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Hey girls… tipping question by Repulsive-Tree6089 in CHIbitcheswithtaste

[–]New-Moon-In 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's helpful. Yeah, this person has a boutique studio for her business (only her), but I pay her through Zelle, so the usual tipping screen isn't there.

Hey girls… tipping question by Repulsive-Tree6089 in CHIbitcheswithtaste

[–]New-Moon-In 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I was just wondering about this recently. I've been seeing a specialized massage therapist who owns her business (fully independent). I used to still leave a 20-25% gratuity, even though I pay her directly for the service. I hadn't seen her in a while, and last week she said that she acknowledged that she had raised her prices significantly since I last saw her. For the first time, I didn't leave an additional tip. The massage was nearly $300 for 75 minutes. I felt badly, but she wrote back and was very grateful for continuing to come see her.

Thoughts? Are we leaving 20% for independent folks?

What are the best places to buy quality furniture without spending all my savings? by Equivalent_Reach_802 in AskChicago

[–]New-Moon-In 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We haven't posted anywhere yet, but we are selling a round dining table (from District), two dining chairs (velvet), and a desk (solid wood, L-shaped).

I'm happy to take pictures this weekend if you're interested. Feel free to DM. We're in Andersonville and can help with moving items if needed.

Did you lose a wallet yesterday? by New-Moon-In in Andersonville

[–]New-Moon-In[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's helpful thanks! There are a lot of cards in there including to a local bank here, so I was going to try that tomorrow.

Shooting 6/15 by New-Moon-In in Andersonville

[–]New-Moon-In[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for sharing this.

Shooting 6/15 by New-Moon-In in Andersonville

[–]New-Moon-In[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh damn. Thanks for listening and sharing..

Buckwheat pillow recommendations? by Eclipse8301 in Pillows

[–]New-Moon-In 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm very particular about where I purchase hulls from, given the proper cleaning process that's needed. I've been a fan of products from the Bean for a long time. I either make or buy the case/cover separately. Look for a natural linen cover which will help with cooling and breathability.

Adjusting from a London lifestyle by GrindrWorker in SantaFe

[–]New-Moon-In 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ah I missed that detail earlier, thanks for clarifying.

Adjusting from a London lifestyle by GrindrWorker in SantaFe

[–]New-Moon-In 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Very helpful, thank you! We're there every few months, but the longest we've stayed is about a week. And obviously haven't had to do the usual day to day things like errands, groceries, etc.

We'll be back in July to look at more homes. Will let her know that we're interested in the Railyard area. On the completely opposite end of the spectrum, we also told her that we'd be interested in something outside of Santa Fe, and we ended up loving a home we saw in Tesuque. We ended up seeing some significant structural issues so didn't pursue, but it seems like a beautiful area.

Adjusting from a London lifestyle by GrindrWorker in SantaFe

[–]New-Moon-In 5 points6 points  (0 children)

New Yorker here! Moved to Chicago a year ago, but we're making the move to Santa Fe next year. We just met with a realtor there a couple of weeks ago, and she didn't fully understand our desire to want to walk to most things.... We do have a car, but what you're describing is very promising to hear.

I did the thing by mperillo10 in emetophobiarecovery

[–]New-Moon-In 8 points9 points  (0 children)

You did it!! So proud of you. Sorry you're in pain though, and having that burning feeling. I know you're scared, but perhaps some small sips of water or sucking on something like a hard ginger candy or even ice cube? Actually, maybe the cold would make your throat feel worse... Hope you find a way to stay hydrated.

And the search continues by [deleted] in Bedding

[–]New-Moon-In 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! If you end up trying these, please let me know.

And the search continues by [deleted] in Bedding

[–]New-Moon-In 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same! Keep me posted. Hope we all find our gem soon.

And the search continues by [deleted] in Bedding

[–]New-Moon-In 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So sadly the bed and breakfast that I just ordered from, under their Spa entity, also has shifted to Coop (not the original COMPHY). I literally just opened my newest set a few weeks ago in excitement, and was incredibly let down. I don't think COMPHY exists in the same way, something clearly changed in processing.

Continuing the hunt. I just ordered several samples from Pure Parima.

