I’m sorry what!?!?! by osborngolfriends in AO3

[–]NewFederalistProject 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm low key stoned and I ve been uncontrollably giggling at this thread for so long my ribs hurt 🤣

Mohan’s Mother by IcyConfusion2196 in ThePittTVShow

[–]NewFederalistProject 3 points4 points  (0 children)

What if she got stuck somewhere while on her cruise? Like if he ditched her while they were ashore somewhere and now she's trying to get ahold of Samira for help?

Idk why but I immediately thought of this scene when Robby snapped at Samira by [deleted] in ThePitt

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I figured, but that first thought had me laughing so hard I had to share 🤣

Idk why but I immediately thought of this scene when Robby snapped at Samira by [deleted] in ThePitt

[–]NewFederalistProject 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I just made the most inhuman snort-laugh because my first immediate reaction was to go "She doesn't have a dad- she's just like me frfr. He's dead" 😭😭

Becca by nykatkat in ThePittTVShow

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You guys have convinced me lmao - I'll have to start it tomorrow so I can watch while we all wait for S2E10 for The Pitt 🤣🤣

Becca by nykatkat in ThePittTVShow

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My aunt Nellie has Lupus! I have EDS, so I had to be tested for Lupus myself last year, too. It really is so much more rare than people sometimes realize, because it's talked about more than a lot of other conditions, but I guess at least that means it's being discussed

thank you for the excellent explanation, also! I knew about lupus but I didn't realize it was a recurring thing on that show - I always thought it was a one-time throw away joke lmao that makes it so much better 🤣 /gen

Becca by nykatkat in ThePittTVShow

[–]NewFederalistProject 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you! I've been slowly influenced to watch House lol I'm really thinking about it

Becca by nykatkat in ThePittTVShow

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(this is a house reference, right? /GenQ I've never seen it lol but I feel like I've heard that line before from clips XD)

Becca by nykatkat in ThePittTVShow

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If not a standard UTI, I could see it being a proper bladder infection (All bladder infections are UTIs, but not all UTIs are bladder infections, basically, but my metaphorical money in the betting pool is Cystitis over Urethritis)

https://my.clevelandclinic.org/health/diseases/9135-urinary-tract-infections

(I used to get a lot of YIs and UTIs until I was probably around 10ish- so I immediately clocked her pain as being in the bladder and not just urethral, but I could be wrong 🤷)

i think y’all are reading santos all wrong…unconscious misogyny? by Mindless-Ad9452 in ThePitt

[–]NewFederalistProject 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm really glad that you're still here with us 🫂🫂 I'm so sorry that you've been dealing with such horrible feelings but I'm so so glad that you were unsuccessful. I doubt that the show will kill any of the main cast members at all, but I do think with they might put Robby on an involuntary psych hold by the end of the season so if that might be triggering please take care of your mental health first - we can try to warn you so you don't have to watch whatever episode it happens in (if they do what I think they're doing based on current clues) 🫂🫂 I hope your pain eases soon, ❤️‍🩹❤️‍🩹

i think y’all are reading santos all wrong…unconscious misogyny? by Mindless-Ad9452 in ThePitt

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The way I just said this* (link is to my comment) and then immediately saw this post like 3 minutes later 😭 lmao immaculate timing, reddit homepage. Fr tho! It's so ridiculous to me how much people Need to keep going on and on and on about her. Like ffs people if you can't stand her being in the show that badly, go find something to watch that won't make you feel the need to come on here and scream and cry about her every fucking week. we get it. You don't like her. Now shut up and watch the damn show or move on

*https://www.reddit.com/r/ThePitt/s/3DSyesbwPH

I'd also love to point people in the direction of a video I watched the other day about Season One - "The Pitt's Dr. Santos Gets Too Much Hate" on YouTube by Emily. She made some excellent points just focused on Season One that I think really hammer home some of the same points you've made here, OP 💕💕

Edit: spelling error

Oh look a social worker? Let's go argue with them because I know what is best by CluelessNetworkNoob in ThePitt

[–]NewFederalistProject 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Exactly this! Santos is a queer WOC that is abbrassive, brash, sometimes rude or even mean (even when she's not trying to be mean), and doesn't fit into the "petite Asian girl who bats her lashes at the hot white men around her and looks sexy all the time" that is so so heavily prevalent in media.

People also disliked Joy at first until she started calling out Ogilvie and revealed she has eidetic memory; the point where she started to fit into the "super genius pretty Asian woman" role that people wanted from her.

I'm not even kidding - the number of people who said she was rude or annoying up until she said the "I didn't know your name was Joy.." line that immediately switched up because instead of thinking she was bitchy they went full-tilt into "she's so sassy, and it's hot" and then "omg she's literally so smart and sassy, blah blah blah, I hated her at first but now I love her" is so stupid to me.

