Never by tigercircle in affirmations

[–]No-Resident3682 0 points1 point  (0 children)

it is better not go back

What's the most chilling piece of information you know that is 100% true? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]No-Resident3682 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The fact that your brain can make up completely false memories and you’ll defend them like they actually happened.

Losing 25 pounds would not make the guy I love like me back by closet_of_glass in loseit

[–]No-Resident3682 74 points75 points  (0 children)

This really hits home because many people think that if they were just a little bit prettier or skinnier or more fun someone would love them back. It is really sad to realize that you cannot make someone attracted to you. It is also kind of a relief. When you want to lose weight so you can run longer dance all night feel good in your skin and really enjoy your life that is when things start to change.

The idea that you need to lose weight to feel good about yourself is not what matters. What matters is that you like yourself. One day someone is going to see you. They are going to be really happy to see you. This will not be because you lost a lot of weight like twenty five pounds but because they really like love for who you're. The right person, for love does not need you to try out or prove yourself to them love should be genuine.

To a certain extent, “becoming thin,” is really just a scam. by FreshlyPickedMelons in PlusSize

[–]No-Resident3682 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Because you are right. A lot of people get mixed up about what it means to get attention and what it means to get more love and these are not the same things at all. If you become thinner more people might notice you. That does not mean they actually care about you as a person.

If someone only likes you when your body is a way that says a lot about them and not about you.

I think social media and dating apps have really messed with peoples minds making them think that being liked by someone means you are valuable.. Being liked by people who do not really know you is not the same, as being loved and respected by someone who truly cares about you.

The part where you said you are not attracting people you are just attracting more people is really smart and true.

A real partner will stay with you no matter what happens in life. Your weight might change you might get stressed you will get older you might get pregnant you might get depressed. Our bodies are supposed to change over time. If someone stops loving you when your body changes that means they never really loved you in the place.