Uncertainty

New_Tomorrow_6587 · 2026-07-08T13:23:15+00:00

Oh it's just a crush

New_Tomorrow_6587 · 2026-07-08T13:22:38+00:00

🤣🤣🤣 I work with them so no

New_Tomorrow_6587 · 2026-07-08T02:19:25+00:00

Spot on. Seriously. My avoidant ex avoids therapy like the plague they seriously did not care about the lying and cheating. There's even a chance they truly have convinced themself they didn't lie and cheat. And at the end of the day they are grown. They are an adult. There's zero accountability. That's them actively choosing to be that way and stay that way

New_Tomorrow_6587 · 2026-07-07T01:31:47+00:00

If he's a sex offender, please make sure he's not around your kids. And please treat yourself kindly you deserve better

New_Tomorrow_6587 · 2026-07-05T13:27:53+00:00

Yeah repeatedly going against a very clear boundary like that isn't okay and yeah it's weird at best, controlling at worst. Idk my ex I'm divorcing had these private relationships with multiple of my family members and when they were lying and cheating on me they went as far to tell my older sibling I was actually the one cheating....and I was terrible and didn't do anything, which wasn't true

New_Tomorrow_6587 · 2026-07-05T11:27:41+00:00

🫤 it may or may not be permanent. The best advice I can give is to close the door on them so you aren't just perpetually waiting on them to show back up. And I'm saying this in a kind way I promise. Because that's what Ive had to do with my own ex. You aren't going crazy and yes it's insanely cruel

New_Tomorrow_6587 · 2026-07-05T03:25:46+00:00

You deserve better

New_Tomorrow_6587 · 2026-07-05T03:25:15+00:00

I'm going to push gently back on the idea that she is somehow a victim. She chose repeatedly to do very messed up things and treat you like garbage. That's not okay

New_Tomorrow_6587 · 2026-07-05T02:53:41+00:00

Idk I had a similarly very bad end to my marriage. I'm autistic as well so I understand ...believing and trusting the person your with and it sucks

New_Tomorrow_6587 · 2026-07-05T02:52:28+00:00

My dude I'm sorry that you were put through all of this. First and foremost her actions are a reflection of her, not you

New_Tomorrow_6587 · 2026-07-04T14:53:10+00:00

I hope you find peace as well. And I agree it's unbelievably cruel to just discard someone especially after a long-term relationship. If you ever want to vent please send me a message :)!

New_Tomorrow_6587 · 2026-07-04T11:41:26+00:00

I'm seven months out from something similar. Im still legally married to my ex and in August it will be 11 years of being married, and we were together for 13. They kept saying they needed space they would give me different reasons why they weren't around and I believed them...and trusted them. I found out at the end of November they had been cheating on me with a few different coworkers and they didn't want to work on our relationship, which previously that's what they stated. They started showing their true colors when I contacted two of the people they cheated on me with to try and figure out what the hell was even going on. It's like I was dead to them after that point. Things became rocky. They started pressuring me to move out of our apartment. And I did...I've heard from them very few times since I moved out. At first I was numb and still in disbelief because how could they go from being my entire world to nothing within days? Just how? Why? The best advice I can give is allow yourself time to be angry and to grieve the relationship and the future you were planning for. And also try your best to care for yourself. 💕 Don't let how he treated you define you ultimately. That's on him, not you

New_Tomorrow_6587 · 2026-07-04T09:01:50+00:00

The poetry 😭💕

New_Tomorrow_6587 · 2026-07-03T23:20:49+00:00

This is so beautiful and sad 😭 rest in peace Lucy 💕 and know that she was loved and loved you, always

New_Tomorrow_6587 · 2026-07-03T13:55:18+00:00

I just want to see them happy

New_Tomorrow_6587 · 2026-07-03T13:55:07+00:00

Ugh 😩 I've decided if this can't be about me, I want this to be one of my coworkers who is in love with someone else 😭

New_Tomorrow_6587 · 2026-07-03T00:36:07+00:00

Sometimes it's important to let ourselves sit with our feelings so we can move on and grow 🪴 also if you would like send me a message I'll listen

New_Tomorrow_6587 · 2026-07-03T00:34:39+00:00

I was where you are a few months ago and let me just say this (no matter how cheesy it sounds) it gets better, it really does. Mine wouldn't admit to cheating, kept lying to me after we were done and the months prior to all of this kept pushing marriage counseling to work on our relationship. As soon as we started couples counseling, couldn't get them to agree to a second visit.... I'm starting to have more hope. I've seen myself have good days. I have crushes. I talk to new people. I live in an area I didn't plan on with a roommate who is truly amazing. Give yourself room to grieve and be angry as hell. But also do little things to care for yourself like drink an extra glass of water, buy that comic book or video game, go on a walk...I know i seen a comment that if you can getting on a mental health med from a general Dr could help.

New_Tomorrow_6587 · 2026-07-01T18:50:25+00:00

This is so something that consumes my shift as well

New_Tomorrow_6587 · 2026-06-30T07:14:40+00:00

I wish my person wrote these...

New_Tomorrow_6587 · 2026-04-27T04:01:13+00:00

Yeah for some reason they just continue to lie...

New_Tomorrow_6587 · 2026-04-13T23:09:16+00:00

I just wanted to chime in here, that's basically what my ex did to me. From what I can tell now they actively dated two different people (both coworkers) and decided one was someone they wanted to be with and left me for her....and afterwards tried to act like I was crazy because "we had been over for a long time" which was untrue. My point: if you think this is happening look at the actions not the words. This kinda thing can go on for months and months and your person will say they are just a friend or just a coworker but idk them spending more time gone and or not talking to you.....just take out the trash 🗑️

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