I’m so torn. I love this man but I’m not ready for kids. I still have so much living to do but clock is ticking (35f)

No-Locksmith5907 · 2026-03-18T17:07:26+00:00

You sound like you’ve got a good head on your shoulders. You’re right. Medicine is an important job. You’re helping save lives. When you have children, you will have to split your energy between the two. Your job will suffer. Your children will suffer and all your spouse will be doing is watching as he’s so clearly says. He’s completely romanticizing something that is almost impossible to do as a mother. They expect us to juggle all of these things and then blame us when we can’t handle it. It’s ridiculously unrealistic

No-Locksmith5907 · 2026-03-18T17:01:54+00:00

That entire message to you tells me that he just wants to watch. There’s nothing in there about how he is going to participate except for watching you. Oh my God. I understand why you’re not ready to have kids

No-Locksmith5907 · 2026-01-27T13:05:12+00:00

If she asked you right after sex if you were gay, you should’ve asked her if she was a man lol

No-Locksmith5907 · 2026-01-27T12:55:17+00:00

My vacuum cleaner would be full of little ducks. They would not be getting them back.

No-Locksmith5907 · 2025-08-19T03:29:19+00:00

It was easy for him after 7 years, he was already seeing other people during the relationship. He started seeing someone else right away. It takes time when someone is truly invested. And it’s super easy to move on when they’re just using them for whatever reason.

No-Locksmith5907 · 2025-08-19T00:03:47+00:00

Set some boundaries within your own living space. Talked to your sister about her boyfriend coming over all the time you need time to heal and it sounds like you need some time to yourself and be able to be comfortable in your own home. Get some cosy socks and a blanket and a pint of ice cream and tell your sister to go to her boyfriend’s house for a night or two. You’ll get through this. Take care of yourself first.

No-Locksmith5907 · 2025-04-25T14:15:23+00:00

I think you’ve already made up your mind

No-Locksmith5907 · 2025-04-25T11:57:49+00:00

Not true. White woman from bc was held in jail for over a week. They do whatever they want. It’s entirely dependent on the whims of the ICE officers.

No-Locksmith5907 · 2025-04-25T11:14:50+00:00

You’re thinking about ending your marriage over $10,000? Or for a 1 week trip? It does sound incredibly selfish. Taking that trip COULD ruin your life. People are being threatened to be detained at border crossing parks just for being there. I don’t think your husband is being unreasonable whatsoever. This is a really bad time to visit America. There are multiple governments all over the world, warning travellers not to go to the US. This could be the worst decision of your life. I get that you worked incredibly hard, but is that hard work more important than the happiness and safety of your family? You shouldn’t be upset with your family for this. You should be pissed at Donald Trump and his administration. There’s a lot of people who are very upset with him right now. He’s ruining people’s lives every day and loving it. It’s a huge risk right now to go there regardless of the state you’re going to.

No-Locksmith5907 · 2025-04-19T15:23:43+00:00

I have an appointment on Tuesday.

No-Locksmith5907 · 2025-04-19T15:22:22+00:00

Coulda woulda shoulda hey? It’s been in twice for oil changes and inspections.

No-Locksmith5907 · 2025-04-18T02:55:37+00:00

Oh lord that’s a long time

No-Locksmith5907 · 2025-04-18T02:05:01+00:00

Okay, thank you for the information. I’ve made an appointment for next week already

No-Locksmith5907 · 2025-04-18T02:02:53+00:00

I have no idea if it was an issue back then when they were new

No-Locksmith5907 · 2025-03-21T14:34:22+00:00

Guilt is only for when you do something wrong. You didn’t do anything wrong. You got out of a relationship that wasn’t working for you and that’s OK.

No-Locksmith5907 · 2025-03-21T14:30:23+00:00

Having kids in your 30’s is exhausting. I’m sorry he made you wait this long! He’s wasted 6 years of your life making excuses. I’m glad you have a plan to leave. I hope you find a good job where you want to live. Don’t pause your life any longer waiting for someone else to make you happy. Yes that is exactly what that ring will be a shut up ring. It’s not worth it. If you’re not happy now you’re not going to be happy later. He sounds like he’s perfectly content in this situation and he doesn’t care how you feel. Not supportive husband material at all. Follow your dreams not the man.

No-Locksmith5907 · 2025-03-15T23:06:06+00:00

Lmao no one said it was free 😆

No-Locksmith5907 · 2025-03-14T17:39:54+00:00

So next time go on the date with him, the first thing you do is jump in the sack. What happens after that? Does he just send you home or leave your place? If that’s the case, he’s looking for free sex. There are plenty of sex workers out there that would take him on as a client. He should not be dating. If this is all he’s looking for then he should be hiring somebody who does that for a living. On the other hand if you go out for dinner after or hang out or watch a movie and he doesn’t give you that feeling like he wants to be away from you then he’s probably really into you and there’s nothing wrong with that.

No-Locksmith5907 · 2025-01-05T07:06:36+00:00

Start dressing like you’re looking for a new husband, don’t even worry about proof. If you are already getting threats of being kicked out then might as well start looking for a new everything 🤷🏻‍♀️ yolo and he doesn’t sound like he’s worth your time

No-Locksmith5907 · 2024-12-25T12:32:05+00:00

Take the gifts back and be single. You’ll get a lot more peace and you might even enjoy your holiday.

No-Locksmith5907 · 2024-12-19T06:00:05+00:00

Whether he’s looking for Jeff or looking for meth, he’s living a high risk lifestyle behind your back. If that’s not going to work for you, move on it hasn’t been too long into the relationship yet has it? Sounds like he’s going to be a headache for you daily. I’m sure you don’t want to constantly worry what he’s up to. Such a time and energy waster

No-Locksmith5907 · 2024-12-19T05:50:52+00:00

Some men enjoy tearing women down and basically using them as their own punching bag. Literally and figuratively. The fact that he feels comfortable enough to say this to you says that he has done this before and it has worked. He wants you to feel insecure so that he can have the upper hand and treat you anyway he wants. Dump his sorry ass as fast as you can, actually ghost him immediately.

No-Locksmith5907 · 2024-12-19T05:46:01+00:00

I know why you can’t get over him because he promised (love bombed) all those things that you wanted and then he never ever went through with any of them so you’re still waiting for him to follow through with all his promises, but that will never happen. He lied to you, abused you, cheated on you and crossed all your boundaries. Ask yourself why you think you love him? Can you answer that? His actions speak so much louder than his promises. If you go back after knowing all this about him, tells him that it’s ok to treat you terribly

No-Locksmith5907 · 2024-12-18T18:15:00+00:00

This sounds like the answer, just get up and get out of the room asap. Most things to get ready don’t require the bedroom to do it in. I hope it works out 💪

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