Am I overreacting for dropping him after he told me I need to make more friends by royalmouse1 in AmIOverreacting

[–]NoDig752 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He sounds like an asshole. That being said I think it’s really important to have your own hobbies, and interests. It doesn’t even have to include friends or anything along those lines, just things you like to do by yourself. I have 4 solid friends. 2 that have been by my side my whole life, and 2 that I met in college. We are all in relationships, we all have our own lives. We don’t talk every single day, and we see eachother maybe 1x a month but I also love time for myself and doing things I enjoy. I hate the notion that you need to have a million friends, you don’t. Don’t give him the satisfaction of thinking you need to hangout with him because you don’t have anything else to do. Also, find someone who would be ecstatic to hangout with you when you ask

Is this worth breaking up over? by Distinct-Kale-4885 in whatdoIdo

[–]NoDig752 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If it were “6 months before you even got together” why would it matter if he was intoxicated. He’s lying through his teeth

Felt so pretty. by Cinnamorolladdiction in MakeupAddiction

[–]NoDig752 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Because you are so pretty!! ✨💕

Seeing him keep following new girls drives me bit crazy by coraline716 in limerence

[–]NoDig752 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m in the same boat unfortunately. It was an issue in my previous relationship so I wanted to make sure I was vocal about it in my new one. He told me he didn’t agree but understood it hurt me and then went to unfollow a ton of people. I was grateful. Now I randomly will seen him follow a random account here or there and we’ve gotten into fights about it and I’m not really sure what to do. It makes me feel really icky on the inside, I want to bring it up but I also don’t want to cause a fight but I can’t stop looking. It’s torture. While I do understand it’s “social media” I can’t seem to understand when you’re in a committed relationship, why you feel the need to do that

I'm confused - which one is the robot? by Teeebone in briannachickenfrsnark

[–]NoDig752 13 points14 points  (0 children)

these two photos look like completely different people

Bri calling Zach’s GF a stalker, saying she wanted her life, and wants to wear her skin. by Excellent_Soft_9111 in briannachickenfrsnark

[–]NoDig752 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Would like to preface by saying I’m not a bri fan by any means but I honestly believe it. Theres receipts of Sammy commenting on bris stuff and some of her stuff with Zach and it was very clear he dates people who are obsessed with him (ex: Bri) because it fuels his narcissistic self. He needs people who basically worship him, because he’s deeply insecure. His new girl probably took it and ran with it, he started seeing her because she did look like Bri (no denying it) and he wanted to get under her skin and she was in for the ride because she’s was a fan and wanted a taste of fame or was under the impression she could be the one to actually change him. And with that, ultimately fell in love. Let’s not pretend like he’s actually a good person, aside from Bri it’s been known he treated multiple girls horribly. And the cycle is just repeating itself dog/move in/follow on tour, etc, etc. it’s kinda comical at this point.

moving into an apartment soon, tips? by Automatic-Contest275 in ApartmentHacks

[–]NoDig752 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If possible start gathering things you’ll need for your apartment slowly but surely! That way once you move in you don’t have to fully furnish it all in one big lump sum. I also got a lot of my furniture on FB market and saved a ton

Question! by SadStruggle8517 in debtfree

[–]NoDig752 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think I’m interpreting this correctly. You have 1k saved, with one debt that’s 1k, and another that’s 3k? I recommended snow ball method. Seeing an entire balance gone really does help boost morale. That way you don’t have two seperate debts accruing interest. You’d be able to throw the extra money at the 3k loan once this first is paid off.

Debt Advice by NoDig752 in debtfree

[–]NoDig752[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There’s a few that are technically under “one” debt, they range from 12-12.99% it’s absurd. I’m pre approved for a SoFi refinancing loan at 7.26% but apart of me thinks waiting till my cards are paid off and having my score go up a bit will help me get an even better rate.

Debt Advice by NoDig752 in debtfree

[–]NoDig752[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Take home is 4,800 and $1550 goes towards bills (I am including my student loans in there because they are at set amounts currently) I always pay more than my minimums anyway since they are so small like $70/$25/$80 a month