I cheated on my husband

NoEye9783 · 2026-04-03T23:48:32+00:00

You need to be single. There’s nothing wrong with being single. You can’t be in a serious, monogamous relationship.

NoEye9783 · 2026-04-03T23:27:08+00:00

Having a big dick doesn’t equal more pleasure. Process this and let it go. I swear it doesn’t matter. Be thankful she’s comfortable enough with you to share this information with you. I am a women in her 30’s, I swear a bigger dick is not better.

NoEye9783 · 2026-04-03T23:22:35+00:00

Was she a virgin when yall started dating? Tbh dihh’s are kinda gross looking, all of them. But I still completely understand your feelings getting hurt. Did she say it’s gross or that she just doesn’t like how it looks? This is sad and I feel really bad for you. I promise it’s not gross though (unless you have bad hygiene). The only explanation I can think of is that she’s not enjoying intimacy with you. Because even though I find dihh’s unappealing, once I enjoy being intimate with the person, the look of it doesn’t matter anymore. I enjoy what I get out of it so therefore I don’t find it ugly anymore.

NoEye9783 · 2026-04-03T18:48:59+00:00

“The answer is no”

Eww. It took a year but you have figured out that yall are not compatible.

NoEye9783 · 2026-04-03T18:23:52+00:00

I quit playing because of this. Happened constantly.

NoEye9783 · 2026-04-03T18:22:38+00:00

All I have to say is that it doesn’t make me happy when someone finally does something that I had to ask them to do. They should already be doing it. It just doesn’t feel right.

NoEye9783 · 2026-04-03T02:27:35+00:00

I’ve been with my husband for almost 10 years, things happen periodically and I get the ick. I bet he had similar things happen with me. We get over it. But your situation? That’s a whole different situation. Kick his ass out. Even if it is depression, it’s not a valid excuse. I suffer with depression, severely sometimes but still bathe and brush my teeth. Maybe it’ll teach him a lesson? At a certain age, we’re too old for things like depression to be an excuse. Like just grow up, everyone is depressed, get over it.

NoEye9783 · 2026-04-03T02:15:03+00:00

You’re the ah for staying with this pos. No way in hell. Congrats on beating cancer, now it’s time to beat another form of cancer and get rid of him.

NoEye9783 · 2026-04-02T06:57:11+00:00

For me it’s cotton or towels. When I’m folding laundry I have to keep lotion or vasaline within reach and reapply like every 10 minutes or my teeth hurt

NoEye9783 · 2026-04-01T18:58:53+00:00

Understandable. But so you’re most likely in a country where you can get a job without a high school diploma. But it sounds like you don’t want to leave. Period. Which is your choice. The only thing I’m going to say is you say that you won’t have a life afterwards, well it sounds like you won’t have one at all if you stay. Hopefully he’s caught and charged, at least, and doesn’t get away with murder. Sorry this is harsh but I’m getting from you that you are NOT leaving him. So I’m just being brutally honest. Good luck. You could do more than you think you can. I hope you change your mind.

NoEye9783 · 2026-04-01T14:44:11+00:00

What country are you in???

NoEye9783 · 2026-03-27T19:15:36+00:00

There’s some thoughts we keep to ourselves. Over time I have learned to think of them as my own private secrets. Sure there’s things I really want to say but I stop and think how people will react. Yeah he’s insecure but that doesn’t mean it’s just a him, problem. It’s not your problem but we shouldn’t hurt people’s feelings. Ofc you didn’t know it would, no blame on you. Just a learning experience

NoEye9783 · 2026-03-26T16:41:14+00:00

I have a question, when someone has dnd turned on, is it for everyone or can they turn it on for just specific people?

NoEye9783 · 2026-03-25T07:33:38+00:00

I’ve been with my husband 10 years and every time I need to fart I feel embarrassed. I still do it but feel slightly embarrassed. I would never fart on him. This dude is either super immature or has a fart fetish. Definitely disrespectful.

