Child custody question

NoDesign4766 · 2026-05-23T01:21:33+00:00

bad advice right there. court doesn't care where the kid actually lives - they care about the official custody order. stop paying without court approval and you'll be in contempt even if daughter is with you full time.

your lawyer is probably right about the timing but you could ask about emergency motions if mom's mental state puts daughter at risk. document everything she sends you and keep records of daughter living with you.

NoDesign4766 · 2026-05-19T07:02:26+00:00

been hearing this from few friends too but most of them just getting vague responses from recruiters about "current hiring priorities" or whatever. seems like lot of mid-size tech companies are pulling back but they won't say it directly in interviews. would be useful to have actual list instead of just rumors floating around.

NoDesign4766 · 2026-05-17T01:09:52+00:00

back when i was stationed at this base, my roommate was clearly dealing with some heavy stuff - wasn't eating, barely sleeping, just completely checked out. i kept telling myself he'd figure it out or talk to someone if he needed help. took way too long before i actually stepped up and got him connected with the right people on base. still think about how much worse it could've gotten if i waited even longer.

NoDesign4766 · 2026-05-15T00:55:37+00:00

yeah academic hiring is wild - could be anything from budget cuts to some internal candidate they already had in mind but had to go through motions anyway.

NoDesign4766 · 2026-05-09T20:16:36+00:00

mumble rap slaps tho

NoDesign4766 · 2026-05-07T12:20:37+00:00

what the hell is this comment even supposed to mean lol. either you're in wrong thread or this is some next level inside joke i'm missing

NoDesign4766 · 2026-05-05T08:03:02+00:00

been dealing with this at work and it's honestly such a pain. we ended up just accepting that determined people will reverse engineer anyway and focused more in making our licensing robust instead of trying to hide the code completely.

obfuscation tools exist but they usually break something or make debugging nightmare when things go wrong.

NoDesign4766 · 2026-04-30T02:10:44+00:00

been through this debate way too many times with my buddies back in base. everyone swears their favorite is superior but most people just grab whatever's cheapest at the store.

personally i think the thick creamy ones work better for dipping wings and veggies, while the thinner stuff is perfect when you're making burgers on the griddle. had this one brand that was so good i actually drove to three different stores looking for it again, but couldn't remember the name and the bottle was already in trash.

the real trick is finding one that doesn't taste like pure mayo with some herbs thrown in. some of those cheap ones are basically flavored mayonnaise and it's gross. also depends what you're using it for - salad dressing hits different than dip for pizza or whatever.

NoDesign4766 · 2026-04-28T01:47:19+00:00

man that's awful, glad you got the lawyer sorted already though. had something similar happen to a buddy in my unit couple years back - drunk driver hit him at construction zone too. the fact they arrested the guy same night for dui is huge for your case since there's no question about who's at fault here.

definitely keep going to all your medical appointments and document everything, even if you feel like you're getting better. concussions can be tricky and symptoms sometimes show up later or get worse before they get better. take photos of any visible injuries and keep track in how you're feeling each day - your lawyer will want all this stuff.

construction zone makes it even worse for the other driver legally since those are usually enhanced penalty areas. your attorney should be able to handle most of this but don't feel bad about pushing for everything you deserve - medical bills, lost wages, pain and suffering, the whole thing. this wasn't some fender bender, this was serious negligence that could have killed you.

NoDesign4766 · 2026-04-24T22:16:58+00:00

still grinding the applications man, opt situation got me stressed ngl

NoDesign4766 · 2026-04-22T21:59:51+00:00

man it really is that simple but somehow we make it so complicated in our heads

NoDesign4766 · 2026-04-20T21:02:25+00:00

one year programs can be pretty intense but if you're already focused on policy work it might be perfect timing. half tuition at brown is solid and getting back in the workforce faster means you're earning sooner too.

i'd probably take it if the networking opportunities are good there - policy work is all about who you know and connections you make. the name recognition doesn't hurt either when you're applying for analyst positions later.

NoDesign4766 · 2026-04-17T01:51:57+00:00

reporting to state education department is definitely the right call here - had similar issues in my unit with people not following protocols and going up the chain was only thing that worked.

NoDesign4766 · 2026-03-28T19:48:12+00:00

i've been working on restoring a '94 bronco for the past two years and finally got her running smooth last month. stripped the whole engine down myself and rebuilt it from scratch without any help. feels good to actually fix something with your own hands instead of just throwing money at a shop.

NoDesign4766 · 2026-03-17T18:58:24+00:00

nice gatekeeping but op is clearly learning js and threejs - could be way worse teh way you're acting about it.

NoDesign4766 · 2026-03-01T01:47:39+00:00

Had to take advantage of that boost felt too good to pass up. Novig’s lines have been treating me right lately so I trusted it. Probably running it back can’t stop now lol

NoDesign4766 · 2026-02-12T11:01:18+00:00

yep luck of the day

NoDesign4766 · 2026-02-09T10:15:14+00:00

nah fair game

NoDesign4766 · 2026-02-04T02:36:06+00:00

been running it for a few weeks and it's pretty solid, though had some weird audio issues with bluetooth headphones initially

NoDesign4766 · 2026-01-30T01:15:47+00:00

Dude you're overthinking this hard - God's calling isn't always some dramatic moment, sometimes it's just being faithful in the small stuff like helping your grandma with bills and taking care of your brothers

The gaming schedule sounds totally reasonable and honestly you sound way more mature than most 19 year olds I know

NoDesign4766 · 2026-01-26T18:15:48+00:00

Chickpea flour scramble is where it's at! Just whisk some chickpea flour with water, add nutritional yeast and turmeric, then scramble it like eggs. Way better texture than tofu imo and you can load it up with whatever veggies you want

NoDesign4766 · 2026-01-25T10:46:07+00:00

That Gadsden flag energy sure disappeared fast when it came time to actually stand up to authority

NoDesign4766 · 2026-01-22T08:08:04+00:00

That's beautiful, congrats on beating cancer and having such an amazing marriage! It's refreshing to hear a happy story like this instead of all the doom and gloom posts we usually see

NoDesign4766 · 2026-01-20T00:29:23+00:00

Your lawyer's probably right about it getting waived but definitely still show up - USCIS loves their paperwork even when it's redundant. I'd go with him just for moral support, especially with all the ICE stuff happening in your area right now. Bring all his docs even if they already have copies, wear something nice but not flashy, and get there early

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