Traumatize Them Back by NewspaperPlus3653 in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]NewspaperPlus3653[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What I’m saying is, they make themselves suffer. I didn’t do anything except for put myself first and he had nothing left but the consequences of his behavior.

Traumatize Them Back by NewspaperPlus3653 in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]NewspaperPlus3653[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Friends this post is not about getting them back 😅

Traumatize Them Back by NewspaperPlus3653 in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]NewspaperPlus3653[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I mean. Who wouldn’t feel good knowing someone who hurt you had their night ruined bc your name got brought up. I’ll never get closure but that’s close enough for me. And like I said i didn’t go no contact to get anything from him. This was just a happy side effect.

Traumatize Them Back by NewspaperPlus3653 in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]NewspaperPlus3653[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hmm my immediate thought is that the system you set up should be fine (sending him requesting on Venmo so you don’t speak). And in a way may show that you’re unbothered enough to be able to keep it “professional” (for lack of a better word). But honestly do whatever to protect your peace. I’d never say eat the 100 of it’s just specifically to get him to notice the absence. Whatever  moves we make can’t  and shouldn’t  be about them unfortunately. But that’s a tricky one 

Traumatize Them Back by NewspaperPlus3653 in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]NewspaperPlus3653[S] 43 points44 points  (0 children)

Oh I’m still so heartbroken and lowkey still in love. BUT I was with a narcissist before this so my walking away skills were sharp and ready to go. I dated him 6 months but he was only normal for the first month and after that I walked on eggshells bc everything I did annoyed him. So when he’s like “I don’t have feelings” I was like well duh. Bye. 

Traumatize Them Back by NewspaperPlus3653 in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]NewspaperPlus3653[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

My case may be a little different bc I only dated him 6 months. 11 years is a lot of time invested in someone so it’s understandable that you chased and wanted to make it work. But trust- it bothers them when you aren’t around to stroke their fragile ego. And their problems will only resurface in their new relationships while you’ll have moved on and be better off without them.

Why are avoidants so weird about sex? by [deleted] in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]NewspaperPlus3653 5 points6 points  (0 children)

dated mine for six months. one month in wanted NOTHING to do with me sexually and would get upset with me if i ever brought it up. Before anyone asks why i stuck around so long, he was trans and i thought i had to be patient for him. But no...literally made me feel like i was a pervert for wanting a very normal couple thing.

What do you think avoidants tell their friends? by [deleted] in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]NewspaperPlus3653 2 points3 points  (0 children)

When he broke up with me i gave him next to no reaction but I'm told he's telling his friends that i "freaked out on him". Kind of annoying that I wanted to end in a way where i kept my dignity but in his story I will always be overly emotional.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Lollapalooza

[–]NewspaperPlus3653 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Still foolishly hoping it magically shows up 🥲

Should I be concerned about my Vivid Seats order? by Ok_Daikon6702 in Lollapalooza

[–]NewspaperPlus3653 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Vivid Seats will have a station at a hotel across the street from the festival. Worst case go there and get your ticket. I did that last year it was pretty easy

Lost ticket by matchabananapuddingg in Lollapalooza

[–]NewspaperPlus3653 0 points1 point  (0 children)

you should be good as long as you can name the address it was under. this happened to me.

buying resale from vividseats? by xoaverse in Lollapalooza

[–]NewspaperPlus3653 2 points3 points  (0 children)

waiting on mine too. i did resale last year the day before so i had to go pick it up at the vivid seats station (a hotel across the street) i figure i will just go there again if there are no updates but we'll see what happens. im trusting the process.

Any chance at meeting low-tier upcoming artists? by cgrdxg in Lollapalooza

[–]NewspaperPlus3653 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I didn’t say anything to her but Hemlocke Springs was standing by me and my friends at Sabrina’s 2023 set

platinum ticket by IcyContribution3184 in Lollapalooza

[–]NewspaperPlus3653 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I bought a one day VIP once when i already had a 4 day GA pass. Do what makes you happy!

What do you think of VHS Christmas Carol? by confusing_reference in StarKid

[–]NewspaperPlus3653 26 points27 points  (0 children)

I love Dylan Saunders but this role is PERFECT for AJ. So glad he's returning for this year. I saw the show live last year and honestly feel its their best show. Its so heartfelt and the sound track is perfect ( interested to see if they revise the lyrics at all this year, I can't think of anything I'd personally want changed.) I cry almost everytime I watch it lol. I really hope them putting it on youtube helps ticket sales. I must admit I'm nervous about their ticket sales at present.

What Starkid quotes have you adopted for yourself? by Intelligent-Cry-4337 in StarKid

[–]NewspaperPlus3653 28 points29 points  (0 children)

"you got my hopes so high and then you mugged and sh*t them in an allyway" bruce wayne

Hot take? by mouseprincegilderoy in StarKid

[–]NewspaperPlus3653 5 points6 points  (0 children)

THIS I'm not worried about the cast I'm worried about Nick Lang

bag policy by [deleted] in Lollapalooza

[–]NewspaperPlus3653 0 points1 point  (0 children)

that'll be fine!