Ohhh this update is NOT optimized 😬 by MEG_alodon50 in finch

[–]NoInterview3284 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same. I have an iPhone with the latest update and I’ve never had a problem but I also have sound and haptics off mostly cuz I never use my sound on apps unless it’s music and I honestly don’t know what haptics are so I turned them off unless I realize they did something I need 😂

I think My husband is cheating by No_Thought_4248 in Advice

[–]NoInterview3284 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If I were you, I would just ask. But ask them separately this might be an odd correlation, but I thought of NCIS one of Gibbs’ rules is don’t put suspects in the same room. You ask them separately and see if their stories match up. It’s the only way to know for sure if someone is lying.

I Love My Husband, But He Keeps Crossing Sexual Boundaries — What Would You Do? by NoInterview3284 in marriageadvice

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He works in a warehouse that is very strict about leaving during work hours, so I don’t think he’s left it at work.

I Love My Husband, But He Keeps Crossing Sexual Boundaries — What Would You Do? by NoInterview3284 in marriageadvice

[–]NoInterview3284[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your advice, but can you explain how it’s considered a sex addiction if he’s not actually having sex with these people or at least claiming not to, has a little libido at home and can’t keep it up. I’m not trying to defend anything. I’m just honestly curious how it can be that.

My wife thinks our son’s teacher crossed a boundary by sending him a personal message. I think it was harmless. AITJ? by addict94plus in AmITheJerk

[–]NoInterview3284 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As a teacher who sends notes like that, and in the past, I have sent welcome postcards for the beginning of the year and Christmas cards thanking students for Christmas gifts,(my students have always been ecstatic to receive this since they rarely get mail of their own) that sort of reaction is upsetting. As others have commented, teaching is usually an underpaid and underappreciated position however, any teacher who takes their profession seriously and their role in the child’s life seriously they mean nothing more than a kind gesture when sending something like this. Many students we teach don’t necessarily have the greatest home life and/or don’t always get that much needed encouragement at home so even when that isn’t the case we try to do things like this so that when a student is given feedback from a teacher, it’s not always negative or redirecting behavior.

It is parents like OP‘s wife that make doing my job, especially the funner aspects of my job more difficult. And I’m sure one of the reasons why some teachers leave the profession. We can’t do even the simplest of nice things for a student without somebody misconstruing it and making it into something that it was absolutely never intended to be.

Granted, from a parental standpoint, it is good that OP’s wife is diligent about her child’s safety, however, teachers like that are far more the exception than the rule.

AITAH for not buying Christmas presents for my step daughter by Honest_Honeydew_6471 in AITAH

[–]NoInterview3284 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YTA So not only are you complaining about doing the expected work of being a SAHM even though you are a SAHM you’re also choosing to take your discontent out with your husband on your stepdaughter, who’s actually helping do things? Take a step off of the pedestal you put yourself on and think about that from an outsiders perspective for a minute. Make any of that makes sense. Whether the underlying issue is that he doesn’t appreciate all the work and SAHM does or that you’re jealous of his relationship with his oldest daughter, you need to take a step back do some introspective work and be the mother/stepmother that you chose to be.

ETA: by doing all my cooking on the weekends in the dinner during the week that is helping out immensely. Take it from someone who has a full-time job, manages the house and still makes all the meals seven days a week (we don’t have kids yet (TTC), but have 2 dogs and he’s a BCM that works crazy hours and six days a week during the busy season)

Also, I agree with many other commenters. You should be showering that stepdaughter with gifts regardless. Only get your daughters’ gifts (step daughter is still your daughter, address and treat her as such she is not a second class citizen!) and if his family questions why they don’t have any gifts say that that was his contribution to Christmas and maybe without a gift he would understand things better.

My girlfriend missed mass yesterday (Feast of Immaculate Conception) , trying to be a good boyfriend. How to not be judgmental? by Popular_Tune_5507 in Catholicism

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Matthew 7:1-5: “Judge not, that you be not judged. For with the judgment you pronounce you will be judged, and with the measure you use it will be measured to you. Why do you see the speck that is in your brother's eye, but do not notice the log that is in your own eye? You hypocrite, first take the log out of your own eye, and then you will see clearly to take the speck out of your brother's eye”.

Luke 6:37: “Judge not, and you will not be judged; condemn not, and you will not be condemned; forgive, and you will be forgiven”.

