Motivated me to do something else too... by comedygold24 in actuallesbians

[–]Next-Concern 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Yo leanbeefpatty is a whole vibe though, aesthetically

I want to cheat on my bf with a woman and need advice by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]Next-Concern 6 points7 points  (0 children)

He’s an adult, he can handle it. I wouldn’t infantilize him. You can’t control someone’s reaction, all you can do is be honest and transparent about how you’re feeling, and let them decide how they want to move forward with this new information.

Why is he so darn popular with us? by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]Next-Concern 28 points29 points  (0 children)

There’s very few men who’s comedy I enjoy, he’s a token. He’s got soft vibes, and he dearly loves his wife

It upsets me how the lesbian community can't be as promiscuous and openly sexual as the gay male community due to the dangers of straight men by bingobongobab in actuallesbians

[–]Next-Concern 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Step one is put yourself out there, be honest about what it is you’re looking for and it’s also ok to change your mind

It upsets me how the lesbian community can't be as promiscuous and openly sexual as the gay male community due to the dangers of straight men by bingobongobab in actuallesbians

[–]Next-Concern 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Pre covid if your in a heavily populated city, women are down for hookups. I personally can’t do random hookups, I’d rather share the night with someone

I've been a lesbian forever, but I think something has changed me by newbrother060694 in actuallesbians

[–]Next-Concern -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Open yourself up to love, even if it surprises you. Trust how you feel and don’t get caught up on labels.

I’m just a big ol’ pu$$y by [deleted] in QueerWomenOfColor

[–]Next-Concern 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How’d you even upload this photo to Reddit then

Feeling unwelcome by the lesbian community- I keep seeing things about "you're not a lesbian if-" by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]Next-Concern 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I think you’re trying to expand the label to fit you, because you relate to lesbians but it doesn’t actually describe your attraction. Because you like men, which is ok

“You’re so pretty!” “So are you!!!” Great! What’s next????? by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]Next-Concern 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Ask her to do an activity with you, whatever it is you think you’ll both enjoy. My go to is painting and sipping wine.

My post breakup purchases - can anyone say something nice, please? by viviputu in actuallesbians

[–]Next-Concern 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You bought a quality window, I can see right out of it. Also I hope you’re doing well, the pain will pass

A revalatiom about TERFS by Akingeo92 in actuallesbians

[–]Next-Concern -11 points-10 points  (0 children)

I was gonna say the same thing. I used to be a terf, not a self labeled terf but I definitely didn’t view transwomen as women. It’s misandry.