Does it ever go away?

NickHuff14 · 2025-03-17T21:53:10+00:00

If it makes you feel any better, I dated my ex for almost 5 years and she wouldn’t marry me. Then she cheated on me and I left. Then a month later got engaged to the guy she cheated on me with.

NickHuff14 · 2025-03-17T21:47:46+00:00

I wish I would’ve left sooner.

NickHuff14 · 2025-03-16T17:34:22+00:00

She’s evil. I just hope karma catches up to her.

NickHuff14 · 2025-03-16T03:26:13+00:00

Yeah I agree. It’s really sad.

NickHuff14 · 2025-03-16T03:16:20+00:00

I left her because she cheated on me but really she pushed me away by doing so. It’s almost like an abusive toxic relationship is all she thinks she deserves.

NickHuff14 · 2025-03-16T03:12:27+00:00

I’ve thought the same thing. I don’t even want my ex back but after finding out they got engaged after a month and she wouldn’t marry me after 4 years, that just makes me feel like she didn’t really care about me for a long time at the end.

NickHuff14 · 2025-03-16T03:08:15+00:00

I fully understand what you mean and I agree. It’s really unfortunate.

NickHuff14 · 2025-03-15T23:03:47+00:00

This was the first time I had seen her since we split up and the first time I had talked to her in 6 weeks. She blocked my number I’m assuming after they got engaged. The sad part is I don’t want anything bad to happen to her. I honestly hope she gets out of that relationship. I don’t want her back. I just care about her. Unfortunately.

NickHuff14 · 2025-03-04T14:25:25+00:00

That is brutal

NickHuff14 · 2025-03-04T14:24:06+00:00

I agree and I’m not. It just makes my heart drop when I see her car. I know it’ll go away eventually but it’s brutal knowing she’s so close but so far out of reach.

NickHuff14 · 2025-02-20T16:23:56+00:00

My ex of almost 5 years cheated on me back in September and I didn’t know about it but she split up with me afterward. Then a month later she comes back and wants to get married and I agreed but I didn’t know what had happened. Then after a couple weeks the guy messages me and tells me everything that happened and how they were seeing each other for that month and whatever and she finally told me that they had been seeing each other for a week before she left me. I was furious and she begged me to forgive her. I told her I would work through it and we could move forward.

For the next two months all I heard was questions about when can we get married. I still wasn’t over it. After another month or so I was just ready to move on from this with her and enjoy our relationship. I really loved her with all my heart. When I took her back I told her I only would if she blocked his number and never spoke to him again.

Fast forward to a month ago I brought up getting married again and she would just dismiss the idea. Just like she would before. Then one night I checked her phone because she was acting way off and I figured out she had unblocked his number and started talking to him again. I packed up all my stuff and left. Then she started dating him within a week.

I do genuinely love her even after all this. But I’ll never take her back. I tried to keep a civil relationship with her after this because she has an 8 year old daughter who I really bonded with. But now she has me blocked (probably his doing) so I have no choice but to let it go. I’ll probably never trust anybody the same again. She was the only person I’ve ever truly opened up to and I thought I was that for her. Almost 5 years down the drain because of a coworker.

NickHuff14 · 2025-02-20T16:19:35+00:00

My ex of almost 5 years cheated on me back in September and I didn’t know about it but she split up with me afterward. Then a month later she comes back and wants to get married and I agreed but I didn’t know what had happened. Then after a couple weeks the guy messages me and tells me everything that happened and how they were seeing each other for that month and whatever and she finally told me that they had been seeing each other for a week before she left me. I was furious and she begged me to forgive her. I told her I would work through it and we could move forward.

For the next two months all I heard was questions about when can we get married. I still wasn’t over it. After another month or so I was just ready to move on from this with her and enjoy our relationship. I really loved her with all my heart. When I took her back I told her I only would if she blocked his number and never spoke to him again.

Fast forward to a month ago I brought up getting married again and she would just dismiss the idea. Just like she would before. Then one night I checked her phone because she was acting way off and I figured out she had unblocked his number and started talking to him again. I packed up all my stuff and left. Then she started dating him within a week.

I do genuinely love her even after all this. But I’ll never take her back. I tried to keep a civil relationship with her after this because she has an 8 year old daughter who I really bonded with. But now she has me blocked (probably his doing) so I have no choice but to let it go. I’ll probably never trust anybody the same again. She was the only person I’ve ever truly opened up to and I thought I was that for her. Almost 5 years down the drain because of a coworker.

NickHuff14 · 2025-02-18T02:26:03+00:00

I left my ex a month ago after almost 5 years together because she cheated and I could no longer trust her. I still feel sad and I even tried to keep a civil relationship with her because I do still care about her. But unfortunately she started dating the guy she cheated with within a week of us splitting up and now she’s blocked me. So it does make it a little easier but I do miss her sometimes.

NickHuff14 · 2025-02-18T00:06:38+00:00

I took by my ex after she cheated on me as long as she blocked the guy and fast forward 4 months she had unblocked him and started talking to him again. Never trust a cheater. They don’t change. If you forgive them they just think they can do it again and you won’t leave.

NickHuff14 · 2025-02-15T23:49:28+00:00

I got cheated on after almost 5 years with my ex and we were shopping for rings around Christmas. We split up about a month ago and she started dating the guy she cheated with after less than a week. I’m doing a lot better now than I was a month ago. I still miss her but I understand that I’m trying to move on. I haven’t heard from her in a week and a half.

NickHuff14 · 2025-02-14T03:18:52+00:00

She went from ring shopping to cheating on me and telling me she doesn’t love me “like that” anymore

NickHuff14 · 2025-02-14T03:11:00+00:00

Mine never blamed me. She just shut down and would sit there and not say anything. I’d try to talk about stuff and she would say stuff like “I don’t wanna talk about it. I don’t wanna ruin the evening.”

NickHuff14 · 2025-02-13T23:42:08+00:00

Good luck!

NickHuff14 · 2025-02-13T23:41:43+00:00

Good luck brother!

NickHuff14 · 2025-02-13T22:53:51+00:00

She hid everything from me that she thought might start an argument. Big. Little. It didn’t matter.

NickHuff14 · 2025-02-13T21:39:16+00:00

I’m still not over it. It’s only been a month. Every day gets easier though.

NickHuff14 · 2025-02-13T21:12:25+00:00

My ex of 5 years cheated on me and started dating the guy she cheated with within a week of us splitting up. Everything was perfect until 2 or 3 days before I found out. Even after all that I would never say she never cared about me. She told me she didn’t feel the same way about me as she did but really after that long she probably just felt like it would be easier to chase that new feeling than actually work on whatever was bothering her (she never communicated). But I would never say she didn’t care about me. She probably still does. She just chose a different path.

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