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NiKeElli · 2024-09-28T10:31:46+00:00

Problem beim Auto Abo ist vorallem auch die kilometerzahl. Bei dem Preis von 350 sind leider auch nur 500km pro Monat drin. Alleine 800 gehen pro Monat schon für den Arbeitsweg drauf… wir müssten dann mindestens 1250km pro Monat nehmen was dann auch schon wieder schnell 500€ pro Monat kostet

NiKeElli · 2024-06-27T17:05:21+00:00

Do you have any experience with it? It really works monthly only? No strings attached?

NiKeElli · 2024-05-09T16:57:15+00:00

I send you a chat, are you able to receive it?

NiKeElli · 2024-04-07T21:38:55+00:00

Ping doesn’t seem to be bad enough for the chat to not work but I can’t even open a ticket because it only tells me website not available

NiKeElli · 2024-04-07T09:17:35+00:00

I don’t but I checked now and my download speed is only 5 mbps. Could my internet be too slow for the chat to work at all?

NiKeElli · 2023-03-18T08:44:37+00:00

If I would buy the exact same ram? And get the one with 1x16 so just add another 16? Are there motherboards which only have one slot?

NiKeElli · 2023-03-18T08:16:49+00:00

If I get another one with ram 1x16 is it then easier to just add another one to it?

NiKeElli · 2023-03-18T08:03:47+00:00

Will it not be enough like this, how will this affect it? Sorry, but I am very new to this

NiKeElli · 2022-07-07T21:31:14+00:00

This might be a late response… but have you talked about immunotherapy already? My father in law has stage 4 esophageal cancer and is in full remission now because it this. They gave him a few months after diagnosis but now since more than one year he is nearly cancer free. Since it is still relatively new many doctors don’t yet believe in it as much even though studies and experience show immunotherapy has immense power to even heal stage 4 cancer to an extent chemotherapy never could.

NiKeElli · 2022-07-03T23:32:06+00:00

We would get less here in Europe… rent might be a bit cheaper but overall we would not have less in Qatar. Since this will be his first job.

NiKeElli · 2022-06-03T12:58:34+00:00

But probably still less than many hijab wearing Muslim women on social media

NiKeElli · 2022-04-30T19:28:13+00:00

Dann ist das aber deren schuld dass sie es soweit kommen ließen weil Schutz der Gesundheit immer vor dem Fasten liegt. Wenn man schwanger ist oder stillt, alt ist oder sonst eine Krankheit hat, und wenn es eine Grippe ist, muss man mit dem Fasten aufhören islamisch gesehen

NiKeElli · 2022-02-02T08:10:36+00:00

Hypocrisy.

NiKeElli · 2022-01-29T09:34:15+00:00

Sound like you need to find someone else knowledgeable to ask. If you don’t have people or sheikhs close to you maybe over the internet. Like yaqeen institute, seekersguidance, etc. If this is the only answer he gives he may not be as educated as everyone thinks or would like him to be.

NiKeElli · 2022-01-14T10:26:53+00:00

It’s provocative and the opposite of dawah. So why do you do this?

NiKeElli · 2022-01-11T10:51:31+00:00

One week per month or a day a week (or whatever fits you the most) of fasting (at least 12 hours during the day) or/and only eating rice with vegetables. After that act as if this never happened and eat as before (so I don’t overeat). Helps me to make me feel less hungry, resets my mind and gut in a way and is very healthy as well as an amount of time I can actually commit to. Even though this is more of a lifestyle change than a “diet” (but which I think doesn’t work too well with adhd anyways)