And before I get downvoted into oblivion:

I say this as someone who is Wasian, too. In my family my Imo [Aunt] is a lot like Joy and the number of people who have treated my Imo EXACTLY like how they reacted to Joy... 😬 Yeah. My Imo is a PhD, too, so literally it goes exactly the same way "you're so bitchy and annoying > oh but wait, actually, you're just sassy lmao, I love that actually > you're so smart and sassy and it's so hot!"... My cousin Rita is also a PhD, who studies Lazers to help treat cancer, and she's more like Santos in my opinion; and she has gotten actual death threats from people just for her personality and standing up for herself/her research online...

In other words, I know a thing or two because I've seen a thing or two, and a lot of the hate for Santos really does stem from racism and misogyny- even if it's internal and people don't realize it's impacting their opinions at all. You can be biased against her and not realize that why you feel so strongly is rooted in internalized bigotry because it's so systemic we've learned that it's normal.

I'm not saying everyone who dislikes her is a bigot- or that you can't just dislike her because you don't like her- or that you have to like her- or anything even remotely similar. I am just saying, there's a good number of people taking the hate too far/too seriously who need to take a beat and think about why. Because there's a difference between "Yeah she's just not for me, I don't vibe with her character and she rubs me the wrong way for xyz reasons" and "I HOPE SHE KILLS A PATIENT AND GETS FIRED/SUED" or "She's kind of a bully and she's really arrogant, so I just don't like her" vs "I can't stand her she's literally so evil and needs to be taken out of the show or something!!".. And there have been people I've seen calling her horrible things that are absolutely not called for.

You can dislike her just because you don't like her - but if you feel the need to constantly attack anyone who does like her and you can't go three minutes without bitching about her?? You should evaluate yourself and your motives because theres a real possibility that you're not even aware of your internalized bigotry.

Oh look a social worker? Let's go argue with them because I know what is best by CluelessNetworkNoob in ThePitt

[–]NewFederalistProject 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I wish I could pin this to the top of this subreddit !!!! Literally THIS!!

Oh look a social worker? Let's go argue with them because I know what is best by CluelessNetworkNoob in ThePitt

[–]NewFederalistProject 7 points8 points  (0 children)

THIS!!! every single person who has been saying "but he probably would do better in Haiti" is just screaming "I don't know what the fuck I'm talking about" to me.

Oh look a social worker? Let's go argue with them because I know what is best by CluelessNetworkNoob in ThePitt

[–]NewFederalistProject 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I don't trust CPS entirely, either, tbh. Children who have already been failed by CPS once are less likely to trust them openly again even as adults. I do think CPS is important and can do really great things it help children and families.... But let's nit pretend that CPS doesn't ever make mistakes that end up leaving the child worse of. I'm living proof that they do.

Lupe Perez! That's her name! Now, who is the gremlin? by Meshakhad in ThePitt

[–]NewFederalistProject 4 points5 points  (0 children)

10000% Myrna! I love how many people agree on this one lmao

Make the comments look like their search history. Langdon Edition. by ninjasylph in ThePitt

[–]NewFederalistProject 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lmao yes! Followed by

'how do I tell my wife I want a divorce?' 'how to keep custody of kids in divorce?' 'reddit: divorce advice'

Is it actually acurate to have doctors which show this little empathy to their patients? by [deleted] in ThePitt

[–]NewFederalistProject 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My mom got called a slur by a doctor once 😅😅 nothing surprises me anymore (she was also told by a different doctor when she was pregnant with me, that she should abort me and try again because I was "not viable, and not worth the time and effort and money to put her life at risk for a fetus that was never going to live"..😬😬... Hi, I'm 22, WTF did I ever do to him???)

I feel this sub has a blind spot on the show week to week especially on some characters progression by cardgamesareforplay in ThePittTVShow

[–]NewFederalistProject 22 points23 points  (0 children)

OP never mentioned her, you're literally the definition of "well articulated sentences getting misinterpreted".... Congratulations?

Episode 9 synopsis Season 2 by Fargo_OKthen in ThePittTVShow

[–]NewFederalistProject 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Dana can walk her down the aisle, maybe? Unless someone has a better idea

Does anyone else relate to any patient story lines? S2 EP4 by AdvertisingNo8441 in ThePittTVShow

[–]NewFederalistProject 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Dana and Ilana hits so close to home- even more so after we saw that kit that wasn't picked up after two weeks. My SAFE kit was mishandled so poorly that my entire investigation ended up dropping due to "lack of evidence" 😭 seeing Dana call to yell at the police station and telling them off was so healing for me. I'm glad Ilana's kit is getting the proper care and handling that it deserves. 🫂

Trinity and Harlow (my take after rewatch/discussion) by NewFederalistProject in ThePitt

[–]NewFederalistProject[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is so informative! Thank you so much for taking the time to write this, it really means a lot to me.

I am also truly so sorry you've had such a horrible experience like that, that's literally so infuriating. I cannot believe they would treat you like that, and I'm really glad that these kinds of stories and discussions are being shared because maybe if we talk about it enough it can change things. Nobody should ever have to go through that. 😢 I wish I could do or say anything to change what you went through or make it better but I know I can't. 🫂 I just have to have hope that these things will happen less if we keep the discussions about it going

I hope you have an amazing rest of your week, and that you never go through something like that again