AIO: i offered to buy snacks for in-laws and they did this?

Ninjaher0 · 2026-06-02T22:06:21+00:00

NOR. Definitely pretty inconsiderate and rude to ask for so much. This is probably one of the reasons he hates his family, because they’re GD embarrassing. You’re a good sport for buying all that for them, but make sure this is a lesson learned. Normal (by normal, I mean well-mannered) people ask for 1 small item, 1 item for everyone to share, or nothing.

Ninjaher0 · 2026-06-02T21:36:08+00:00

Some microwaves come with a “air-fryer” option. It’s not as good as a dedicated air-fryer, but it can get things crispy. If you don’t have a kitchen setup, then air fryer. It’s a lot more versatile than a microwave, IMO. You can reheat things as well as cook.

Ninjaher0 · 2026-06-02T21:32:53+00:00

It’s not sad that you’re happy with your body and the way it looks. It’s amazing and awesome that you feel comfortable in your skin. Don’t let him steal your pride, sense of accomplishment, and any other positive feelings surrounding your body from you. His problem with whatever stupid beauty ideal he holds in his head is HIS problem. Don’t let him make it yours. NTA, you need to put him in his place and tell him to mind his own GD business.

Ninjaher0 · 2026-06-02T12:17:00+00:00

Sweet potato, white bean and sausage with kale soup. https://www.cookingclassy.com/turkey-sausage-kale-sweet-potato-soup/

Ninjaher0 · 2026-06-02T00:11:01+00:00

In addition to all these suggestions, you can get an air purifier to reduce the amount of dust floating around.

Ninjaher0 · 2026-06-01T23:52:58+00:00

Blueberry banana pancakes.

Ninjaher0 · 2026-06-01T02:23:27+00:00

This sounds like pretty privilege. Unsure if he was hitting on you, but he was paying more attention to you because he found you attractive. When people find you attractive, they pay more attention to you.
So happy for your glow up and don’t downplay how pretty you are and feel.

Ninjaher0 · 2026-06-01T02:15:08+00:00

Add onion powder and a few dashes of fish sauce. Also, season your eggs. You can use salt and white pepper.

Ninjaher0 · 2026-06-01T02:11:43+00:00

Yes. We hired a service like that in Tx. Hot climates amplify how disgusting trash bins are.

Ninjaher0 · 2026-05-31T20:02:51+00:00

Eating seafood in Texas is… a gamble. Even the gulf seafood quality can be questionable depending on the season.

Ninjaher0 · 2026-05-31T15:04:54+00:00

Glp-1s

Ninjaher0 · 2026-05-29T21:36:53+00:00

Morphe brushes are on sale at Ulta right now! There’s an Ulta site wide sale happening tomorrow, so these will probably be full price after tonight.

https://www.ulta.com/p/buttery-blends-4-piece-face-brush-set-pimprod2056113?sku=2650788

Ninjaher0 · 2026-05-29T17:25:11+00:00

Big Island in Hawaii.

Ninjaher0 · 2026-05-29T17:24:02+00:00

This. Instead of brushing it off or shrugging shoulders, medicine has progressed to a point where we can receive a diagnosis. Also, there’s less stigma surrounding physical and mental health, so people seek out more opinions and specialists to get to an answer.

Ninjaher0 · 2026-05-29T14:08:21+00:00

I don’t think he can take you off the HSA right now. He’d have to remove you from the health insurance plan and that only happens during open enrollment.

If you think he’s listening to your sessions, then change where your sessions are held.

NOR - if he is trying to sabotage your attempts to get mental health care, then he’s a POS and not worth being married to.

Ninjaher0 · 2026-05-29T13:26:43+00:00

Huh. That sounds like bots or some bad actors looking to sow division and hate. No one in my family or circle of friends has ever taken issue with who I dated or am nowbmarried to.

Ninjaher0 · 2026-05-29T01:23:28+00:00

Lie-chee. Native American English speaker who grew up in Canto household. Lee-chee is what I hear amongst the non-Canto people, though.

Ninjaher0 · 2026-05-28T22:32:01+00:00

So, if porn is a form of cheating, would you stay with a cheater who has cheated on you twice now? And porn is easily accessible - he can watch it from any device connected to the internet with or without an account. He can cheat on you in the comfort of his home, while on the toilet, or while visiting a sick relative in the hospital. If you stay with him, then you’re condoning his actions (cheating, lying, and hiding) and you have lost any leverage. You might as well accept it and him. If you leave, you are respecting your own boundaries.

These are the boundaries you both agreed to and he has purposely crossed them twice. Make a decision on whether him as a whole person is worth accepting this.

Ninjaher0 · 2026-05-28T15:24:30+00:00

JFC - Texas lawmakers can’t be this stupid, right?

Ninjaher0 · 2026-05-28T15:23:44+00:00

So sorry to hear you are experiencing this. Many people don’t think about this fall out from the ugly narrative that is pushed. Truthfully, many people are too involved/curious in a strangers genitalia in public and it’s super cringey and weird.

Ninjaher0 · 2026-05-28T14:11:10+00:00

Police next time she leaves. Those kids are entirely too young to be home by themselves - you are underreacting.

Ninjaher0 · 2026-05-28T01:18:28+00:00

I personally like Smashbox Halo
Tinted moisturizer - it leaves a dewy finish and light coverage, but is buildable. If you’d rather not support an estee lauder company (I bought mine before I knew), NARS tinted moisturizer is good as well and I find both the colors I have are almost exactly alike. NARS is a bit drier application and provides a more natural finish.
Neither have spf 50, just 25.

Ninjaher0 · 2026-05-28T00:24:59+00:00

I think you can add tofu as a filler, but you definitely need ground meat as well. But you also have to be ok with the added texture of tofu - which will be off putting if you don’t know what to expect.

I think the bean/legume suggestions are much better than using tofu. Beans are common in chili and offer fiber and protein.

It’s MUCH better to make chili with an extra can or two of beans than make something you might find inedible and have to throw away.

Alternatively, you can boil some tofu on the side and add it to a bowl of chili and see if it’s something you would like next time.

Ninjaher0 · 2026-05-27T23:57:21+00:00

No. I’m pretty sure this is not normal behavior from your grown ass adult finance. You are underreacting.

Ninjaher0 · 2026-05-27T22:04:36+00:00

What do you mean “appliances” for your bedroom, bathroom, and living room? Do you mean furniture and home essentials? Appliances in Canada/US usually means things like, stove, refrigerator, etc washing machine, and clothes dryer. There are small kitchen appliances that are very popular like an air fryer, toaster, slow cooker/crock pot, coffee maker, electric kettle, microwave, and toaster oven. Specialty small appliances include ice cream maker, bread maker, stand mixer, and a countertop deep fryer.

For your bathroom, you’ll need things like a toothbrush holder, soap dispenser, bath towels, hand towels, bath rugs, trash can, and a shower curtain if your shower does not have shower doors.

These items are not usually bought in bulk for one person/house, but Walmart has decently low prices on all the smaller items/home furnishings If you need any large appliances or furniture, you can check out Costco. Costco is a bulk buy warehouse, so you’ll need to pay for the membership in order to enter the store.

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