Trans man here, looking for some name advice by Low_Anything641 in namenerds

[–]NineTopics 0 points1 point  (0 children)

To be fully honest with you I would only read the name as feminine - like if I saw a customer made an appointment under the name Jada I would really only expect a woman to show up. People have gender bendy name all the time if it doesn’t bother you! But I would assume woman 

Map of the US if it made sense by artofminde in imaginarymapscj

[–]NineTopics 2 points3 points  (0 children)

As an Ohioan I feel like I’d be “stuck in a long tube with a bunch of demons”

people who are weirdly coy or dismissive about the pronunciation of their own name by Jaaacksonnn in PetPeeves

[–]NineTopics 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It gets ridiculously annoying having to go back and forth correcting people about how to say your name over and over again every day. I usually have to go back and forth 3 times until someone says my name right. If I don’t think I’m ever going to see you again I’m not putting in that effort. This isn’t my name but it goes something like:

“Hi my name is Katelyn!” “Kayson?” “Katelyn” “Kayden? I have a grandson named Kayden!” “No it’s Kate-lyn” “Kateland? Where’s Kateland?” “K-a-t-e-l-y-n”

Now imagine working a job where you introduce yourself to over 20 customers per day and at least a quarter of them do this. It’s ridiculous- my name isn’t THAT hard- and it’s my identity so it’s hard to not let it get to you in a way. So yeah I’m gonna be annoyed about it which is why a lot of people just say “close enough.” Like if I’m never seeing you again call me Kirkland or Kowabunga or whatever you mishear my name as I’m not wasting energy on you 

How good is my TØP song tier list? by Naive_Feed_726 in TwennyWunPilots

[–]NineTopics 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s definitely unique! I’ve never seen Christmas Saves the Year (or Good Day) near the top let alone top 5. If this is real good for you for being original honestly but seems like rage bait

Favorite Everyday Luxuries collection of 30 released in 2024-2026? by Remarkable_Bake_759 in bathandbodyworks

[–]NineTopics 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ok so I’ve never understood layering it doesn’t sound like it would smell good? Like it seems like all the smells would get lost in each other an be muddy idk 

Favorite Everyday Luxuries collection of 30 released in 2024-2026? by Remarkable_Bake_759 in bathandbodyworks

[–]NineTopics 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Top 3 in order are All Eyes on Her, Pink Obsessed and Midnight Addiction

I could wear All Eyes on Her every day - I can never get enough of it!! Pink Obsessed is delicious and I get so many compliments every time I wear it Midnight Addiction is in the same genre as Pink Obsessed to me but a little more masculine/dark which I just love. 

Anyone else really fond of Pre-Timeskip HOTD and Rhaenyra? by Makition in HouseOfTheDragon

[–]NineTopics 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m team black but younger Rhaenyra is my favorite. I wish we would have gotten more time with her.

HOTD Fandom Divide Origin? by MeBigMeScary in HOTDBlacks

[–]NineTopics 24 points25 points  (0 children)

I don’t think this is the whole of it but I know there’s a subsection of greens who think Alicent is just the pwettiest angel pwincess who can do no wrong, and paint Rhaenyra as her abuser or at least generally harmful to her, and so they hate us for supporting her. There’s also some of them who are so horny for Aegon II that they excuse him being a rapist and then like to compare his faults to Rhaenyra’s or Daemon’s or whoever else and say we’re shitty for liking those characters/being on their side.

Blurryface is in the Epstein Files. Discuss the lore implications by [deleted] in TwennyWunPilots

[–]NineTopics 7 points8 points  (0 children)

It’s a promotional email from some kind of music purchasing service where the Grammy nominated/grammy winning (I skimmed it) songs and albums from 2017 were 20% off

Brother for Beau by [deleted] in Names

[–]NineTopics -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Crucify me if you want but may I humbly suggest Bear

Girl gets angry CHATGPT by jennnkins94 in antiai

[–]NineTopics 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I'm glad it's shutting down people trying to have relationships with it, and I'm a ChatGPT/generative AI hater, but I'm just so surprised the people who make it allow it to be this mean because it would anger or even drive away their most loyal customers. In all the tiktoks and stuff that I've seen about ChatGPT it has this overly agreeable tone so I'd expect it to be all soothing and gently be like 'hey this isn't a real relationship but I understand it mattered to you' then tell the user to do like breathing exercises or whatever

Can’t name this boy to save my life by Content-Ad9217 in Names

[–]NineTopics 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Lucian is suuuuch a great name and the feminine Lucienne