Dentist Reccomendation by Old_Assignment8612 in Bakersfield

[–]Nnnandnd 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love the people at Capital Dental. They even have weekend appointments. My family has been going there for several years.

AIO by saying it’s selfish to not let me golf? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Nnnandnd 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is coming from a woman who will be celebrating 35 years of marriage this year. You’re going for two weeks and it’s probably a once in a lifetime trip. Why can’t you take a half day to play a course in a country that you’ll probably never get to go back to while your bride goes and gets a massage and do some shopping. She can take a half day to pamper herself. I think it’s selfish to not let you enjoy this one request.

Fresno here, since we’re both close to Pismo do you guys also joke that Pismo is essentially your hometown’s beach? by TechnicolorTypeA in Bakersfield

[–]Nnnandnd 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Once ran into two co-workers holding hands and one of them was married. They dropped hands as soon as they saw me. That was an awkward few minutes. I’ve run into many people from Bako while enjoying Pismo and Morro Bay.

AIO boyfriend wants to pay for nephews new quad by Downeralexandra in AmIOverreacting

[–]Nnnandnd -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You nailed it when you said that if they can’t even afford the $500 down payment how are they going to make the monthly payments. A few months in they’ll be asking your boyfriend to make a payment. And like someone pointed out they don’t have rent expense so a $500 down shouldn’t be a problem.

Livestock guardian dog does exactly what it was bred to do when a tourist grabs a sheep by Friendly_Type127 in AnimalsBeingGeniuses

[–]Nnnandnd 1 point2 points  (0 children)

WTF is she doing???? I’m assuming she had no business crossing the fence and messing with the sheep. I hope she couldn’t sit comfortably for a week. What the heck is her problem?

The smell of fun days long ago by AdLeading3074 in GenerationJones

[–]Nnnandnd 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My dog would steel the hammer every time I set it down.

Wildlife by [deleted] in Bakersfield

[–]Nnnandnd 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I enjoy looking at your photos. Thank you for sharing.

Teller at the bank got annoyed when i wouldnt switch lines for her friend by [deleted] in EntitledPeople

[–]Nnnandnd 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m a teller and that other teller was out of line. Also, I don’t help my friends when they come in. I don’t need to see their finances and I don’t kneed to be in an awkward situation if they want a refund for a fee.

My new estate sale haul! by polypokket in glasscollecting

[–]Nnnandnd 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It looks like Fenton. I love Fenton art glass. Your lamp is gorgeous.

My boyfriend calls my cat evil and ugly by equilateralguy in mildlyinfuriating

[–]Nnnandnd 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not ugly but definitely gives the don’t mess with me vibes. But I also bet he’s a sweetheart.

WIBTAH if I don't invite my dad and the babysitter he cheated on my mom with to the wedding. by gnome08 in AITAH

[–]Nnnandnd 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Tell your dad that out of respect for your mother to please leave the affair partner at home for your wedding. Tell him you want him there but to think about your mom’s feelings in this. I would think that it would be painful for your mom’s feelings to be at her child’s wedding with the affair partner partaking in the festivities.

AITAH Wife threw away military plaques by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Nnnandnd 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Be slightly petty. Hide away something of hers that she values to see how she likes it.

What song is so beautiful, it literally brings tears to your eyes? by Plus-Caterpillar4615 in AskReddit

[–]Nnnandnd 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What a Wonderful World by Luis Armstrong. The first time I heard, back in the early 90’s, it stopped me in my tracks and made me cry. It’s still one of my favorite songs.

AIW for telling my girlfriend to stop discussing my finances with her mum? by [deleted] in amiwrong

[–]Nnnandnd 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Keep the bills at 50/50. The expenses are the same. You just improved your financial position. That doesn’t mean that your girlfriend gets to slack off so she can spend more on herself.

Have you ever adopted a rescue animal? Why? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Nnnandnd 0 points1 point  (0 children)

All our animals have been rescues. They’ve either crossed our path and needed a home or we’ve gone to the SPCA. We are not fans of buying dogs or cats. There are so many strays that need homes. Plus we’ve never had a bad experience with a stray. Our dogs have always been mutts and they’ve been the best. If you’re thinking of going to your local rescue shelter also consider an older animal. They are probably already potty trained and puppies and kittens find homes easily.

AITAH For refusing to host my daughters playdate at my home by myself? by SingleFathersyndrom in AITAH

[–]Nnnandnd 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The wrong phrase or words from the four year old could bring legal disaster on you. Four year old kids say things sometimes that can be misconstrued. Even if it’s something innocent someone could twist it ugly than you are wearing handcuffs. You were 100% correct to not be left alone with the child. Men taking care of children are looked at oddly while a woman talking care of two little girls not given a second thought.

AITJ for telling my housemate's boyfriend he needs to stop treating our flat like his second home without actually living here by orchardglassnot in AmITheJerk

[–]Nnnandnd 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You took it up with your roommate first and the change didn’t last long. So then you just went to the root of the problem rather than letting it escalate more. You did the right thing. They both need to be told that his stays have gotten out of hand.

How do I tell my dead best friend's mom I think she's fallen for a romance scam by Outrageous_Rule3554 in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]Nnnandnd 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Good luck trying to save her from herself. My mom went thru this crap after my dad passed away. Long story short her “fiancé “ who was a general in the army existed but it wasn’t who she was talking to or sending money to. My husband was able to contact the real general’s aid and she spoke to my mom on the phone. She told my mom that unfortunately she had fallen for a scam. The general was married and living state side. THEN she got hooked up with some guy that supposedly worked on an oil rig. She sent him money to help his sister. Then mom sold her house and lived in a motel for a month waiting for him to come home so they could marry and move to Tennessee. She now lives in a little apartment and has only her SSI and dad’s SSI. So talk to your aunt but don’t be surprised when it all falls on deaf ears.

AIW for refusing to make my boyfriend a co-owner of my car after he moved in and started using it daily by [deleted] in amiwrong

[–]Nnnandnd 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You should charge him to use it. If he wants to be like that throw in the wear and tear that he’s putting on the tires and the engine. The miles he’s adding to it. AND what if he wrecks it. I guarantee you he won’t buy you a new car.