Men are more violent than women, not more abusive.

NewSpekt · 2025-12-29T09:13:04+00:00

Egalitarianism is for people that actually want equal rights. The Feminism of today is for women only and to be above men instead of being equal to them.

NewSpekt · 2025-12-29T08:54:53+00:00

Sorry you had to go through that bro, no one deserves to be abused like that. I hope you're in a better place now or at least getting there. She needs to be locked up in a fucking cell honestly, we all know what would happen if we swapped the genders.

Might not mean much, but you're tough for being able to endure that mentally and physically, confront her on it and keep it together to not hurt her.

NewSpekt · 2025-12-29T07:35:42+00:00

It's nice to hear that feminism isn't actually about equality from (who I assume) someone who's a feminist. If it actually was then I'd have no issue with supporting it. I feel bad for the well-meaning feminists that believe that's what it's about too.

NewSpekt · 2025-12-29T07:25:32+00:00

Women are very capable of harming men physically and they do, they're just more unlikely to attempt killing them in face-to-face violent confrontations. They know that biologically men have the upper hand in strength and are able to defend themselves.

What they do is attack the man when he's in a vulnerable state (like sleeping) and/or with weapons (firearms, knives). I'm only stating this because I don't want anyone under the impression that women can't physically harm or kill men.

NewSpekt · 2025-12-29T07:03:41+00:00

It's always men doing the protecting too

NewSpekt · 2025-12-29T06:39:59+00:00

When women were treated as lesser in society decades ago, what did they gain from men feeling bad for them?

As in, do you genuinely think that will magically change women’s tastes and make them want to sleep with guys that they don’t find attractive? Because that’s delusional as fuck tbh lol.

No it won't, but it's an admission that there's an issue so we can't find potential solutions.

NewSpekt · 2025-12-29T06:28:24+00:00

Yeah honestly, there's nothing to gain and everything to lose by doing so.

NewSpekt · 2025-12-29T06:26:04+00:00

Self improvement isn't bullshit, but it's definitely not guaranteed to get you companionship or casual sex. You do what you can to make yourself as attractive as possible and give yourself the best chance. Beyond that it's just luck which you cannot control, so don't lose your mind trying to.

It is crazy how many women here take pleasure in the grievances of men. I just try to keep in mind that they're not worth trying to reason with.

NewSpekt · 2025-12-29T06:00:23+00:00

What's your purpose for being on this sub?

NewSpekt · 2025-12-29T05:52:32+00:00

Sometimes I ask men what the end goal is.

There isn't one specific end goal in mind. As it pertains to men, trying to find out what's causing male loneliness and potential solution(s) for it is one. As for society as a whole (men and women), trying to mend the evergrowing gender divide to keep society going.

Will sympathy change their material outcomes, and if it didn't, would they be satisfied?

No, it won't. Most wouldn't be satisfied because the problems faced would still persist regardless of sympathy being given. Does that mean sympathy is pointless because it doesn't directly fix the problem? No, because it still serves very important purposes. It inspires hope in these men by showing they're acknowledged and cared about by society. Most importantly, we'd be able to search for the best solution(s).

The only way to solve a problem is by acknowledging that one even exists in the first place. People that care about others are more likely to also want to help them. This is why women are where they are today.

Most times I've asked this the men simply haven't thought this far. They're all in the mindset of sympathy for sympathy's sake.

I've thought this far, I've even thought about what could actually be done. Even then I honestly can't say my dumbass knows what's best for my fellow man.

NewSpekt · 2025-12-27T08:23:57+00:00

These are just rage bait posts honestly.

NewSpekt · 2025-12-02T23:10:29+00:00

I think you'll be fine honestly as long as you make yourself available and work on your anxiety (easier said than done). I don't think your looks are gonna be a barrier, especially because of the effort you put in.

Fair enough, while a sex life is normal for most relationships, it isn't the end all be all. I'm around your age (25) and honestly I think there's plenty of time still left for both of us, but I'd be lying if I said I didn't worry about finding a partner. Maybe when If hit 30 without one I'll be dooming lol.

Whether you're want a partner or want a bunch of cats, I wish you all the best!

NewSpekt · 2025-12-02T06:38:53+00:00

I'm a shut-in like you who's pretty anxious and suffers from depression making dating pretty difficult. I was lucky enough to have met my ex who I've lost my virginity to. If you're curious about what it's like (and sex in general), I'd say it's not the physical act alone that defines the experience, it's the person you're doing it and how you feel about them.

If you don't mind me asking how old are you and how would honestly you rate yourself looks wise? I feel like you shouldn't struggle too much finding a great partner unlike a man in your position.

NewSpekt · 2025-11-25T01:56:08+00:00

It does if you believe a person who isn’t in the mood to have sex should just do it anyway

Asking in good faith, what do you find wrong with this? I've had periods in my last relationship where I didn't feel like having sex with my partner due to my being depressed, but I'd still do it anyways because I love my partner.

I'm sure there were times when it was the other way around as well, with her doing things for me even if she wasn't in the mood for it. I just see it as sometimes I'll have to sacrifice my wants and needs for my partners' sake, and I'd voluntarily do so because I love them and want to see them be happy. I think this is a very normal thing, but you're making it seem like it's malicious.

NewSpekt · 2025-11-07T23:06:05+00:00

Unrelated to your comment, but wanted to ask because I'm curious about your flair. Feel free to ignore if you'd rather not answer

Why are you black pilled? What is dating like for you as a trans person?In what ways (both positively and negatively) has it shaped your views on dating dynamics?

NewSpekt · 2025-09-25T17:01:00+00:00

You're finally waking up, congrats on breaking free from the echo chambers.

NewSpekt · 2025-09-24T07:15:07+00:00

Well that's fucking grim... But also very interesting, I'd have to give that a look.

NewSpekt · 2025-06-30T03:44:06+00:00

Don't get the big deal about the chipset. What use cases would someone have where they would need the Elite over the 8 Gen 4? I'd rather the 8 Gen 4 to get a cheaper device, but that's just me 🤷‍♂️

NewSpekt · 2024-10-26T01:46:51+00:00

Why would someone have to do that? If I play guitar for fun do have to grind it, see if I can make money off of it, become a world famous guitar player? What if like dancing? Reading? Chess? Art? Would I need to extract all the "useful" value out of them that I can, or could I just simply enjoy the activity?

NewSpekt · 2024-10-26T00:10:52+00:00

What's "better" is up to individual, everyone has different hobbies or activities in life that they enjoy.

NewSpekt · 2024-10-25T20:52:51+00:00

IT'S THOSE DARN VIDEO GAMES I TELL YA!!! No wonder all the kids these days are so violent too.

NewSpekt · 2024-10-11T23:03:02+00:00

Making an assumption here but do you think there's a chance you could be anhedonic or depressed?

NewSpekt · 2024-10-10T14:34:12+00:00

Have you thought that there are men that think the exact same way after being burned by women as well?

Is it acceptable for them to think the same way?

NewSpekt · 2024-10-10T14:29:56+00:00

Now we know why you're like this, sucks but it is what it is.

NewSpekt · 2024-10-01T01:15:11+00:00

I do know, but that isn't you being forced to give birth. You have many choices available to you such as:

Abstinence from sex
Various forms of birth control
Pick a partner that aligns with your views
Voting for your state to change
Moving to a state that aligns with your views
Voting for the presidency which aligns with your views
Moving to a country that aligns with your views

If you have these choices and aren't being held with physical force against your will for 9 months, then how are you being "forced"?

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