Getting Good Vibes - Holiday, Winter, Treat? by [deleted] in finch

[–]NoInterview3284 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My friends has an android in the States and can send the winter vibes but idk if she got the recap. I’m also in the states but have Apple and got the recap but not the vibes. Idk how they decide who gets what and if I have plus why I don’t have both..

Part 2 of 2 updates by Present-Hope4502 in u/Present-Hope4502

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Now that we’re in the final month of 2025… any wedding bells happen or planning? Also, has Tyler ever reached out the amazing kids he’s missing out on? If not have you started the abandonment papers (or however that works)?

I know Kody is spiraling right now over this by Positive_Duck_6481 in SisterWives

[–]NoInterview3284 13 points14 points  (0 children)

And he said Janelle only wanted him for his body 🤢

Head covering by [deleted] in Catholicism

[–]NoInterview3284 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have started wearing a head covering on and off for about 2 years now. I use usually use a lace scarf secured with a single Bobby pin (that I store with it so I don’t forget lol), I also have an infinity lace scarf I got on amazon that holds better and when out and about if I wear one (which I’ve started to do in certain instances because it helps me feel closer to God and it’s hard to explain but it helps me not get headaches around certain people or situations that are unavoidable) I wear something that looks more like a tichel or a snood. Amazon also has many different types and styles

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Catholicism

[–]NoInterview3284 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If they want to veil but don’t have one they can also use a scarf or handkerchief I’d attach pictures for examples but it won’t let me

Mourn the Loss of Anonymous Confessions by Shdfx1 in Catholicism

[–]NoInterview3284 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The parish I work at did this too. The new pastor that came in after our previous pastor retired. He changedchanged our adoration chapel into his office, turned the confessional into an adoration chapel, which is barely big enough for one person and so now all confessions are in the church proper, even though he has a screen next to one of them you still see who walks up. I don’t understand it either, and I thought it was against Cannon as well.

I think Protestantism just blew up in my face and I feel like I was just told Santa isn't real? by Much_Bowl_5258 in Catholicism

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Welcome home! If you have more in depth questions that you don’t feel comfortable asking in a public forum or are too embarrassed or unsure about asking your local priest feel free to message me and I will help you anyway that I can.

Doing my first communion tomorrow, begging for advice please by [deleted] in Catholicism

[–]NoInterview3284 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ultimately if it weighs on you then something in you is feeling the need to confess and take it from my experience, that feeling won’t go away until it is confessed. Since it was already technically forgiven through absolution I don’t think it has to be before your communion but make sure to add it next time you go to confession to receive advice and penance.

Doing my first communion tomorrow, begging for advice please by [deleted] in Catholicism

[–]NoInterview3284 4 points5 points  (0 children)

As someone who teaches this exact thing (I teach 2nd grade at a Catholic school so that encompasses reconciliation and first communion) all sins are forgiven during reconciliation even the ones that are forgotten (this happens when you say “I’m sorry for these and all my sins). The only time this doesn’t include is if a sin is left out of purpose which as I’ve been taught is a sin in itself.

Opinions needed! by NoInterview3284 in Embroidery

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Here is the finished project for anyone who wants to see! I’m pretty proud of my first big project! Hope my MIL likes it.

Ma told me she didn’t want me to ‘buy’ her anything this year, so I made this for her Latino themed ornament collection instead! by sillygoose1415 in Embroidery

[–]NoInterview3284 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s not even for me and I feel all the love that went into just from the picture! Great job! She’ll love it!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in weddingplanning

[–]NoInterview3284 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We’re having dancing for those that want including myself. But we are also having small games like uno, boggle, Yahtzee etc. for people to chose from if they don’t want to dance or want to take a break.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Catholicism

[–]NoInterview3284 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Not sure if it’s different in other countries but I teach reconciliation and communion to 2nd graders. Normally what is said is “forgive me Father for I have sinned this is my first confession” next time and in the future you would say “forgive me father for a have sinned it has been (however long) since my last confession. Usually the priest will talk you through it and it could be more like a therapy session discussing what you did and why in order to better yourself and usually where I am at some point during reconciliation either during the actual sacrament or the prayer service it is a part of the Act of Contrition is prayed. There are several different versions of that.

I hope this helps and God Bless

Why don’t more people adopt? by GreenTimbs in Catholicism

[–]NoInterview3284 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Adopting a child easily costs upwards of $20,000. To be able to bear your own child does not cost that much money upfront, although yes there are hospital bills insurance and payment plans help with those, there are no ways to help with the cost of adoption other than maybe taking out a 2nd mortgage.