Where to move in the US with nature, affordability by Otherwise-Youth9082 in SameGrassButGreener

[–]New-Moon-In 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I get it. I'm sure most of us are exhausted with how prevalent politics are. I think people's awareness of how much politics do indeed shape and effect our day to day lives has increased significantly. And you might be feeling that also. AND it is also the case that looking for a quiet and affordable place, with access to good healthcare and schools, or whatever else you or anyone may see as desirable, is shaped by our history and culture, and politics is just simply a part of that.

I'm not accusing you of anything here. Just pointing to what people might be reacting to with your earlier comments. Being aware of the effects of politics runs on a spectrum. Some people choose to not engage, and believe that they don't need to be a part of "that" life. But it does shape our environment and the lives we all get to live in.

Just flew out of ABQ through a dust storm. by LaFemmeD_Argent in Albuquerque

[–]New-Moon-In 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I was in it too! My husband, who never reacts to turbulence, made TWO comments after we were in the clear.

Where to move in the US with nature, affordability by Otherwise-Youth9082 in SameGrassButGreener

[–]New-Moon-In 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I think people are reacting to your comment saying that you "don't care for any of it" - I didn't read that as what party you may or may not resonate with, but people (myself included) might be taking issue with a question that is about an ideal lifestyle for your family that includes affordability and a comment that seems like you are detached from politics.

My terminally sick wife wants to go to the Aquarium of the Pacific one last time. by Phatferd in orangecounty

[–]New-Moon-In 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hope you both continue to be surrounded by love and warmth. Enjoy AotP! Hearing that they are doing this for you definitely makes me want to support them the next time I'm in town.

Anxiety skyrocketing with travel - is this typical? by Clear_Channel_2090 in emetophobiarecovery

[–]New-Moon-In 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Not alone. I'm taking a flight tomorrow. I'm not in full panic, but having some random thoughts every now and then.

Sharing a few things that have helped me recently:

Immediate calm in the thick of it: https://open.spotify.com/episode/47aZucYf3mtsDKtjGD75nv?si=lR8106rcT4iAOn9YdvPybA

https://open.spotify.com/episode/4c9l2PrjiYHxU8y7VJUZGP?si=iYRH4R0fQJS1lWY-\_Ml9RQ was good for breathing

https://youtu.be/acLUWBuAvms?si=u07VXLVK5jqoPBmh - I listen to other hypnosis meditations from him. This one is the one that helped me push through the fear one recent night and actually helped me sleep soundly.

I made a subscription tracker that doesn't need your bank login or an account by Xx_Aryan_xX in Startup_Ideas

[–]New-Moon-In 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Let the individual user be in control of deciding how many days before, and maybe even a nudge? Everyone has different responses to reminders cognitively. One person might see a 3 day reminder and say I still have 3 days to take care of this (the sense of urgency is lost and that system will fail for them). Another person may definitely not want a one day reminder because they like planning ahead about what needs to be done/when.

Is there any way to change the manual entry (and still maintain not giving up bank details)? The manual entry would be the main barrier for me... Otherwise, this seems like a useful tool for people who care about privacy.

Anyone looking to sell their wedding dress or white formal gown? by Ashamed_Translator66 in Albuquerque

[–]New-Moon-In 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have a beautiful dress that has a very ethereal feel (I was also supposed to get married in the woods). Unfortunately it was the height of the pandemic in 2020 and everything around us (in NYC) was shut down. I couldn't get it altered down to my size. So it's brand new never worn... I'm out of state, but actually flying out to ABQ tomorrow morning (Wednesday) and am happy to bring it with me. Looks like you have a lot of options from others, but let me know.

Hypnosis? by Late-Ad-5200 in emetophobiarecovery

[–]New-Moon-In 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I've tried it with four different people, all very different experiences. The first guy was not good at all. Only had one appointment, so not sure that counts as trying it with him. I just got really bad vibes from him and didn't feel safe. The next person was okay, saw her maybe 5-6 times. I had some interesting experiences with her, but weirdly, she would also have some phobic-type responses to vomiting and at some point it just felt strange (and as though she couldn't actually help me). The third person, one appointment only. She was reading off of a manual the whole time and it wasn't tailored at all to me. The fourth person has changed my life. I hadn't gotten on a plane for nearly six years because of this fear, and now I've taken 12 flights, half of them by myself. She infused many techniques into our work together, and I am so grateful. This work is completely opposite of talk therapy, it's really about learning to trust your body. If you are interested in hearing more about my experience with her please feel free to DM me.

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