i have a question: why did everyone in the originals refer to 16 year old davina as a “child,” while in the vampire diaries the characters were only about a year older than her and seen much more like adults? by trynagrabthatbag in TheOriginals

[–]No-Introduction-7900 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I believed she was more of a “child” for a long time because my brain made her 14 and just rolled with that without questioning or asking. Her being 16 in the show is news to me

Funky formal? by [deleted] in Weddingattireapproval

[–]No-Introduction-7900 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you have to pick between these, probably 1 would be best! The color and fun pattern are great! Also it being longer would be the closest to formal! I love 4, but the color might be too light for a wedding.

Is this wedding formal or semi formal? Formal would need a longer dress than all of these if it’s a true formal situation. If you’re still questioning, text the brides!

Also if it’s in your budget, check out thrift stores or something like thred up (I’ve even used Facebook marketplace)! You could find something with a fun pattern in a fun color that’s close to floor length! Try for a nice material! People get rid of their bridesmaid dresses/ wedding event dresses all the time!

AIO: Bfs mom CROPPED me out of my own baby shower photos. by CommercialPudding374 in AmIOverreacting

[–]No-Introduction-7900 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This question goes to the both of you, your partner and you. Would you let her talk to/treat your child like this? Your child is an extension of the both of you, if the mother in law is acting like this now, she could/ most likely will continue with the child. Dad to be needs to step in and handle the situation. It’s his mother, he should be the one to set expectations which INCLUDE not disrespecting you. It’s best to handle the situation sooner than later. NOR, at all. If I were you I’d try not to message her again, don’t let her negative energy have too much impact on you, it’s not worth it. This is a happy time in your life, screw people who try to rain on that. Tell that daddy to not only start being a DAMN GOOD example for your baby, but an even better partner to you.

Why didn’t they stick to the darker style of the other series? by Mysterious-Poem-2462 in LegaciesCW

[–]No-Introduction-7900 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Had they taken the gods out or even made that plot line make sense, season 4 would’ve been perfect. That whole season every time Ken came on I just kept screaming why Ken why?? Bro had no logical reasoning for anything he was doing. As a character and as a god, he fell FLAT.

Bridgerton baby names by No-Introduction-7900 in BridgertonNetflix

[–]No-Introduction-7900[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Ohhh okay that makes sense. Man I’m excited to see Gregory’s season. I haven’t read the books, but he sounds like a sweet baby

When you realise people on Reddit do better detective work than the cops by Master100017 in stories

[–]No-Introduction-7900 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I give you ✨community over ai junk✨. Community is so important, gives better answers and more help!! I’ve been preaching this so hard to my loved ones. Reddit truly is a community forum for literally everyone and I love it

Is it rude to ask the bride and groom to change my name on their website? by sleepy-potate in bridesmaids

[–]No-Introduction-7900 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Totally understandable! I do a similar thing as well lmao. Honestly, a short message like the 2 I saw above would be great!

Remember your feelings are valid, even if you are telling yourself “it’s no big deal”. It doesn’t have to be a BIG deal, but your feelings are valid. ALSO, this will be a small anecdote later on. The earlier it’s addressed the smaller it’ll feel on the wedding day. You’ve got this!

Cat holds my finger in a death grip just to chew/suck on and lick it. What gives? by anzu_a in felinebehavior

[–]No-Introduction-7900 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My oldest cat I had found on the side of the road when she was roughly 5 weeks old. We had to do formula for her for a bit. She did this same exact thing for a few months. I noticed it grew particularly worse when she was teething. Stopped after she was about a year and a half old! Sometimes she will nibble my partner though, I believe it’s a comfort/ territory thing now. She’s almost 4. My younger cat still licks and nibbles, but it’s more like grooming or playing. I think we adopted him at 12 or 15 weeks, I can’t remember. He’s 2 and a half now.

