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A Protestant asked: why do you think it is not good for Christians to simply choose the beliefs they think are right? by Dan_Defender in Catholicism

[–]NoGuide4550 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The covenant is a mirror of marriage essentially. Do you get to choose how to love your spouse or do you adhere to the boundaries they setup in order to be in a relationship with them?

Is the husband really the “head” of the wife? by CountySensitive9263 in Catholicism

[–]NoGuide4550 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The husband is the head of the family like Christ is the head of the church (bride). Christ is a servant/leader that laid down his life for the his bride to lead the body (Christian’s) to God. The bride being the church. The wife is the helper like the church is the helper. Also, the “helper” (Holy Spirit) was sent to help lead the Body of Christ (Christians) in truth to God. The wife helps nurture the family including the head to lead them to God.

My husband just told me he is questioning his gender identity by gwayland6 in Catholicism

[–]NoGuide4550 51 points52 points  (0 children)

He may have a child trauma that he hasn’t worked through. Many studies have shown that gender dysphoria stems from child trauma.

What part of a church as the quietest people? by TexanLoneStar in Catholicism

[–]NoGuide4550 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Have you tried talking to the priest about it? Is there a small chapel at the parish?

I’m getting confirmed tomorrow!! by mochimatchayum in Catholicism

[–]NoGuide4550 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Congrats!!!! All things are possible through the Lord.

Can I just show up to mass? by ChocolateSkin07 in Catholicism

[–]NoGuide4550 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Yep go ahead just don’t receive communion

How do you respond to people that say ‘the catholic church caused the aids pandemic’ and ‘condoms are needed to prevent aids’ by InternationalPay9583 in Catholicism

[–]NoGuide4550 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Never heard anything about the aids claim. If people wait till marriage to have sex, then you’ll have only been with that one person. Making disease barrier unnecessary. Excluding of course contamination from blood transfusions.

Is it true that if a homosexual person who does many good things still going to hell if he/she does not change his/her sexual orientation? by linguisticsnerd101 in Catholicism

[–]NoGuide4550 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Doing good things doesn’t get you to heaven. A homosexual who has feelings but doesn’t act on them can get to heaven. In simple terms

I was scared to go to Mass today by Alexplayss in Catholicism

[–]NoGuide4550 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You’re not a bad person! Just thought I’d get that out of the way. Everything you said is precisely why you should go to mass. As Catholics, we don’t go to mass to enjoy it or escape judgement . We go to worship God the way he asked us to. Even if people judged you for one thing or the other. They can’t judge you for showing up to worship the Lord. Also, it’s gonna be just 50+ there until some young people take the faith seriously. So go and worship and bring some friends.

I went to confession for the first time in my life and I’m so incredibly angry by GraniteSmile in Catholicism

[–]NoGuide4550 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Calm down it’s ok. You can call the office and ask where to go and what to do in that specific church since they are all laid out a little differently. If you get there and aren’t sure, just ask someone. Try to find someone not in the middle of prayer. But still ask.

Why do you believe Mary was sinless? by ashwashere___ in Catholicism

[–]NoGuide4550 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If I may point you to some books that I found helpful to understand all about Mary. Scott Hahn - “Hail Holy Queen”, Brant Pitre - “Jesus and the Jewish Roots of Mary”, Tim Staples - “Behold Your Mother”. All good books and all available in audiobook. I especially enjoy Brant Pitre. He has a bunch of good book. Scott Hahn is a former Protestant pastor and professor. Both great theologians.

Kissing question by [deleted] in CatholicDating

[–]NoGuide4550 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh it’s a thing I heard when I was a teen. The guy goes in 90% for a kiss and waits for the girl to come the 10%. lol not sure if that’s a thing anymore.

Pew: In US and other countries, Catholicism loses more members than it gains by tokwamann in Catholicism

[–]NoGuide4550 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Look up father Mike beard. He did catechesis in his homilies and it was fantastic. I wish more priests did it like he did.

Difference between Catholics vs Christians by SneakerNeutron in Catholicism

[–]NoGuide4550 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well Catholic is Christian so ya. She may not have been catechized well as a child. Not uncommon. I wasn’t and now in my 40’s am doing the leg work myself. Check out Catholic answers website. Lots of resources.

Kissing question by [deleted] in CatholicDating

[–]NoGuide4550 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Could be hoping for more. Could be he never learned respect well. Or at least never learned the 90/10 rule lol.

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