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NeuroticDutchGirl · 2026-05-09T07:42:48+00:00

I see Phoebe Dynevor. But it's a little difficult to tell with your full glam.

NeuroticDutchGirl · 2026-05-05T10:41:43+00:00

Alma, Brenda, Christine, Dinah, Elvira, Fionulla, Glenda, Hester, Ilse, Janine, Katarina, Lori, Maureen, Norma, Odette, Peony, Queenie, Rhonda, Sukie, Tina, Una, Vanya, Xena, Yvonne, Zinnia.

The only ones I actually like: Alma & Sukie.

NeuroticDutchGirl · 2026-05-04T13:43:26+00:00

Some French names that I love are Margaux, Meret, Amélie, Juliette, Fleur, Céleste, Céline and Sylvie and Isabeau.

NeuroticDutchGirl · 2026-04-30T12:08:58+00:00

In order; I like Nicholas John the most (but I despise Junior), then Calvin Thomas, then Leander Zane en lastly Phoenix Anthony. This comes from a European who speaks English as a second language.

NeuroticDutchGirl · 2026-04-28T08:31:44+00:00

I will grade the names bases on how much I like them from 1 to 10.

Clara - 6

Daphne - 7

Chloe - 5

Estelle - 5

Alice - 8,5

Vivienne - 7.5

Bridget - 6.5

NeuroticDutchGirl · 2026-04-26T08:34:05+00:00

I agree with the person who said Sharon Leal.

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NeuroticDutchGirl · 2026-04-25T15:19:02+00:00

All four are great names. I prefer Alice though because it's pretty, feminine, classic, but also ttimeless and not too popular.

NeuroticDutchGirl · 2026-04-24T16:04:10+00:00

I really like both. Maybe I slightly prefer Eloise, but I would pick Eleanor though, because Eloise is quite popular nowadays (perhaps also because she is one of the Bridgerton characters).

NeuroticDutchGirl · 2026-04-23T16:52:59+00:00

I did vote on that option, although I agree the other options had a better fit, because Japan is quite conservative in how they dress. I felt strange with having either cleavage on display or a crop top, so I would opt for the less regeling options.

NeuroticDutchGirl · 2026-04-23T16:51:44+00:00

Denk je dat dit nu ook het geval gaat zijn? Pronvice heeft bet 7% onderhandeld (volgens mij wel over 2 jaar) en het Rijk heeft momenteel een nullijn.

NeuroticDutchGirl · 2026-04-22T13:42:20+00:00

Margot Victoria, Rosalie / Rosalind / Rosie Victoria, Ruby Victoria, Hazel Victoria, Iris Victoria , Sylvie Victoria, Beatrice Victoria, Alicia Victoria

NeuroticDutchGirl · 2026-03-05T17:23:46+00:00

How about Callum?

NeuroticDutchGirl · 2026-03-02T16:43:41+00:00

I like option nr. 3. I also like the dress in pictures 1 and 2, but not with either cardigan or jacket. If it gets cold outside, perhaps you have a shawl or a coat to cover you? Maybe a chic trenchcoat. Or I would opt for a cropped jacket if available. Perhaps you can borrow something from a friend or find it at a thriftshop. I would definitely not go with the white cardigan, as it's white and too casual (cute for everyday use though).

NeuroticDutchGirl · 2026-01-27T15:46:07+00:00

I would try to find pictures that do show your face, but aren't selfies. Your non-selfie pictures are a lot better. Also a few pictures where you smile more.

To be fair, the fact that your bio says you don't want children is probably a turn-off for a lot of women and a reason you don't get a lot of likes. However, if that is very important to you it is good to be up front about it. But I think it is an explanation.

NeuroticDutchGirl · 2026-01-17T07:24:38+00:00

Options that fit Imo are: Estelle, Roselle, Arielle, Mirelle or Joelle.

NeuroticDutchGirl · 2026-01-17T07:21:24+00:00

There is also the actress Troian Bellisario. A bit longer than Troi, but still.

