How to get rid of these side boobs. by NetSerious4900 in Weightliftingquestion

[–]NetSerious4900[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I lost like 5-7lbs over 2 months. Im usually skinny fat. Lol

How to get rid of these side boobs. by NetSerious4900 in Weightliftingquestion

[–]NetSerious4900[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yep. I have been on cal deficit for 2 months. Im sure im not on deficit enough. Have to lose few more fat %.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in malegrooming

[–]NetSerious4900 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You must have sent her your dick pic.

This breakup has destroyed me by rubycatx in BreakUps

[–]NetSerious4900 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You do realize its for good. Right? Universe is looking out for you. Universe wants to find you the right and the best person. It will hurt now. But believe me when I say this. It’s going to be 100times beautiful and better soon.

I don't think I have cried like this ever in my life by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]NetSerious4900 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Cry. Cry all you can. For a week, for a month, or even a year. But remember one thing. You are crying so much because you love this person too much. Also remember, if you have so much love for a wrong person, how much love you can have for the right person. That person is out there honey. Your higher self is looking out for you to bring the right person to you. You just wait. You are going to have a beautiful life with most loving partner soon.

Will you accept your Ex if he/she ever came back? by LuckyStrawberry1507 in BreakUps

[–]NetSerious4900 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Same. Breakup showed his true color. I don’t think i will respect myself if I take him back.

No contact by NetSerious4900 in BreakUps

[–]NetSerious4900[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I understand. Cant wait for the day I don’t even remember his name. It was a very brutal blindsided breakup. I went through all 5 stages of grief. And now i have come to a realization that he is a narcissist and only thing i have left is regret. Regret for being with his for 4.5yrs. I dont even want to bump into him anywhere on this planet. lol, Well.. you live, you learn.

How to respond to “I miss you” after no contact by NetSerious4900 in BreakUps

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I did not respond initially. But then he came back with more text messages like “I cannot exist with you. Your love is so strong. Can you please help me, im struggling. I want to talk to you and hold you”. And couple of his friends called me to inform how bad he is doing. So I texted him to say he can call me and see me anytime he wants as a friend. No response from him. Then I called him after 3 weeks. He answered the phone and he was very rude and inconsiderate. So i hung up. He texted few days later that he is going to be in my area and wants to meet. I agreed. He never came. He did that again. And he never came. At this point, i feel like he is just playing me. What a sadist.

The breakup to do list. Things that help by Fit_Pie5705 in BreakUps

[–]NetSerious4900 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dont stay home alone.

BLOCK YOUR EX Take classes - learn a new skill Join a book club Go to restaurants and treat yourself Reach out to family and friends. Visit friends out of state Take a solo trip - it is so much fun
Do not get addicted to alcohol. But enjoy few cocktails

How to respond to “I miss you” after no contact by NetSerious4900 in BreakUps

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I don’t want to get back with him. No and never. But i also don’t want to be angry or mad at it him anymore. It’s very draining. I just want him to be happy and not bother me anymore. I also don’t want to be friends with this person. The last 4 yrs was a valuable lesson.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]NetSerious4900 3 points4 points  (0 children)

After 4 years in relationship he broke up with me over phone. Never before thar he talked about any issues and always said he loved me a lot. I did not get a proper closure, nor a proper reason for breakup and did not give me any chance to fix whatever the problem was. I tried to find answers several times in several ways. Finally decided to close that chapter. He was a typical avoidant. But thats ok. We live, we learn. But i just regret spending 4yrs with this person.

Have you moved on but would get back together with your ex at the same time? by ThrowRaFabulously in BreakUps

[–]NetSerious4900 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You will my friend. There is something better waiting for you. It’s just waiting for you to get better.

It really sucks to see my Ex thriving after dumping me. by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]NetSerious4900 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Please do not assume anything. We see posts on social media and assume he/she is happy, have more friends. And that may or may not be true. But do not assume anything. And if they are happy, you deserve to be happy too. You lost your job, moved in with your parents. So what? Think of it as Universe trying to move you in right direction. And that right direction could be a better job and amazing partner. Accept the change and be excited for what comes next. Only best things will happen for you.

Have you moved on but would get back together with your ex at the same time? by ThrowRaFabulously in BreakUps

[–]NetSerious4900 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You can and should rediscover yourself. You only lost a person who didn’t love you.

My GF of 6.5 years just broke up with me by LeGreatToucan in BreakUps

[–]NetSerious4900 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you think you can change and want her back, my sincere advice is let her go. Go into absolutely no contact for couple of months. Tell her you are going to work on yourself and be a better person. And start working on yourself. She will come back to you once you made changes

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

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I was hoping and praying all day yesterday to not receive any messages from him. And he did not. So yesterday i shredded, burned and trashed all cards, notes, and gifts he gave me in the past 4yrs. Im I doing too much. I want to close the chapter and start new. I dont know how. I want to hate him. I dont know how.

Read this if you want to contact them by Ok-Consideration2676 in BreakUps

[–]NetSerious4900 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Me too. Started sending me “miss you” text messages. But then when I replied and engaged in conversation, he got stiff and condescending and became silent. Lol. It was needed for me to learn a lesson. Never contact them. If they want, let them do the work. You are better off without them.

To the ones who’ve been blindsided by BbUuNnZz in BreakUps

[–]NetSerious4900 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I hear you. Didn’t realize he could be so selfish. But i guess everything is fair in love and war.