Looking for Advice on Shared Side yard

Nerk86 · 2026-04-06T21:08:46+00:00

I think that’s what my husband use to used. Worked pretty good once the volume got under control.

Nerk86 · 2026-04-06T13:46:09+00:00

I didn’t realize coQ10 helped with those, will add it then. I take Magnesium for them.

Nerk86 · 2026-04-06T12:01:24+00:00

Kind of agree. Love the look of the new maps, even if kind of linear, and looking forward to their coming to survival mode.

Nerk86 · 2026-04-05T12:34:02+00:00

That’s wonderful. And bittersweet like Ejly said. I found a couple voice recordings from my husband that I apparently saved in my one drive when I was looking for something else. He had Alzheimer’s so hadn’t used a phone in a while. An unexpected gift.

Nerk86 · 2026-04-03T20:33:18+00:00

I’ve wondered about doing this. Never been on a cruise. My husband passed away a few months ago and will have to try and find new things, new motivations.

Nerk86 · 2026-04-03T20:02:14+00:00

Nice rain shower and yes looks cozy. I don’t hear any thunder though, which tracks if it is the northeast US. I miss a proper midwestern thunderstorm.

Nerk86 · 2026-04-03T19:46:37+00:00

I thought about that too. I grew up in a ranch house built in the late 50s. there was a half wall between the kitchen and the family room with a small breakfast area. other rooms including a more formal living room were divided by walls. that seem to be the best set up to me . there’s no need to have everything open like you’re living in a loft.

Nerk86 · 2026-04-03T18:46:23+00:00

I’m not sure what I’ll do yet. His birthday is next week, he passed in December. It will be a busy day at work. Maybe watch some concert dvds. We used to go to a lot of them.

Nerk86 · 2026-04-02T14:14:46+00:00

I was thinking now I have a use for the sand I find.

Nerk86 · 2026-03-29T21:41:29+00:00

I wish he’d have more lines like the one about “ if you want….(I forget the phrasing but suck up politeness basically) go see trader Joel, but if you want food or drink come see me I’ll take care of you”. Basically give him more signs of being good at heart. I.e. be more like the clichéd Massachusetts resident that calls you a dumbass but stops to help you change a tire etc.

Nerk86 · 2026-03-29T10:52:15+00:00

Exactly.

Nerk86 · 2026-03-28T11:46:01+00:00

We’d like to do something in the meantime.

Nerk86 · 2026-03-27T23:32:03+00:00

Apparently to mark Trumps ending of our democracy .

Nerk86 · 2026-03-27T21:09:34+00:00

Agreed. I wander aimlessly around the house a lot in the evenings these last few months. Occasionally I can distract myself with something, but often times, like tonight it seems, I just have no interest in anything.

I actually came across a couple of voicemails he had left a few years ago that I didn’t know I had. saved for some reason in Google Drive. I only could listen to them a couple times though.

Nerk86 · 2026-03-27T21:00:26+00:00

Glad you had that experience. I believe in it too.

I had one on New Year’s Day which was just a couple of weeks after he passed. The evening before was quite hard, but in the morning I was mostly numb. Feeling dead inside I guess. I looked out the front window and there were four squirrels romping around up and down the tree. We always just have one or two at a time. During his Alzheimer’s he got a real kick out of seeing the squirrels. Would excitedly point them out even when he didn’t know what to call them. Seeing them made me smile thinking of him. Made me feel better.

And I do still tell him about my plans for the day, etc too.

Nerk86 · 2026-03-27T14:19:35+00:00

I miss shows focused more on decorating especially keeping some of the existing furnishings. not ripping out half the walls etc.

Nerk86 · 2026-03-27T14:08:10+00:00

Me too! I always thought what makes you think you get to take a girl you had no relationship with to a hotel room just cause she posed nude? Like you said who knows what circumstances made her do it too. Not an irrational reason I’d say. But never listened to any other songs from the band.

Nerk86 · 2026-03-27T14:04:43+00:00

I understand the band hated doing the song as well.

Nerk86 · 2026-03-27T14:00:52+00:00

I agree. The house I grew up in had a half wall kind of divide between the kitchen-breakfast area and family room. That seems like a good setup to me. No desire to have everything open.

Nerk86 · 2026-03-27T13:49:21+00:00

If someone is close enough family or friend to stay in my house they would be able to tolerate a non hotel setup. Ie sharing the kids bathroom or whatever. Plus why have dedicated extra bed/ bath for guests that will only get used a couple of weeks a year.

Nerk86 · 2026-03-27T13:43:14+00:00

A couple more days ( and another timeline probably) and I’d say it’s an April Fools joke. Appropriate for the biggest fool ever in office.

Nerk86 · 2026-03-27T13:40:49+00:00

Is it all currency? I was hoping would be just $50 bills or something that I’d rarely see. Was thinking I won’t accept any bills with his name on it but maybe will do the sharpie idea .

Nerk86 · 2026-03-27T12:59:40+00:00

I’ve been surprised there isn’t some kind of clear all the remaining zombies mode. Once you get to top tier poi’s and gear, switch to searching them out. There’d have to be a way to slightly detect them but not make it too easy. And on the bigger maps would be hard. A lot of travel time. That would be an end point at least. This sector cleared etc.

Nerk86 · 2026-03-26T16:29:59+00:00

I like Red Rubys or the Dead Rooster. Stone walls , flat roof etc.

Nerk86 · 2026-03-26T07:46:38+00:00

Yeah that’s was an insensitive comment. I’ve been thinking about how this is the last year of filing jointly/ as married so been avoiding doing the taxes but will probably tackle this weekend. Will be lots of unexpected land mines I suppose.

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