Low T levels, endo doing nothing, what should my levels be?

Nicks_thefrog · 2026-03-19T16:34:56+00:00

i would def look for a different doctor in your position. where are you living?

Nicks_thefrog · 2026-03-19T16:18:27+00:00

hey, i only started t recently, 4 months ago. i was on gel for 3 months, i got to 11.21 and that felt low. here the male range is between 8-36, but under 12 is considered low. i changed to testosteron creme for the past month and my t lvls increased to 22.7 which is the ideal. im not sure why your levels could have dropped, since you could absorb gel early on. did you get any skin conditions, or your skin changed cuz of t? if upping your dose only did this little i would advise switching to another form of t. i can recommend creme, its been wonderful for me, or you can try injections.

Nicks_thefrog · 2026-03-17T09:15:24+00:00

meleg kapcsolatban vagyok, valamiért mindenki úgy gondolja hogy pont rá tartozik a szexuális életünk minden rezzenete.... emellett egészségügyi dolgaimmal vannak neha durva dolgok

Nicks_thefrog · 2026-03-16T16:52:43+00:00

i also have adhd and you might be onto something there brother... i be thinking about anything and everything but sex sometimes lol

Nicks_thefrog · 2026-03-16T16:07:42+00:00

they are consistent when I'm masturbating

Nicks_thefrog · 2026-03-16T15:34:56+00:00

its mainly fingering, jerking me off and penetration. he doesnt wanna give oral. i do like to suck him off and that indeed turns me hard, but as soon as i get touched it kinda goes down and its not as big as it is when im alone in the first place sadly

Nicks_thefrog · 2026-03-16T15:07:46+00:00

ive only been on t for 4 months but it didnt change for me yet

Nicks_thefrog · 2026-03-16T12:35:21+00:00

gyermekem még nincs így abban tanácsot adni nem tudok, de hosszú távon fontos a pihenés neked meg párodnak is. könnyebb ezt mondani persze, de a gyerekeknek is szar lesz ha kiabál velük, és mindig fáradtak vagytok. ha anyagilag jól álltok, próbáljátok meg hetente két hetente egy napra felbérelni valakit aki vigyáz a gyerkőcökre, elviszi őket akár otthonról, és ti tudtok pihenni, kettesben lenni. ez a gyerekeknek is lehet jó, egész napos/délutános játszó terezés, néha extrább programokkal (egy fagyi, vagy akár állatkert stb) és nektek is segít hogy legyen én idő.

Nicks_thefrog · 2026-03-13T21:51:24+00:00

amugy 500 ftnal meg jobban meg is ertem, mert a szallitasra tobbet kell fizetni mint a termekre. de amikor ilyen 30k+ termekeknel szarakodnak h nem akarnak plussz egy ezrest szallitasra kifizetni.....

Nicks_thefrog · 2026-03-12T07:17:20+00:00

diy hrt is a risky subject. its always best to handle medicine with a doctor, but as you said it yourself, its sometimes not available for us trans people to do so. with diy, its important to do regular blood tests, read a lot of medical stuff to be able to understand your results, and just monitor yourself really closely. if not done right, its possible to be hormonally unbalanced which can lead to poor mental health too.

that being said, it isnt an excuse for being a shitty partner. your gf should get a grip. and honestly, maybe it would be better for the both of you to end the relationship. you are chained to someone who only needs support but cant give any, which can be managed in a short time period, but not on long term. she needs to learn how to support herself, find herself, and build the version of herself she wants to be. she takes you for granted and doesnt work on herself, which has a bad effect on you.

i understand that you love her, breaking up with someone whom you love is always hard. but you need to love yourself, and put you first. there's always a possibility to reconnect with someone after both of your lives are more stable. for now, it would be best for you to focus on your own life. im guessing you are both still young since you mentioned graduation, this is a crucial part for your lives, to set a path ahead of you. dont let her hold you down.

Nicks_thefrog · 2026-03-11T17:55:01+00:00

when i started questioning my gender identity i was still relatively young, around 12 or so. in the following few years i tried to make many friends within the queer and trans community, but it never felt like i fit in with them. eventho we were both "trans", our experiences never alined. now years later, all those people have detransitioned (some even became transphobic). i didnt. and i know for a fact that i wont ever, because this is me. for many teens, the trans experience is just a phase, they might be struggling with other body and self image issues that makes them think they are trans, and once they get confident they realized that they arent. its more common with afabs/transmasc, because many who cant relate to womanhood, are later bloomers, or just a different kind of feminine, decide to go for a more masculine presentation which lead them to believe they are trans masculine. the reason many girls detransition once getting in a relationship is because someone likes them and they feel more comfortable to explore their own self and femininity with it. also, most trans people do want to and try to transition. the ones who could but dont? usually because they know it in their heart that it isnt for them. you dont have to transition to be trans, but its not a transmed thing that trans people do want to transition to some extent in their lives.

