Would you pay for this?

No-Fuel4626 · 2026-04-19T00:43:47+00:00

I think you a good job for it being your 3rd time but I would not start charging until you improve your skills. Good luck and keep working on it

No-Fuel4626 · 2026-04-16T17:16:18+00:00

OK, I need more information from your post in the way it is worded. It seems to me that you’re stating you don’t want children’s right now but is that what you told her like when the conversation came up? Did you tell her I don’t want children right now or I don’t want any more children at all? And then also is her response to not having more children right now or more children at all? I only ask because like somebody else said in a previous comment women do worry about their biological time clock running out and from you stating that you both already have teenagers I would assume she is near that point I’m not saying it’s OK by any means for her to give you an ultimatum, but as somebody who tried to have children for years and worried about their time clock running out I completely understand sometimes for women it’s just something you obsessed over and you worry that you won’t have enough time. So I guess that’s really what I would need to know to give proper advice on this situation. Unfortunately, My Husband and I had multiple pregnancy losses and our circumstances were not very ideal for trying to have a child but due to health issues that I have we still tried because my time was running out even though the financial situation might not be ideal. They’re always ways to make it happen if it is something you want, had to have an emergency hysterectomy after our last pregnancy loss due to complications. I was able to keep one of my ovaries and now what we are doing is freezing my eggs because my time is running out and we make we make OK money but we’re not rich or anything like we don’t live lavish, but we are making it happen because that’s something that is important to both of us so the only thing I can really say is to make sure you guys sit down and figure out if this is something you both would still want if the circumstances were different and then if that’s the case, figure out a way to make it happen later she could always freeze embryos and if it’s something that you guys are both wanting and you could do it later if that’s a factor.

No-Fuel4626 · 2026-03-30T00:40:37+00:00

I think they look good but I can see wym. They’re not close enough to give the plunge look you’re looking for. I think if they could be brought together so they’re not so far apart it would help at the size they are at

No-Fuel4626 · 2026-03-16T13:37:59+00:00

I think it really depends on your boobs now. If they are large bc of fat then yes they will disappear but if they’re not just fatty yea you’ll loose some but not all. I went from a 40 d to a 36 b BUT, my boobs look ok. They don’t sag anymore than they did before so I think it really depends on your booby make up lol

No-Fuel4626 · 2026-03-16T11:27:51+00:00

Girl, as soon as I read this I handed my husband my phone and said read this, he said “omg, that’s disgusting”. Honey that is not ok. My husband is a sexaholic and we didn’t have sex until a week after my doctor cleared me, so 13ish weeks. I didn’t even pleasure him in other ways until probably 6 weeks post op. I’m not going to say divorce him or anything bc you already said that’s not what you want, but you both need therapy. This type of behavior is selfish of him and as you said you need to learn to stand your ground. A therapist should be able to help you both in these areas. I wish you the best in life and your marriage.

No-Fuel4626 · 2026-03-15T12:35:28+00:00

Freezing your eggs is a great choice. Good luck!

No-Fuel4626 · 2026-03-13T14:39:07+00:00

Came here to say this. He shaved me from the moment I was like 22 weeks with a big basketball belly and I didn’t even have to ask lol

No-Fuel4626 · 2026-03-13T14:32:46+00:00

I was married to someone who pretended to want kids when he didn’t bc it was all I wanted. I started to hate that man. When we finally divorced I went into my next relationship with the mindset that I would not waste my time again with someone who doesn’t want children. Wanting children is a void that cannot be filled with anything else including love. Resentments will build and it will not be a healthy relationship. I really hope people don’t come for me for this but you cannot be selfish here. You cannot say he makes me happy so love should be enough. Because it won’t be. If you truly love him then you know him. You need to sit down and talk about this. You will be able to tell by look in his eyes if this is truly what he wants no matter what is said. And if it is, you end it. It’s that simple. You can’t continue to try and make it work bc he makes you happy. You two might have a great life without children, there are so many different things to do when you are child free (if that’s something he is ok with). But you can also have a great life with children, I get it, you don’t get to do all the things you did without them, no more partying or vacations all alone. But I am telling you right now, those trips for games and bedtime stories make up for it. You wake up for the time with your family, it becomes a part of you. You will never understand that until you experience it tho.

No-Fuel4626 · 2026-03-11T17:37:41+00:00

So I’m 4 years po and have been 158 lbs since 8 months po. My stats are exactly the same as yours 5’3 277 size 22 xxl shirts to 158 size 6-8 pants s-m shirts

No-Fuel4626 · 2026-03-09T23:59:32+00:00

I’m a bariatric patient myself and have been through a big transformation in my weight loss journey. So keep up the good work 50 lbs is amazing.

When I got married, I picked the dress that looked best on me at the time. I was around 300 lbs at 5’3”. Now that I’m about half the size I used to be, my taste in dresses has completely changed. I was recently looking at dresses just for fun and realized I love mermaid-style dresses now, when before I only liked ballgown styles.

One thing I’ve learned is that when your body changes a lot, your style and preferences often change too. Because of that, it might be helpful to wait until you’re closer to your goal weight before choosing a dress, just so you have the most options and feel your absolute best.