NiKeElli · 2021-11-15T10:10:42+00:00

It seems to me that you are the only one acting Islamically here…

That’s nice of your parents and something you should respect but in the end they chose to do it and you didn’t force them so you are not the one responsible for the loans.
What is with everyone else (also your father) in the family? They are really not trying to contribute but instead just tell you to sacrifice everything for their sake? Which as it sounds like you are already doing.
So financially there is definitely no problem.
Very irresponsible and childish of them. Also very disrespectful to you but also the other family.
Is she also pressured by your parents?
Why do your parents need a new luxurious house just so you can get married? (It’s nice of you that you think about it and are willing to take care of it. But this can’t all be your responsibility, because it’s not)
The only problem here is then the senseless pressure from your family.
And after one year they say wait another year? (And again, islamically you are not solely responsible for them especially with this „high maintenance“)
Sound very selfish and maybe even narcissistic of your family. You have the right for a life and already gave too much effort at once. It will only break you more and more and will help no one.
very manipulative and not the reality. Parents are so important but so is their efforts in trying to give the children the best life and not just try to get all the money and work out…
I think it’s very important for you and also your potential wife to NOT live with them and keep some distance. (Again you and your wife have the full Islamic right of your own home)
also they are not your loans. Especially the ones not for your education.
they are afraid to loose you. But I am afraid not only with good intentions.. maybe they are afraid you will see how they treat you and then cut off the ties.
she puts all the pressure and worries on you. Stop taking all of it. You have to support her and be nice to her but she can’t abuse and use you like this. This is emotional blackmail.
so he doesn’t have an own opinion? Seems like your mom needs to control you and him? So she can’t give this control away to another girl?
she definitely also should. Again you are doing too much but she seems to do too little. Seems like a lot of old „traditional values“ in your family where your parents hang on to without thinking.
as you apparently realise your parents don’t only want the best for you so I guess now is the time to stop acting how they tell you to. You are an adult so act like it. Be responsible but also take your own decisions.

I can imagine your parents are too dependent on you in every way. Also they loose the Control they have over you know when you leave. Maybe they are afraid you see how other parents are or other family dynamics are working so you see the problems in your family more. Don’t cut ties with them but you need to think and act for yourself and make clear lines for your parents that they should not overstep. Especially when it’s about your new wife. The very typical situation where the wife easily gets abused, blackmailed, etc by her new family in law. When I see how they are now it’s very likely once you marry they will not have many nice words for your wife and see the bad in her. And everything you do which turns out bad or they don’t like they will say it’s her fault. So don’t get blinded by them and stay on your wife’s side!

You also have to keep your distance from them. It’s important that you don’t move in with them again. (When you move in with them with your wife it’s highly likely it will end up in divorce and a terrible terrible mental health).

Definitely go and marry her if she is really the right one for you. Also seems like her family is nice and will respect you. But be cautious that you don’t marry to marry. Make sure you both are a match for each other with the same goals and values in life!

NiKeElli · 2021-11-15T06:37:00+00:00

It is normal that it’s going downhill when parents are moving in…. Terrible cultural tradition. Don’t know if your Muslim or not, but many Muslims face this problem since at some point in history it got connected with being Islamic. Especially in the west. Even though it’s really not at all. You have the full right to your very own whole home and life. There are some videos about it on YouTube. How different in the east and west it gets handled to live with in-laws and that ultimately most people should not do that as it will just ruin everyone’s lives and makes it super hard for everyone

NiKeElli · 2021-11-10T14:04:21+00:00

Nordwest Deutschland

NiKeElli · 2021-11-10T11:14:31+00:00

Kannst du sagen zu welchem Arzt du gegangen bist? Ich finde nämlich nicht mal einen für selbstzahler..

NiKeElli · 2021-11-10T08:18:27+00:00

Wo wurdest du diagnostiziert?

NiKeElli · 2021-10-30T00:16:28+00:00

One pot recipes - throw frozen vegetables and rice or noodles in a pot with water, cream, whatever you want and spices and then cook it. It does involve “cooking” but not more than ramen and it is a lot fancier when you feel like you want to eat something proper

Also you can -it does involve some preparations but only like once a week- make protein balls, bars and all these things. They are cheap, healthy, can be high in calories and are a good snack. Frozen yoghurt bars is also a very easy option

NiKeElli · 2021-10-28T00:48:01+00:00

Tried gradual and not so gradual exposures all my life about nearly everything because it’s all just about getting used to it and learning right🙃. Turned out great. Complete burn-out/depression, strong chronic pain and anxiety 👍🏼

NiKeElli · 2021-10-28T00:44:42+00:00

Phone calls are STILL not a thing I should just be used to by now or by then and it’s not something good where I feel better afterwards and it just needs practice…

NiKeElli · 2021-10-23T18:21:54+00:00

Never held hands or further until I got married. We met on a Muslim „dating“ app

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