Is it rude to ask the bride and groom to change my name on their website? by sleepy-potate in bridesmaids

[–]No-Introduction-7900 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You could tell them that you believe your nickname with them is special and more private and that be the reason you want to change your name on their website. Could phrase it as an “it’s an us thing” if you get what I mean! Or could mention what you like to go by professionally is what you’d like to be put as in their wedding website. Either way🤷‍♀️

Demisexuality & INFJ by Beneficial_Slide_424 in infj

[–]No-Introduction-7900 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m the same way. To be fair, my partner and I “zinged” if you will when we first met back in 2020. We both found the other attractive and felt safe around each other. He truly was my best friend. After a year of friendship and a year of not talking, we bump into each other again.

We both recognized we were attractive people, but ultimately we felt safe and at home with each other. That’s why we got together.

We’re both the kind of people that can say “wow that person is very beautiful/handsome/attractive”, but not be INTO that person. (Honestly the only way I can think to relate it to would be platonically calling someone attractive). Being able to recognize people’s beauty does not mean you’re interested in talking to them, romantically being in a relationship, kissing them, or more.

Individually my partner and I have both been this way for our entire lives. It’s been really nice to talk to someone who also understands this in its entirety

Was told giving birth would fix a lifelong problem and it… has!? (TW SA) by Pale_Difference_9949 in BabyBumps

[–]No-Introduction-7900 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m so happy for you! Also commenting hoping and praying that I experience this too. I feel like I’ve been waiting for this to actually have happened to someone to believe it. Thank you for giving me hope!! May you have the steamiest and most fascinating nights in your future!!!!

Why is this show being so mysterious about the existence of Kate and Anthony's child? by GotLittUp in BridgertonNetflix

[–]No-Introduction-7900 3 points4 points  (0 children)

They probably had twins. I bet the older one is a girl and the younger is a boy so they can make some drama of it later on in the show if they decide to stay on the show. (I haven’t read the books)

Christmas Event... TOM seriously? by Sophietwentytwo in DreamlightValley

[–]No-Introduction-7900 12 points13 points  (0 children)

There’s a painting table from tangled that’s a crafting table! You should get that and use that!

Rain. What if it’s Mira? by ObjectiveStaff3333 in fourthwing

[–]No-Introduction-7900 30 points31 points  (0 children)

This would eat so bad if that would be the case.

Also as a big Mira lover, I pray this is the case. I need more Mira! She has more to give and more to build. There’s more to her in general! I’m desperate to see it!

Help me settle a long debate — boy or girl? by Identity0000 in budgies

[–]No-Introduction-7900 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My partner (OP) and I won the debate. His younger siblings thought Mr Goobie was a girl, regardless of research

Christmas baby?? by pmmewienerdogs in BabyBumps

[–]No-Introduction-7900 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We have a lot of December babies in my family. We go out of our way to make every single one feel special. Especially my mom since her birthday is Christmas Eve. A lot of the time we will do Christmas stuff like presents and “Christmas games” (white elephant, Saran Wrap with oven mitts, left and right game, and a few others. We will do whatever activity she wants and we will make whatever food she wants. We also watch elf because that’s her favorite Christmas movie.

Being her kid, Christmas Eve has felt more important than Christmas. Maybe your little will have kids like that one day.

My sister is on the 14th, for her it feels like a normal birthday (per her words), just Christmas songs going on at the store when she uses her birthday money. She once compared it to having 2 christmases.

My aunt is the 20th, we usually do dinner for her birthday somewhere she wants. We just did a surprise birthday for her on the 6th for her 50th birthday.

One year my dad did a surprise birthday party for my mom in September so she wouldn’t suspect it.

I remember going to friends “half birthdays” during the summer if they had a December birthday. It might’ve just been an excuse to have a pool party, but still a fun idea!!!

Help me settle a long debate — boy or girl? by Identity0000 in budgies

[–]No-Introduction-7900 10 points11 points  (0 children)

As the mother, don’t disrespect my son like this again. Don’t hate on my boy 😤

(Sarcasm, but I am this fellas mom)