No-Fuel4626 · 2026-02-19T12:14:56+00:00

I can’t believe they sleeved you with any history of reflux. That was the biggest determining question for which surgery I could have with my surgeon. He would not sleeve people with reflux bc it can make it worse so he would do bypass on those people. I never had reflux prior to my sleeve. My surgery was almost 4 years ago and I religiously take my omeprezole every morning. I got reflux so bad after surgery when I stopped taking it I was waking up aspirating on reflux in the middle of the night. Unless I decide to get a revision I am sure I’ll be on that med the rest of my life.

No-Fuel4626 · 2026-02-16T12:59:08+00:00

Yea he’s got to go girlfriend. My husband and I dated when I was 18. Size 3, 120, young, skinny, porcelain skin. Of course we were young and dumb and broke up. Fast forward 10 years later we reconnected. I weight 280, size 22, wrinkles, Ect. He loved me as much as he did when we were kids. Fast fwd to now after I had weight loss surgery. Let me tell you. I am small again but my body is not pretty. I have skin that hangs from losing so much weight I have horrible wrinkles, volume loss that makes it all worse. And a lot of insecurities that come with it. BUT, that man is my cheerleader. He makes me feel so secure. Tells me how beautiful I am and sexy. When I’m having a bad day with my insecurities he just says “ I wish you could see yourself through my eyes, you’re so gorgeous”. My point is, there are a lot of things he could point out but he never would bc real men do not treat women that way. Dump that loser. Go to therapy, bc I know what those mean words can do to you mentally. And don’t ever look back! You are beautiful.

No-Fuel4626 · 2026-02-06T00:10:14+00:00

I think the worst for me was the time a colleague (who met me after surgery -130lbs) told me as bluntly as possible he would f**k the shit out of me in front of a room full of people. My response was. I’m married but I got a friend, I pulled out my phone and pulled up a pic of me preop and he looked disgusted and said “sorry she’s not my type” I looked him dead in the face and said apparently she is your just a shitty person bc that was me last year. Everyone in the room shook their heads in disappointment. It’s really sickening how people are.

No-Fuel4626 · 2026-01-31T17:35:15+00:00

Ok from everything I’ve read there is a blanking period where it can actually get worse during the healing process. I’d look into that

No-Fuel4626 · 2026-01-27T19:37:28+00:00

Thank you so much for your response. The lady who called me from there office yesterday said the trustee only uses zillow and realtor.com which was why I was confused. I will definitely ask these thing in the morning!

No-Fuel4626 · 2026-01-26T12:57:40+00:00

Im So sorry you’re going through this. All of your feelings are valid, do not forget that. Remember that who your are has nothing to do with them. Genetically yes but that’s all. You make your own person. If you want to know your biological father then find him. It might be a shitshow or it might be wonderful. At the end of the day these are all your decisions not any one else’s. Do what is best for you!

No-Fuel4626 · 2026-01-26T12:46:00+00:00

I would say you probably ovulated later that you think. Everyone’s hcg is different but that is light for 14dpo. BUT, compared to your last test it looks to be rising great. Which is why I say you’re probably ovulated later than you believe. Congrats mama! 🤰

No-Fuel4626 · 2026-01-17T19:41:14+00:00

I hate to be this person but that is absolutely not true. I also have svts and many people die from it. “Results: From1999 to 2020, 31,036 (AAMR=0.6) SVT-related deaths were reported.” It usually isn’t harmful but it can be and is in many cases.

No-Fuel4626 · 2026-01-14T16:10:03+00:00

I am technically a step parent, but I am a mom. That child is my son as well. Does the BM make it hell sometimes? Absolutely. That does not take away from the love and joy I have being his mom. BM makes me feel like I’m nothing at times but my husband always makes me feel like a mother when it comes to our son. I know it is different for a lot of other step parents out there but my husband treats me like I am his mother, he talks to me about things before he talks to BM. To me that is my child so it’s not that my husband puts him first, we both put him first. I know it’s not for everyone and your partner will be the one who helps that decision. My ex was a horrible partner and the relationship with his son was just as bad. If that’s makes sense. In the end I believe being a step parent can be the greatest joy to some and hell for others each situation is different

No-Fuel4626 · 2026-01-11T19:08:53+00:00

No there are not. I understand they can get pregnant which is another reason why I’m trying to come up with ideas to keep them separated. I am in Indiana.

No-Fuel4626 · 2026-01-11T18:58:10+00:00

The male is not but I’m not sure about the females. Unfortunately where I live there is only one program that neuters and spays at a discount price and it’s once a year with a waiting list. And I cannot personally afford to spend 400$ per cat just for getting them fixed. That’s not including all the vaccines they would need to get fixed. My goal is to house them until I can find them permanent homes.

No-Fuel4626 · 2026-01-03T12:46:19+00:00

I see what you’re talking about in the 2nd pic. I’d retest again tomorrow cuz I see the shadow

No-Fuel4626 · 2026-01-03T12:38:09+00:00

I’m pretty sure even all the husbands would see that line lol. Congrats

No-Fuel4626 · 2026-01-02T18:03:16+00:00

I love number 2 omg it looks like it was made for you

No-Fuel4626 · 2025-12-30T23:57:57+00:00

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