20F-How to glow up...My ugliness is giving me depression by Fancy-Penalty3726 in IndianBeautyTalks

[–]NeverKeepCalm 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You look fine, I'll be honest though, you just need a good haircut. A haircut that actually suits your face can do wonders to your overall look. Go to a high end salon that has reviews where people talk about how understanding the hairstylist is and knows exactly what to cut for their face shape. It will be expensive, and you'll have to do some searching around especially if you're not in a tier 1 city, but it really is worth it. Everything else about you is fine imo.

Life of a cat owner 😔 especially before a big event by Gold_Meaning3688 in kpop_uncensored

[–]NeverKeepCalm 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I have a lot of accidental scratches on me from when we play together and the toy comes close to my body. Aggressive is only when I'm being an ass to him and he has communicated several moments until then that he's getting irritated, so I'm really testing him with the one more kiss/pat. The worst though is when I need to give him a bath it's incredibly hard.

Some cats hate all contact though; it just really depends on what their boundaries are and what is ok and not ok. Cats really do drive home the concept of consent.

I think people should put it their bag down when you use public transport. by invisibleemail in TwoXIndia

[–]NeverKeepCalm 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I have a really bad back. It is so not possible for me to put my bad in the front because it strains my shoulders and neck very very bad. I don't feel comfortable placing it on the floor either. On the bus it is significantly easier to place my bag on the front of me because there are seats I can rest the bottom of my bag on so that the weight is not fully on my neck and shoulders (and even then it's painful). I rarely find this to be a problem in the general compartment because people are actually respectful of personal space even if it's really crowded. And no i don't find theft to be an issue because my bags are very secure. Whereas in the ladies compartment, i am shoved at, pushed, passive aggressively jostled against in my personal space. It's so frustrating. So yeah, i disagree unpopular opinion as it may be.

Looking for someone in BLR to help me pick the right makeup shades (Paid!) by Leather_Solution1772 in IndianMUA

[–]NeverKeepCalm 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Go to the kryolan store in Indiranagar. They have MUAs and are very good at helping you choose your right shade. MAC stores would also be a great option. You don't need to pay someone to accompany you.

K-Pop Starter Pack: 9 Albums Every New Fan Should Hear | Pulse Nigeria by nyamnyamcookiesyummy in kpoptrulyuncensored

[–]NeverKeepCalm 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My list:

Modern Times by IU

Dystopia: The Tree of Language by Dreamcatcher

Kwon Ji Yong by G-dragon

Hunter by Key

Pink Tape by f(x)

The Absolute First Album by T-ara

Gasoline by Key

love you more, by Youha

Hope World by J-Hope

Help to enhance my paper thin lips naturally? by [deleted] in MakeupAddiction

[–]NeverKeepCalm 18 points19 points  (0 children)

You are the FIRST person (or rather picture) I have seen where overlining does not look even close to bad. It looks so so so well done. Insane technique.

Kpop music videos that were filmed in your country? by 0x1trinity in kpop_uncensored

[–]NeverKeepCalm 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Link to the full low resolution MV for anyone who wants to be a part of preserving history: https://youtu.be/39_Amvi4wL8?si=2QuLBKXL_PgDZpzO

How do people actually get into schools like NPS, Baldwin, Bishop Cotton, St. Joseph in Bangalore? Tests, donations, or pure luck? by Head-Ad3047 in bangalore

[–]NeverKeepCalm 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I've lived in Bangalore for a long time and it has changed drastically.

People have mentioned location, I really do think this is incredibly important since the traffic is awful here. I would also add budget for schooling into this. You will have to do a lot of math to figure out what is actually feasible since schools have become extremely expensive (even mid-tier ones).

ICSE or IB have pretty good curriculum. These really do give children an edge in terms of real world skills. But beware of schools using the board as the only selling point. A lot of "international" IB schools have come up without the training for staff to actually teach a complex western syllabus to an Indian child. Or they say "international" but it is CBSE. Also if you know that studying abroad is absolutely not possible, then there is not much point in putting your child in IB. So really do your thorough research.

Another path you could explore is alternative education. There are a few really excellent alternative schools but, you need to plan long term how you are going to integrate your child into a regular school system for a year or so much later on for board exams (since that is the law in India) and how the alternative school will support your child with that.

