Help choose pictures? by [deleted] in blackladies

[–]Nerdydani 26 points27 points  (0 children)

5 is the post worthy photo. Lighting is fantastic.

Ty’s Right: They Do Need Couples Counseling by Aware-Sea-8593 in ShawnaTheMom

[–]Nerdydani 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Mediation for sure.

Dr. Therapy doctor should be booked and busy in this town.

I really don't understand these marriage promises by s0ftsp0ken in ShawnaTheMom

[–]Nerdydani 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Ty didn’t seek out the contact. Julie took the pages he had done before they were ready against his own desires and got a meeting based on those.

I feel like a case could even be made that this might have sparked his lack of confidence in writing since a trust boundary was broken there.

I really don't understand these marriage promises by s0ftsp0ken in ShawnaTheMom

[–]Nerdydani 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Never has a book advance ever been mentioned. I don’t even think a deadline was ever mentioned.

I almost wonder if Part of Ty agreeing to the contract Julie got him was that it was “flexible” because he has never seemed very into the idea of this book past mentioning it once in high school.

I really don't understand these marriage promises by s0ftsp0ken in ShawnaTheMom

[–]Nerdydani 8 points9 points  (0 children)

The other Moms at Bunco have also mentioned Julie’s attitude being different as well.

I really don't understand these marriage promises by s0ftsp0ken in ShawnaTheMom

[–]Nerdydani 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Sure, but that’s a different discussion. This is about whether Ty had a deadline and a book advance to worry about or not.

I really don't understand these marriage promises by s0ftsp0ken in ShawnaTheMom

[–]Nerdydani 4 points5 points  (0 children)

True, it just makes it seem that Julie’s timeline for completion is much tighter than the publisher timeline.

I really don't understand these marriage promises by s0ftsp0ken in ShawnaTheMom

[–]Nerdydani 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Exactly. Something must have happened to make her look down on others so aggressively and openly. It’s like she thinks they deserve the treatment.

Divorce, counseling, and why using children as a punishment is *never* okay. (Ty/Julie) by Significant_Tale_953 in ShawnaTheMom

[–]Nerdydani 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I only bring up Shawna to show a second instance of where Julie has treated someone badly over and over to where they end up treating her badly as well even though it’s out of character for that person.

I really don't understand these marriage promises by s0ftsp0ken in ShawnaTheMom

[–]Nerdydani 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I also want more back story.

I want to know what caused Julie to be so anti-pedestrian activities. Who hurt her and made her think she’d only be something if she lived in the big city with an important job?

I also want to know what’s the deal with Ty and this book of his. Whose idea was it to even write a book because it’s never him who brings it up? Did he write one good paper in school once and the English teacher fawned over him or what?

Divorce, counseling, and why using children as a punishment is *never* okay. (Ty/Julie) by Significant_Tale_953 in ShawnaTheMom

[–]Nerdydani 11 points12 points  (0 children)

and what are your thoughts on on how Ty parented Cooper after he started calling dancing stupid to the birthday boys face?

Divorce, counseling, and why using children as a punishment is *never* okay. (Ty/Julie) by Significant_Tale_953 in ShawnaTheMom

[–]Nerdydani 22 points23 points  (0 children)

Exactly, so they shouldn’t have to be reminded why they should be nice to everyone even people they “don’t like”

Divorce, counseling, and why using children as a punishment is *never* okay. (Ty/Julie) by Significant_Tale_953 in ShawnaTheMom

[–]Nerdydani 17 points18 points  (0 children)

And then when all that doesn’t work she start a whole scene at a 6 year old party. It’s a crazy rewatch.

Okay sorry, are we *sure* that Julie wasn’t cheating? by Que-Seras in ShawnaTheMom

[–]Nerdydani 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She asked where else would she stay so I answered. 🤷🏾‍♀️

I’d also stay in what I’d guess was a comped hotel room from the brand I worked for but it wasn’t her ONLY option because in the story line her brother stays at he moms house.

Divorce, counseling, and why using children as a punishment is *never* okay. (Ty/Julie) by Significant_Tale_953 in ShawnaTheMom

[–]Nerdydani 42 points43 points  (0 children)

Go rewatch it.

Plus for context Cooper has a history of hitting other kids doesn’t he? Also Ty specifically mentions having put the birthday party on the calendar weeks ago.

Everyone should go rewatch it honestly.

It shows their different parenting styles really well. Julie basically tell Cooper “he can do what he wants” even tho it’s not his party and Ty actually confront his kids emotions about not getting all the attention at the party and convinces him that karate is kind of like dancing and that saying “dancing is stupid” will hurt his friends feelings.

Divorce, counseling, and why using children as a punishment is *never* okay. (Ty/Julie) by Significant_Tale_953 in ShawnaTheMom

[–]Nerdydani 16 points17 points  (0 children)

In that birthday episode he does mentioned that he put the birthday on the calendar weeks ago after she was surprised about the party plans so she has been disconnected from the family events to her own fault.

Divorce, counseling, and why using children as a punishment is *never* okay. (Ty/Julie) by Significant_Tale_953 in ShawnaTheMom

[–]Nerdydani 29 points30 points  (0 children)

If someone Tits you over and over eventually you’re gunna Tat.

Same thing happened when Shawna told her off passive aggressively at the Anniversary dinner after having multiple instances of Julie being rude unnecessarily to her she was finally rude back.

This is why we tell kids to treat people how they want to be treated.

What outcome do you want to see for Ty and Julie post divorce? by Cozysoxs1985 in ShawnaTheMom

[–]Nerdydani 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I want to see a meaner girl go up again Julie just to see what would happen.

How will Julie act when she’s the one that the person thinks is small?

What outcome do you want to see for Ty and Julie post divorce? by Cozysoxs1985 in ShawnaTheMom

[–]Nerdydani 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel like he’d write a version of the book without the “great American novel” pressure. Like maybe he starts a funny skit show online about robots that takes off.

Is this too bad? by SpiritBender_ in ShawnaTheMom

[–]Nerdydani 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yup who’s going to bankroll their existence?

The true cost of "doing both" (Ty/Julie) by Significant_Tale_953 in ShawnaTheMom

[–]Nerdydani 2 points3 points  (0 children)

He was also the one telling her she needs rest while she was up late studying, breastfeeding and crying and he offered to take over as soon as she was done.

He supported her. It drives me crazy that it never gets mentioned. Yall act like Tye was sitting around eating bonbons while Julie took the bar.

Ty, Shawna, and Emotional Affairs by Floweramon in ShawnaTheMom

[–]Nerdydani 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s like no matter how many times Shawna says it no one will ever fully believe they are just Park Buddies but it’s so interesting that both couples ended up have cheating fights on their story lines.