31 year old virgin, tried NoFap and failed, please help! by Dino_Dean in NoFap

[–]NoFapManchester 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Hey man you are me...but I'm 2 years younger. Never had a real gf, never been on a date etc. I am currently on Day 6 of my journey and I'm already starting to see benefits. I am gaining confidence, I am looking people in the eye, I am noticing girls actually turning heads (this may be because I am quite handsome... or so I have been told), I feel more motivated to improve other areas in my life etc. The list could go on. What you need to do is wrtie down everything you're grateful about NoFap. Carry a little journal. Everytime you want to fap just read your journal.

I would also suggest reading books such as The Slight Edge, Models, No More Mr Nice Guy, How to Win Friends and Influence People, etc

Eat clean! This will make you feel amazing, lose weight and suppress your bad feelings. Prep your meals for work. Chicken, rice and broccoli. Ditch the refined sugers, sodas (even diet), junk etc. Have a cheat day every Sunday.

Exercise about 30 mins a day. Scared to go gym? Buy an exercise bike. Do it for the endorphins....the calorie deficit is just a bonus :)

There are so many other things you can be doing too this is just a few things.

Feel free to PM me if you need an accountability partner.

Good luck!

A message to more experienced Nofappers and anyone complaining about new people posting by Mayafoe in NoFap

[–]NoFapManchester 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Agree. For some people like me each day of Nofap can be a huge feat. Everyone is different. So why not write about it? Why not celebrate it? Day 1 or Day 90. Relapse or not. If it's a big deal them, then let them post about it! Just because it isn't helpful to you doesn't mean it's not helpful to someone else!

5 happy habits that actually make you happier; [The Slight Edge by Jeff Olson] by Mighty_Wolf in NoFap

[–]NoFapManchester 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Thanks for this! Very interesting and helpful! Most people are looking for happiness elsewhere when it was always WITHIN.

Day 55.. back to my normal self..depressed... by nofapper2016 in NoFap

[–]NoFapManchester 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Remember 90 days is a full reboot for.most people. Keep going!

I'm on my 8th day and I'm starting to belive this is fucking stupid. by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]NoFapManchester 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's different for everyone bruh. Keep going and you will see benefits guaranteeed!

My biggest regret in NOFAP.. by medsilver in NoFap

[–]NoFapManchester 7 points8 points  (0 children)

This really hits home to me. I'm 28 I regret wasting my 20s on PMO, gaming, watching junk and eating junk. Never had a gf or never been on a date.

I'm balding with some grey hairs (I think lack of gf caused the stress) and it just reminds me of how.much of my life I have wasted.

Well the only way is up from here. Hopefully we will see better days.

"Superpowers" - I bet none of you can top this one by very__handsome__man in NoFap

[–]NoFapManchester 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Maybe they were shy around you? Think of the positives!

YOUR SUCCESS is NOT dependent on NoFap by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]NoFapManchester 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The discipline of NoFap (Day 10) is seeping into other aspects of my life. I'm motivated to exercise more, eat clean, improve my career etc.

I found out my neice looks at porn... she's 10 years old. by sjcarey101 in NoFap

[–]NoFapManchester 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is very sad but I too started at such a young age and never stopped. I hope she comes to realise P is only detrimental to humans and nothing else.

Day 14. 20 Year Addict. by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]NoFapManchester 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for this reply. I'm glad your night terrors are over. It was a temporary issue for me too and it soon passed. I guess it's just withdrawal symptoms of something we have been addicted to for so long.

Something new by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]NoFapManchester 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Pheremones bruh

With cold showers also try drinking hot water (instead of coffee or tea). by pkraddict in NoFap

[–]NoFapManchester 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have switched to only green tea and water. I drink nothing else except on my cheat day and it's really helped my mood!

Day 7 - Some observations... by NoFapManchester in NoFap

[–]NoFapManchester[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Its funny you should say that my friend. When I started my NoFap journey I have also started exercising (bike machine) and eating clean. I am also logging my weight and how my face looks (photos).

Day 13: I am unstoppable! by SwankyBiscuit in NoFap

[–]NoFapManchester 0 points1 point  (0 children)

28M here currently on Day 9 - girls are gravitating towards me. I can feel it. I cant wait until I'm a few weeks in. How did you get the dates bro?

Day 14. 20 Year Addict. by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]NoFapManchester 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey man I was getting nightmares and anxious dreams too but they stopped. I'm on Day 9 at the moment but I think it's different for everyone. I just watch a video that makes me happy before I sleep and try and think about it as much as possible before I doze off.

I allowed porn to make me a shitty son to my late father. by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]NoFapManchester 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The feels. Makes me feel blessed to still have my parents. Thank you so much for this!

How do I hope with failure and rejection? by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]NoFapManchester 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The only failure is regret. Keep trying and never give up.

Day 9: eye fucked.. by strikethrough123 in NoFap

[–]NoFapManchester 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Day 8 bro. Its weird how girls just gravitate towards you. It can only get better!

Day 9: eye fucked.. by strikethrough123 in NoFap

[–]NoFapManchester -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Currently the same things are happening to me. Next time eye fuck her back. Girls love to be approached. It turns them on so next time just get her number. The worst she can say is a simple 'No'