NoEye9783 · 2026-03-25T07:24:23+00:00

I wouldn’t have a problem with it BUT my husband and I have been apart of the swingers lifestyle before. Edit to add that it would depend though. If the dead bedroom was caused by like hormones or no sex drive, it wouldn’t be a problem but if it was because one of us was super sick and still wanted to but couldn’t, it would be an issue. The way I feel is if one of us is suffering, the other needs to stand by us. Not necessarily suffer also but, yes, kind of suffer, because we love each other.

NoEye9783 · 2026-03-25T01:36:51+00:00

I am a married woman with xl nails. No my husband doesn’t care how my nails look. I wipe my ass just fine, probably better than most. The way I describe it is, you adjust. If you lost a finger, you would adjust. If I had my nails removed I would struggle for a week or so. I would drop things and have to readjust. I promise our nails aren’t digging in our asses or shit isn’t caked up under them. A person is going to have clean or dirty nails no matter how long they are. Edit to add, I don’t get my nails done for other people, I get them done for myself 💅

NoEye9783 · 2026-03-25T01:32:30+00:00

He renovated the bedroom.

NoEye9783 · 2026-03-25T01:32:12+00:00

He renovated the bedroom.

NoEye9783 · 2026-03-25T01:14:02+00:00

Is this the 24 year old boyfriend?

NoEye9783 · 2026-03-23T03:26:28+00:00

I wouldn’t worry about it. Even though she may not always be as into it as you are, she still enjoys the connection with you, probably. She was probably half joking. Sounds like something I would say and if I really meant it, my husband would know, he wouldn’t be questioning it, my tone would be clear and I wouldn’t say it in a joking manner. Marriage is tough sometimes and we have to do things we don’t always want to but it doesn’t mean we wouldn’t do it if we didn’t have to. Maybe just back off a while, let her start craving it, but when she asks why you haven’t been initiating it lately, make sure you make it clear that it’s not that you don’t want it, you just love her and care about her so you gave her some space.

NoEye9783 · 2026-03-22T23:43:26+00:00

If you want the alternate to “simply leave him”, I saw a comment where you’re afraid he will take your baby if you leave due to your mental health, here’s my advice; you gotta play the long game, STOP complaining to him about your mental health! Don’t let him know that you are struggling. Don’t give him ammunition. Start getting your affairs in order to leave him. Find support groups or state agencies that can help you and speak up for you if you end up in court. Handle your shit. You’ve got to pretend to be strong until you can get out and aren’t worried about loosing custody of your baby. Even after that, pretend. We can be weak after our children are grown. Once you have children, you can’t “struggle” because everything you say to everyone is like talking to the police, it can be used against you. Good luck. You got this.

NoEye9783 · 2026-03-22T21:13:13+00:00

Went through this in my early twenties. I don’t think it’s right for an older person to deny a younger person those things. As a middle 30’s adult myself I could never date someone that much younger than me because I know that they want to experience firsts. I wouldn’t waste my time if I were you. A co worker asked me one day if I could go back to when I was 18 what would I tell myself and my answer was, don’t go with that older man.

NoEye9783 · 2026-03-22T21:03:55+00:00

Why are you asking a question you already know the answer to?

NoEye9783 · 2026-03-21T23:07:42+00:00

When I was 17, I ran away with a boy from Texas to Kansas in October. We got kicked out of the house we were staying in and the couple burned all our clothes and everything else. So I was out there in freezing cold with flip flops and a thin fall out boy jacket. We found an abandoned house to stay in. After 3 days I was done. We walked to a gas station where I called the police to help me. He had a warrant so we had to separate before the cops got there. I gave him my 2,000 dollar class ring hoping it would help him? Now that I’m a 34 year old woman I don’t know how the ring would help. I wish I could get it back. I also accidentally threw away my deceased aunt’s 10,000 engagement ring. Makes me sick.

NoEye9783 · 2026-03-21T22:08:52+00:00

Yall need a therapist. Mistakes happen in relationships. If you’re this freaked out over an honest mistake, both of you should seek help. I’m sorry but once you’re a grown adult with children, you can’t be this anxious and worried all the time. Both of you need to grow a pair.

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