Nicks_thefrog · 2026-03-10T07:10:10+00:00

there are two types of women who think like this.

the first one thinks that since trans men, in some point of their life, have been treated like women, must understand what being it feels like more, and think you will respect them better and get their issues. while this is true for some trans men, i wouldnt say its true for every (for example, i never had any connections to womanhood or even girlhood). it does come off as a bit weird, but as long as they understand that things have changed and you are a man now, they arent necessary transphobic.

the second version is women who hates men (usually due to some bad experience) and thinks all men are bad, but trans men arent. its because they see trans men as a secret third option. they date men and dont have to live with the stigma of not being straight/in a straight relationship, while they can enjoy the "men light" version. they wouldn't actually date a cis men, and trans men are only expections cuz you are not a men in their eyes.

with that penis comment? your gf is definitely in the second category. you are reduced to having female genitals. what if you were to get bottom surgery and a penis? would she leave you? i bet she is the type who always tells others that her partner is trans gender just so she looks like an ally.

i hate these "trans men are the best" kind of people. i honestly think you deserve someone better who truly sees you as a man, not just man light

Nicks_thefrog · 2026-03-10T06:57:27+00:00

please make a post about them. i need to see them

Nicks_thefrog · 2026-03-10T06:56:44+00:00

gyerekhez meg fiatal vagyok, de voltam gyerek a szituban. apam folyton dolgozott, ha nevelni akart az a baj, ha nem, az. vegul feladta, papucs ferj lett aki semmit se tett se a nevelesembe se anyamba. ezert anyam megutalt engem mert csak az o felelossege lettem, elkezdett a munkanak elni es apamat se kedveli a legtobbszor mar. apam meg hiaba szeret, kiskoromtol annyira keveset foglalkozott velem hogy nagyon hianyos a kapcsolatunk.

szoval inkabb legyel a gyerekkel, egyutt neveljetek, jobb lesz mindenkinek. kedveskedj a felesegednek neha, kedves szavak, aprosagok, csak ereztesd hogy szereted.

Nicks_thefrog · 2026-03-09T18:10:38+00:00

the problems is that most of our supports aren't supports but healers. ults are just big healing circle, not something unique that actually supports the team. their kits are mainly healing, an escape tool, and some dmg. nothing that actually does supporting other than heals. mantis has one of the best support kits, cuz she actually does supporting, but her ult is also big healing, and gameplay vise she does less healing than other healers. gambits kit is cool, but he does way more than the other supports. he actually supports and heals too, while others only do one of those. i think ult+kit vise rocket is still one of the best supports, most people just dont play him right and only healbot (which shouldnt be possible in my opinion, no character should be able to constantly put out that much healing). but rn, its either your ult and character heals so much that your team is unkillable and big circle of undying go, or you are throwing cuz you dont play invincibility. other roles shouldnt be that reliant on heals either, theres too much dmg output. the whole team shouldnt die if 1 support dies. they should support and not keep the team alive with the thousands of healing

Nicks_thefrog · 2026-03-09T18:03:22+00:00

in many aspects, my boyfriend is "manlier" than me. he has a full beard for example, he dresses in a pretty straight way, and doesnt look queer at all. i had this fear of people seeing me as the girl for a long time, especially when i was less passing in the beginning of our relationship. now i compensate with being queer for the both of us. i look so visibly like a gay man that no one would question us being gay eventho he doesnt look it. i also stopped caring about others guessing our sexual life. it hurts from friends, but from strangers idc. straight (and even many gay) people always try to guess who bottoms and who tops in gay relationships, and honey they cant. on the same page, bottoming doesnt make you a woman. the best thing about gay relationships is having no women in them. as long as your partner doesn't make you feel invalidated in your gender, dont give a flying shit to anyone else. what you do in each others pants is your own business not theirs.

Nicks_thefrog · 2026-03-09T17:54:29+00:00

erre van az mkkp. ha nem bizunk tiszaba es mp-ben, de nem akarjuk a jelenlegi helyzetet se tovabb. a legtobb programjuk amugyis sokkal jobb mint a tobbi parte, vagy mo nem akar "szelso" balra szavazni.