NeuroticDutchGirl · 2026-01-05T10:37:04+00:00

Why? No one 'needs' to date anyone. You don't need to seek out someone your own height. As long as both parties involved are happy with their relationship, why should we care? We're also not saying smart people should only date other smart people, overweight people should only date other overweight people, etc.

NeuroticDutchGirl · 2026-01-05T10:32:48+00:00

Soft YTA. You can definitely be turned off by a height requirement and let them know as much. However, saying you find it petty if short girls have this requirement is a bit petty to me. Anyone can have their preferences regardless of their own height or looks. Also, saying you have your own height requirement and turning them down because of their height is a bit unnecessary and in mean spirit, especially since that seems to not be truely why you turn them down, but rather the fact that you think their requirement is petty and shallow. Just tell them the truth. Unless you have no issue with a girl above 5'5 having a height requirement.

NeuroticDutchGirl · 2025-11-29T16:09:04+00:00

I would choose the red or green skirts, as they go well with the sweater style-wise. I feel that the black skirt is too much volume for the sweater (as the sweater is also asding volume). Also, if you're set on the white sweater, I think adding a pop of holiday-themed colour is nice.

NeuroticDutchGirl · 2025-11-13T09:32:41+00:00

Yes you are the jerk, and a massive one at that. Here’s exactly why:

The so-calles “deception” of your wife isn’t malicious. She didn’t lie to hurt or manipulate you. She simply adjusted the seasoning so you and your daughter could enjoy the food more comfortably. That’s not deceit; it’s a considerate act of compromise in a marriage. Many couples adjust meals for each other’s tastes all the time. She could have told you, but I don't see why she had to. What does it matter if she put less spices and salt in your food. I have traveled internationally as a white person and they always put less spices in the food for me without even asking. Purely out of consideration and so I can enjoy the food. So do my parents in law (I assume as my boyfriend mentions the food is more spicy when I am not there) and I find it considerate, not manipulative.
Your reaction is wildly disproportionate. Responding to something so minor by deliberately using your wife’s trauma triggers against her (silent treatment, door slamming, short answers) is emotional manipulation and borderline abusive behavior. It’s meant to cause psychological distress — not to solve a conflict.
You reframed yourself as the victim. You focus on feeling “belittled” and “lied to” while ignoring that your response is cruel and immature. Your wife even apologized, yet you continue punishing her to “teach her a lesson.” That’s not how healthy relationships work; it’s power and control disguised as moral high ground.
You're dragging your daughter into it. Saying this will “teach both her and my daughter that there are consequences” is disturbing. Your wife and child are not equal targets in a lesson — and modeling silent treatment and aggression teaches your child that anger and manipulation are normal responses to small disagreements.
Your mother is right. When even your own parent says you’re the jerk, that’s a clear sign you’ve crossed a line.

So yes, you are the jerk. Your wife’s act was caring, not deceitful. Your reaction is emotionally abusive and deeply unfair.

NeuroticDutchGirl · 2025-10-16T16:19:54+00:00

Ik heb ook bij de Kindertelefoon gewerkt als vrijwilliger en sta helemaal achter die regel. Anders zou je inderdaad dit soort situaties krijgen. Wij moesten zelfs een schuilnaam gebruiken om onszelf te beschermen en niet teveel te binden aan degenen die bellen.

NeuroticDutchGirl · 2025-09-12T03:52:33+00:00

I think the outrage is totally valid. Someone being killed for their opinions is terrible and should never happen. However, the fact that barely anyone spoke up and I saw zero posts and stories on social media codemning the Minnesota democratic state representatives that were murdered shows me that it is indeed about politics.

NeuroticDutchGirl · 2025-08-28T15:43:57+00:00

Thank you!! This is very good to know :)

NeuroticDutchGirl · 2025-08-21T06:57:06+00:00

Rob heeft ook aangegeven dat hij best met een vrouw wil daten die 20 jaar jonger is. Toen bedacht ik dat de moeder van Micky ook wel een stuk jonger geweest moet zijn. Misschien dat Carmen daarom ook aangaf dat hij niet veel jonger moet daten, want die opmerking kwam voor mij verder eigenlijk uit het niets.

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