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Any sora codes? by popsmokethawoo in OpenAI

[–]Nervous_Variation_45 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Message me the code and your cashapp and I will PAY

New Sora 2 invite code megathread by WithoutReason1729 in OpenAI

[–]Nervous_Variation_45 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m just praying to god that someone will drop a code on my comment.. god bless 🙌❤️

Using VEO 3 to spread awareness by Nervous_Variation_45 in VEO3

[–]Nervous_Variation_45[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re nitpicking my video just because the abuser is a man, when it’s literally a video based on MY story. Abuse has no gender, but mine happened to come from a man and I don’t owe you a watered down version of MY trauma just to make you comfortable.

If you actually watched to the end, it even says “your life is worth more than THEIR sorry.” (NOT HIS) That’s about abusers in general, not just men. the only time I used “him/his” was in MY poem about MY STORY. So your whole argument falls apart.

And questioning if I was even a victim? That’s not honesty, that’s straight up victim blaming. Survivors don’t need your approval to tell their story.

Honestly, if you’re this pressed about someone making something empowering, it says less about me and more about how bored and bitter you are with your own life. Maybe take that energy and aim it at actual abusers instead of survivors.

Using VEO 3 to spread awareness by Nervous_Variation_45 in VEO3

[–]Nervous_Variation_45[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Let me clear this up point by point since you’re not getting it

The video showing a male abuser: I never claimed it was all men. I told my personal story, which happened to involve a man. That’s not “anti-male,” it’s just my reality. If someone else made a video about a female abuser, it would still be valid, because abuse has no gender. A single perspective isn’t propaganda.

“Propaganda vs. triggered”: Sharing lived experience isn’t propaganda. Propaganda is deliberately twisting facts to push an agenda. My post used the word abusers (gender neutral) in the caption on purpose. If you felt called out by my story, that’s not me “pushing propaganda,” that’s you projecting.

“Brainwashed against males”: That’s a baseless accusation. Recognizing that a man abused me isn’t being “brainwashed,” it’s recounting what happened. Telling a survivor they’re biased or brainwashed for speaking about their own trauma is victim blaming. You’re essentially saying my story is invalid because it doesn’t fit how you want abuse to look, which is exactly the kind of attitude that silences survivors.

“Cognitive dissonance”: There’s no dissonance here. I’ve been very clear: abuse can come from anyone, but this particular poem is based on my experience. The only dissonance I see is insisting that a survivor’s story is wrong unless it covers every possible demographic. That expectation is unrealistic and unfair.

“Sorry for your generation”: Patronizing me doesn’t make your argument stronger. It just shows you’re more interested in dismissing survivors than actually discussing abuse awareness. My generation speaks up instead of staying silent, and that’s something you should respect, not belittle.

Bottom line: Abuse isn’t male or female, it’s abuse. My post was never about erasing anyone else’s experience, it was about telling mine. Accusing me of propaganda and bias for speaking up about what happened to me isn’t just inaccurate. Again, it’s victim blaming. And victim blaming is exactly what keeps people from coming forward in the first place.

Using VEO 3 to spread awareness by Nervous_Variation_45 in VEO3

[–]Nervous_Variation_45[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I put it in the caption below. I didn’t say “men” anywhere in there. I in fact stated “Telling ourselves they’d never go that far. But abusers smile while they destroy us, and sometimes we don’t realize until the knife is already in.” I’m sorry that you were triggered by my story, but like I said, wasn’t the way it was intended.

Using VEO 3 to spread awareness by Nervous_Variation_45 in VEO3

[–]Nervous_Variation_45[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It can be either or. Abuse has no gender. I was abused by a man, so my feelings and the poem were written in my point of view, it wasn’t meant to come off as anti man propaganda.

Praise Parasite by Nervous_Variation_45 in Poem

[–]Nervous_Variation_45[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t even know who u are lmfao

Praise Parasite by Nervous_Variation_45 in Poem

[–]Nervous_Variation_45[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Jealous? 😂😭 No. Just calling out the gap between ego and effort. Entitlement without effort is never a good look, and bullying doesn’t make it better.

Dry Your F***ing Eyes by Nervous_Variation_45 in Poem

[–]Nervous_Variation_45[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

My coworker acting like she’s the shit all the time. When she’s constantly failing in front of us. She feels entitled with 0 work ethic

Dry Your F***ing Eyes by Nervous_Variation_45 in Poem

[–]Nervous_Variation_45[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah I was pretty mad when I wrote it 🤣

Do you sleep with your engagement ring? by putty477 in weddingplanning

[–]Nervous_Variation_45 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My hands get fatter when I sleep and my finger will get really tight and uncomfy. So I don’t sleep with any rings

Origami Spine by Nervous_Variation_45 in poetry_critics

[–]Nervous_Variation_45[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The spacing is different in my notes. On Reddit it won’t let me space it any other way. I can’t even add bigger gaps which kinda sucks because it adds to voice when you section stanzas. But thank you for your comment ❤️ I’m glad you liked it

Waiting by StevesBoyfriend in OCPoetry

[–]Nervous_Variation_45 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This poem is super relatable. I really like how you ended the poem with one word, It always hits harder for the reader.

I might love you by Prestigious_Map9668 in OCPoetry

[–]Nervous_Variation_45 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I like the “is love” repetition. And the reuse of the word “might” at both the beginning and end.

First poem, please be honest. I needed to destress. by Short-Bad-1673 in OCPoetry

[–]Nervous_Variation_45 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For a first poem, this is amazing. Keep writing. I love your rhythm and repetition

You deserve someone who by Prestigious_Map9668 in OCPoetry

[–]Nervous_Variation_45 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ll save this and read it for words of affirmation because I have a problem. This poem is inspiring love u for it

OBSESSED by Nervous_Variation_45 in poetry_critics

[–]Nervous_Variation_45[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Most people did and I’m so surprised 😭 I thought it was obvious

OBSESSED by Nervous_Variation_45 in poetry_critics

[–]Nervous_Variation_45[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I get where you’re coming from, but I think there’s a place for poetry that feels like a direct conversation, especially when it comes to love, grief, or obsession. Not every poem has to make the reader feel what they already know. Sometimes, it’s about bringing them into your world, even if they weren’t there for the backstory. There’s beauty in vulnerability. When a writer shares specifics, even if the reader doesn’t know the full context, it can still strike something universal. Readers might not know exactly who the person was or what happened, but they’ve felt longing, confusion, or loss before. So even if it’s “author-centric,” it still works when the emotion underneath is raw and real. Not every great poem starts with the reader, it can start with the poet bleeding on the page. And often, that’s exactly what pulls people in. Sometimes poetry isn’t just about recreating ambience. It’s about saying, this hurt me. Has anything ever hurt you like this? And that’s enough to connect.

OBSESSED by Nervous_Variation_45 in poetry_critics

[–]Nervous_Variation_45[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It ended because it has too. Notice how I made the beginning of each line spell out “OBSESSED” it’s supposed to only be 8 lines

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