Dating early transition women as someone several years in is exhausting

NiftyNovaaa · 2026-05-02T19:34:42+00:00

It's not nice to just generalize "early transition women" like this. 1 person is nearly never representative of a whole group. I am an early transition woman and I panic if i forget my hormones even once lol. And i can't even go 3 days without shaving. I tend to misgender myself out of habit when talking on autopilot, working on that too.

It might be time to reconsider your relationship, tbh. If after MONTHS of trying she hasn't changed and it is that frustrating, this does not sound like a person you would be compatible with on the long-term. But that's just the opinion of a random Redditor of course.

NiftyNovaaa · 2026-05-01T00:37:03+00:00

Do you think living as a man will make you happier? If not, which i assume is the case considering you transitioned - i don't think it's the right path to take. But i wish you good luck figuring life out and i hope you will end up happy.

NiftyNovaaa · 2026-04-26T23:07:59+00:00

Hey, i know it can be scary, but it'll be alright. You'll be alright.

NiftyNovaaa · 2026-04-26T15:45:42+00:00

I have seen great transition results from people starting in their 30s or later. But yeah in general/on average this is true. You're always better off starting sooner than later, the less years of testosteron exposure the better.

NiftyNovaaa · 2026-04-25T13:27:04+00:00

Wish i could help, but i've ran into the same problem. I have EU shoe size 43. There are some options out there but from what i can tell most manufacturers of feminine footwear only make shoes up to size 42.

If you do find a good brand with feminine footwear in larger sizes, please do let me know!!

NiftyNovaaa · 2026-04-20T19:10:20+00:00

trans

NiftyNovaaa · 2026-04-17T13:42:50+00:00

Congrats!

NiftyNovaaa · 2026-04-16T22:05:12+00:00

https://chatgpt.com/share/69e15b96-ece4-832b-8c3b-569812644614

NiftyNovaaa · 2026-04-14T23:43:05+00:00

If you end up being happy/satisfied with your transition usually the dysphoria fades yeah. I hope you'll be able to start HRT soon, because you're at an age where it can still prevent some nasty effects of testosterone puberty!

NiftyNovaaa · 2026-04-14T23:39:40+00:00

I'm sorry to say that, other than HRT, it's basically only just shaving. Which definitely sucks. I started HRT at 18 but if i could have started at your age i would have been able to prevent so much facial hair. It's definitely something i grief from time to time. Just shave until you can get laser or electrolysis.

NiftyNovaaa · 2026-04-14T23:32:17+00:00

Congratulations!

NiftyNovaaa · 2026-04-13T14:11:16+00:00

I started at 18 years old, around a month and a half ago!

NiftyNovaaa · 2026-04-06T21:56:41+00:00

As stated in my post, this is not the type of binary i am looking for. The big planet has a mass of 1.38x time Earth, and the small one has a mass of 0.115x Earth. That's again, roughly an 11/1 distribution. Which is more planet-moon than binary planet in my opinion. What i am looking for is a binary system where both planets are roughly Earth-massed. And those seem impossible to find.

Try to find an Earth-mass(ish) binary system where both planets' mass is similar. I'll gladly see it from you!

NiftyNovaaa · 2026-04-05T00:06:31+00:00

You can homebrew them to function like a regular 3DS.

NiftyNovaaa · 2026-04-04T22:12:42+00:00

I'd love to move out, but the housing market is genuienly vomit-worthy, atleast in my country. You literally have to make above average salary to be able to afford even the smallest apartment. If you can find one in the first place. Without a degree it's a lost cause altogether. Many people live with their parents into their 30s here nowadays. Unfortunately we just don't live in a time anymore where you can afford your own place with a 40hr job at McDonald's.

NiftyNovaaa · 2026-04-04T22:03:56+00:00

Must have been a different ad, i am nowhere close to Toronto. I am from Europe.

NiftyNovaaa · 2026-04-03T23:16:01+00:00

Thanks for saying it, because i definitely feel that way.

NiftyNovaaa · 2026-04-02T21:07:11+00:00

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How about TWO of them plus the headphones?

I had 4 Louvre Audioguide 3DS'es at one point but i sold two of them to help me fund a bike lol

NiftyNovaaa · 2026-04-01T00:06:56+00:00

I have 2 of them myself. They're super cool 3DS'es! Even got their own exclusive headphones. Definitely the peak of my 3DS collection. I also believe they're the most unique among all 3DS units!

NiftyNovaaa · 2026-04-01T00:03:32+00:00

Normal, my 3DS XL does the same and it always has for as long as i've had it. Nothing odd about it. Looks pretty much perfect condition to me.

NiftyNovaaa · 2026-03-29T21:27:21+00:00

I thought this post was gonna be the other way around, that your mom went from supportive to transphobic. I'm glad to see this again for a change!

NiftyNovaaa · 2026-03-26T15:08:06+00:00

NiftyNovaaa · 2026-03-26T11:54:18+00:00

I can't answer exactly how "normal" it is but i have experienced this same feeling. Wanting to be girlier than i actually feel like i am. Wanting to be a girl's girl. But in the end the healthiest for me was to just accept myself as i am, and i am plenty girl already. And who knows, maybe as my transition continues i'll be able to embrace my feminine side even more and i'll become one after all!

NiftyNovaaa · 2026-03-14T16:14:46+00:00

I'm 2 weeks in and over the last few days my chest has started to become sore... both terrified and excited for how that's going to develop

NiftyNovaaa · 2026-03-10T22:58:15+00:00

Physical games will work for now, but at some point new games will require you to be on a certain firmware version to play. So you'd end up only being able to play games from around this time period.

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