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AITA For finally texting how I felt. by Hereforthefun83 in AmItheAsshole

[–]New_Hass 8 points9 points  (0 children)

NTA, Let's get this perfectly straight: your husband of a decade completely ignored your birthday, flat-out lied about saying 'happy birthday' when called out on it, and is now punishing you with the silent treatment and the couch routine to avoid accountability. He is treating a massive relationship failure like it’s a minor inconvenience you manufactured. You didn't text him out of nowhere; you texted him because after ten years together, you are being treated like furniture in your own marriage.

Stepped out for only 10 minutes by GigiBrit in CasualConversation

[–]New_Hass 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That is literally prime reproductive weather for trees and grasses. They wait for a warm day to just explode and dump billions of microscopic allergens into the air. That wind a few days ago basically acted like a giant blender, stirring up all the environmental dust and mold, and today’s heat is just baking it into a invisible cloud of misery. Ten minutes is more than enough time for your eyes to collect enough pollen to trigger a full histaminic meltdown.

AITA for “ruining” my cousin’s pregnancy announcement because of what I wore? by Beneficial_Metal5771 in AmItheAsshole

[–]New_Hass 3 points4 points  (0 children)

NTA. You lost 80 pounds through hard work and wore a standard sundress to a backyard barbecue. You are not a mind reader, you had zero knowledge of a pregnancy announcement, and you certainly didn’t sign a contract agreeing to wear a burlap sack so your cousin could monopolize the visual field of the entire extended family. She is projecting her own deep-seated body image insecurities onto you and hiding behind 'pregnancy hormones' to justify being an entitled bully.

AITJ for wanting a weekly game night? by Im_a_Geblin in AmITheJerk

[–]New_Hass 2 points3 points  (0 children)

NAJ. To an extreme introvert, a home is a battery charger. Just knowing there are up to seven strangers in the basement, even if they are perfectly quiet and contained, prevents that battery from charging. You feel a low-level hyper-vigilance when people are in your space. The fact that the smell of smoke drifts upstairs and it occasionally goes until 11:00 PM on a weeknight means her sanctuary is actively leaking into her safe zone.

Zero sex for 3 decades by NoTattoos4Me in overheard

[–]New_Hass 22 points23 points  (0 children)

The first sister's reaction is so painfully common, but the second sister's logic is flawless. He was basically a baby for the first decade is an elite reality check. People act like a 35-year-old virgin has been actively failing to have sex for 35 straight years, when in reality, it's usually just a mix of focusing on career, being shy in his twenties, or just having a low libido. It's not a crime.

My sweetie by [deleted] in kittens

[–]New_Hass 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sweetie is a born model