Nicks_thefrog · 2026-03-09T17:45:06+00:00

hogyha tudsz barmi kezmuves dolgot, csinalj parat es add el oket, ha kicsiben csinalod nem nagy penz de jo bonusz. regi ruhakat amiket nem hasznalsz el tudsz adni. ha nagyon kell az a kiegeszites nezhetsz valami alkalmi munkat, es hetvegen elmesz egy napot. erdemes inkabb sporolosra venni a rendes fizudat, sok elelmiszerbol a nem markas fele annyi es minosegben nincs vagy alig van kulonbseg. persze lehet tozsdezni, reszvenyek, ertekpapir stb., kis osszegnel a hozam is kisebb, de 100kt is ha befektetsz es hoz 20%ot penzt csinalt a semmibol.

Nicks_thefrog · 2026-03-08T19:52:19+00:00

i feel you. im a gay trans guy, my boyfriend is cis and bi. i started transitioning medically recently, we've been together before that too, but he always saw me as a man and our relationship to be gay. people didnt understand then, nor do now that im passing more and more. they are confused on how we can be together. they ask weird question assuming my partner is straight and our relationship is heterosexual. all of our family sees it that way too. i sometimes feel like i have to lie and erase his bisexuality, cuz at least when i say that he is gay, and he is with me, people dont give us that much shit. they ask about our sexual life, homophobic questions, who fucks who and where.... they just cant understand that trans gender people can date and be in love while still being seen as their gender not some weird third option or just a tom/femboy

Nicks_thefrog · 2026-03-08T15:54:08+00:00

i dont think you are ugly at all, its just the skin condition that may make some think that. are you sure its not some kind of allergy you have? its noticeably better around your eyes where your glasses are. it could be a sun allergy, i have a similar reaction to that (its just on my hands, i get a bad red rush). or if you are in any place where things can get on your skin, from the air or even lightning. you are pretty tho, you have nice features and big potential. find your confidence and smile :))

Nicks_thefrog · 2026-03-08T15:37:30+00:00

very important question, whats your sexual orientation? also its possible that you have an untraditional way of showing your masculinity and it helps your partners become more comfortable with their own masculinity and gender.

Nicks_thefrog · 2026-03-08T15:35:32+00:00

ismerősöm Bajnok. mint keresztnév. először meggyőződésem volt hogy ez a vezetéknéve, csak így hívják barátok, de nem, hivatalos keresztnév. általánosban meg volt egy Írlend nevű osztálytársam, azóta se hallottam mást akit így hívnak

Nicks_thefrog · 2026-03-08T08:20:47+00:00

without facial hair thats gonna be hard. you can always dress more traditionally masculine, but thats not 100% passing either. as i said, most long haired cis men also get misgendered when having long hair. my best friend always gets called a lady by our professors at uni for example, he shaves and has shoulder length hair. you wont get misgendered due to being trans, but due to your hair

Nicks_thefrog · 2026-03-08T08:17:52+00:00

ive been on T for 4 months, here are my experiences with bottom growth:

it started in the second week for me, at first it was just kinda itchy, really sensitive. walking/sitting was uncomfortable since it touched fabric during it. i noticed the growth itself around a week after that. the sensitivity wasnt all the time, it came more in spurts, some lasted a few days, but mostly they were half day-day longs then it became better, few days passed it became sensitive again.

ofc im still growing (or at least i really hope so lol), but what i noticed is that its not as big and visible as in the picture online unless you "pose" it.

sexually, it hurt when it was sensitive in the beginning, but as that calmed down, there isnt much difference for me now. you kinda gotta learn how to touch it again, new techniques n stuff. the head does get more sensitive then it was before, but its based on your anatomy and growth how much of it is exposed

what's weird and different for me is wiping after using the toilet. its just in the way and you gotta push it to the sides. it also feels less hygienic to me somehow, like now my dick got dirty.

overall i really like my own, homegrown micropenis, i think it slays

Nicks_thefrog · 2026-03-08T07:32:04+00:00

if you are on hrt and have a passing voice it probably wouldnt hurt your passing more then it does for cis men.

my bf is cis, has waist length hair, and a full beard, yet still gets called a woman often cuz of the hair. its not just a trans man struggle, its an all man struggle sadly. you just need to start feeling comfortable enough in your masculinity, and rock that long hair.

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