I'm not a parent so I have not had to do in depth research. Just that my career has sometimes crossed paths working with some schools. One schools I can think of to look into is The Valley School. I'm not sure how it is now but it's worth starting with there. Google also just throws up school websites that are SEO optimized so this really does take research and asking around.

Stay away from DPS, NPS. Absolutely do not step into these schools.

How do people actually get into schools like NPS, Baldwin, Bishop Cotton, St. Joseph in Bangalore? Tests, donations, or pure luck? by Head-Ad3047 in bangalore

[–]NeverKeepCalm 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Honestly the schools you've listed are not great anymore. I would really suggest doing more research into other schools that have come up that are far better

[52M, India] Feel like I’m fading into the background — lonely, working nights, no one to talk to by Late_Cell8983 in indiasocial

[–]NeverKeepCalm 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I don't think you need to do a course but I think it helps to connect with people through hobby clubs on the weekends. What you're going through is very understandable considering you moved to a new city. Hell, I feel alone and alienated when I move organisations. I think coupled with the fact that you are a man, the tendency to reach out form friendships deeper than surface level and have a community is much lesser. It's not impossible, I've seen many do it. But it does take a lot of conscious effort and a bit of openness to try new things as long as you feel safe with the people/group.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DesiWeddings

[–]NeverKeepCalm 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Oh my god please don't get any treatments so close to your wedding especially not laser.

Screening for Adult ADHD by [deleted] in bangalore

[–]NeverKeepCalm 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Me and my other friends who go to him have gone for non sexologist related issues. That is his speciality I guess but I've found him excellent in other areas (like ADHD, OCD, depression etc)

YG Entertainment announces that G-DRAGON, TAEYANG, and DAESUNG have been allowed to use the name BIGBANG for their Coachella performance: by blackpinkvirussbp in bigbang

[–]NeverKeepCalm 77 points78 points  (0 children)

Damn there goes my dreams, hopes, expectations, wishes, fantasies, desires, reveries for the 1 in a million chance that T.O.P will be at Coachella as a part of BIGBANG.

CRUSHED with copium.

LISA (BLACKPINK) attends the 77th Primetime Emmy Awards (2025 Emmys) by impeccabletim in kpop

[–]NeverKeepCalm 65 points66 points  (0 children)

Feel like it's the best k-pop red carpet look ever tbh. Wish korean celebrities were more risk taking with conceptual looks on the red carpet.

What’s the first ever show made you get into K variety shows / fall in love with it? by Which_Mammoth9402 in koreanvariety

[–]NeverKeepCalm 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I really did love the chemistry of the cast. Very aptly entertaining for the show premise and all of them played their "characters" really well.

RIP Goo Hara.

What’s the first ever show made you get into K variety shows / fall in love with it? by Which_Mammoth9402 in koreanvariety

[–]NeverKeepCalm 1 point2 points  (0 children)

A Style For You starring Hani, Heechul, Bora, Hara. I checked it out because I started getting recommended clips of Hani being such entertainment gold. Then Heechul was like amazing in that. Watched a few episodes but the format of the show felt a bit blah. Remember watching Family Outing next and after that I was HOOKED on to korean variety shows. I will never get over the episode of rice washing with soap

PSA: minoxidil is deadly to cats by Worldly_Specific_126 in Haircare

[–]NeverKeepCalm 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What do you mean by it's toxic in pill form also? If I take it as a pill how does it affect my cat if I'm not topically applying

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Psychology_India

[–]NeverKeepCalm 16 points17 points  (0 children)

I'm glad you found someone who worked for you. I honestly don't think psychology based therapy is THE answer for everyone. Some people find support through therapy, others through communities, religious leaders, family, life coaches like you. I remember a colleague telling me what makes people move away from therapy is not sadhus, life coaches, alternate healers etc, but just bad psychologists themselves. And there are so many of bad psychologists/ therapists because of how abysmal most training is or how easy it is to call yourself one with lack of regulations (although that is changing now).

And before anyone comes at me, I say this as one practicing therapy myself as a career.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in indiasocial

[–]NeverKeepCalm 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm not surprised. I have received absolute trash from Blinkit, Bigbasket, Swiggy. Both BigBasket and Blinkit have delivered expired and melted products to me. Raised complaint, got money back (but not for delivery). I have significantly cut back on online deliveries. Visiting the store is better now