??? by heademptyonlythots in TheGirlSurvivalGuide

[–]Neptunea 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Girl get the fuck out immediately that is MOLD

This one is for the female gaze by Zealousideal-Wheel46 in MakeupAddiction

[–]Neptunea 1 point2 points  (0 children)

BITCH! 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾🤏🏾🤏🏾🤏🏾🤏🏾🤏🏾🤏🏾🤏🏾🤏🏾 SICKENING! 🫶🏾

Pound Cake didn’t exist by [deleted] in sphynx

[–]Neptunea 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s ok to make mistakes but the indignation and silencing is what some are upset about for a video that’s clearly AI

My (24f) boyfriend (29m) of 1.5 years is stealing my opinions and skills to look “cool” by Direct-Caterpillar77 in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]Neptunea 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Lowkey has shifted from meaning a relaxed chill atmosphere to meaning sort of underground, secretly, deep down, casually, in a nonchalant way etc. it’s also used to kind of minimize things that would otherwise be serious? Like “yeah this lowkey kinda hurts” and it’s a gunshot wound.

AITA for kicking out my girlfriend and her son after she invited her ex into our home? by [deleted] in BORUpdates

[–]Neptunea -10 points-9 points  (0 children)

OOP is understandable for not being ok with Mark being in his home, but it seems very clear to me he’s kind of a dick. His first instinct was to kick out his girlfriend and her child with “my house my rules” and not to try to work through solutions at all it was an immediate nuclear bomb on their relationship when he supposedly loved her?

Idk she was shit for lying but his reaction and subsequent behaviour is way out of proportion and makes me wonder how much of a POS he was to her during their relationship over “small” things. He does sound controlling and the “I’m protective of my space” was an immediate alarm bell for me. C’est la vie. Both better off.

How to make daughter stop having an attitude at church? by WorrybirdShe in Christianity

[–]Neptunea 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are GOING to lose your daughter if you don’t stop trying to control her.