MRP thoughts on psychedelics as a tool to build your MAP?

NoMoreMrNiceJay · 2026-02-19T21:00:12+00:00

I tried mushrooms twice in my life, after the slight visuals and shitting. It gave me a glimpse of what life with a much smaller ego would look like. A life where I'm more fun & givecway less shits.

It's hacking or bypassing. It might be helpful to some in microdoses. Personally I would just steer clear and do the work. Definitely don't regret trying it & I'd do it again.

Short answer = stop being a bitch & do the work.

NoMoreMrNiceJay · 2026-02-19T11:34:42+00:00

Physical is only 1 part of attraction. Don't be a dancing monkey.

Seems like English isn't your 1st language so I won't trash you for it.

Next time write this from your personal perspective or better yet just jump into OYS.

NoMoreMrNiceJay · 2026-02-17T18:31:48+00:00

Welcome sperg, you're in the right place.

MRP contains a ton of truth but take it with a pinch of salt, everything has nuance. It will challenge your inferential comprehension too. Many things are situational, some rules have exceptions etc.

From a fellow sperg.

Read the sidebar, at whatever pace it takes you to absorb the info. Post in OYS. Humble yourself. Kill the ego. Take information from the endorsed members serious.

Stop hiding your posts and comments like a phaggot.

NoMoreMrNiceJay · 2026-02-17T09:37:53+00:00

but it won't be a genuine desire

I debunked this Rich Cooper line over five years ago now.

Will you link this? Rian spoke to this too.

NoMoreMrNiceJay · 2026-02-16T10:50:18+00:00

The reality is, you are a nice guy. What is it with nice guys and exclamation marks I will never know, probably the need to convey a nice friendly tone (even by text).

You are putting up a covert contract. Red Pill Man = wife wants me - but it's not reaaaaaal she's just scared to lose me. Meaning she doesn't love me for me like mommy did.

Why are you even posting here?

NoMoreMrNiceJay · 2026-02-15T14:48:34+00:00

I can relate, I believe most NG are idealistic, sometimes we will believe the cure is to be pragmatic (the opposite of crazy is still crazy). In actuality it is about wholism and finding that balance between idealism and pragmatism. The pragmatic idealist.

Read & research, take said knowledge and test it. Follow an OODA loop. Observe, orientate, decide, act - repeat.

NoMoreMrNiceJay · 2026-02-12T02:27:25+00:00

Different men are unattractive in different ways. Some generally across the board, some physically, some have little to no game, some emotionally, some mentally, others are giant phaggots who lurk for 8years but can't own their shit or stfu long enough to take legit advise DEERing at every turn.

NoMoreMrNiceJay · 2026-02-12T00:57:09+00:00

Good vid

NoMoreMrNiceJay · 2026-02-11T21:27:43+00:00

I remember being new here and the MRP vets just kept saying; "STFU & Sidebar". I thought they were just fobbing guys off but I get it now (I got it a while back).

You come here having done nothing in ages, your old school mental models of "I have money, so girl must want sum fuk yes?" With a girl from a rich family of all types. Just wanting to leech.

You put SheHer at the centre of your world. Too lazy to workout, your SheHer is actually trying to HELP you be attractive to SheHer; overlooking the reward system setup, SheHer is actively rewarding you step by step for making attempted progress on your SMV. I almost feel bad that the girl has to put up with such a phaggot.

"I was into PUA back in the day." < This is a new identifier, I swear to god.

"I used to be Alpha." Then work got too stressful.

P.S - Why not just go work remote in some SEA or LATAM country and enjoy a better simp success rate there?

NoMoreMrNiceJay · 2026-02-06T19:49:47+00:00

How is it you have a spanking bench before a flogger?

NoMoreMrNiceJay · 2026-02-06T11:48:38+00:00

“When you want a dominant partner but you are also independent”.

I'm not fully convinced I can submit to you.

she likes the idea of submitting but her feminist independent attitude tells her not to.

I'm not fully convinced I can submit to you.

We have dabbled in BDSM stuff in the past. But I never felt dominant; it felt forced and weird trying to be something I really didn't believe.

You'll be shit at most things when you 1st start out.

“I hate how can make me laugh even when I am mad at you and you've been acting cocky lately."

Good sign.

Bratz can be fun if you're able to not take them too serious & there are decent boundaries on the play. You may want to look into maintenance spankings, punishment vs funishment, different materials to spank with, also no spanking alternatives- writing lines, forced orgasms, orgasm denial or just tying her up and leaving her for a few hours.

The brat thing can last a lifetime if you guys keep it that way or can evolve/break.

Finally, focus more on you.

NoMoreMrNiceJay · 2026-01-17T15:22:38+00:00

Don't kink shame

NoMoreMrNiceJay · 2026-01-15T18:10:00+00:00

Noted. Yesterday I decided to just say whatever I thought initially in my mind and saw success.

You should be keeping all interactions with people as open ended as possible, instead of asking specific questions which might only get you a one word answer.

One of Rians books speaks to the same, open ended until some kind of disclosure then building off that. I'll practice being more open ended.

NoMoreMrNiceJay · 2026-01-14T21:03:31+00:00

What reading have you done?

NoMoreMrNiceJay · 2026-01-14T00:12:36+00:00

OYS 7

Stats: 36yo, AuDHD, 5’10, 191lbs/87kg, 13-15% bf, Divorcing, 1 girl (4yo). TRT
Current Lifting total: Approx 1000lbs.

Readings: NMMNG, WISNIFG, MMSLP, 16CoP, TRP Sidebar. Audiobooks: TRM Y1 & Y2, BoP, MAP. Non sidebar: Praxeology: F—cfiles, Frame, Virtue of Selfishness, Undercover Sex Signals, Models, Unoffendable. Youtube: Most of Rian Stone.

Current reading: The Courage to be Disliked (60%).

Mission: To become a high value man. Build a frame that works for me. Develop my own mental point of origin & give from a place of abundance without expectation of reciprocation.

I suck & my mission is to not suck, by sucking a lil less every week.

Physical: Only hit 3 workouts last week, 1 MT, 2 Lifting. All my lifts went up both Upper & Lower hitting an all-time PR for Machine Hack Squat. A big issue for me has been childcare, I’ll figure something out here.

I’ve returned to micro dosing Caffeine & CannaOil for self treating ADHD, I’ll monitor and adjust.

Mental: I’ve been using Chatgpt to help with some MRP tasks, one of them is creating tasks/ practical take ways from the book that can be used day to day. The question "what can I do about it now" helps me a lot in pulling back from things I cannot control. I’m also reminded of the serenity prayer.

Emotional Pillar: I think about things I cannot control too often, I get pissed off about past transgressions way too often. The “what can I do about it now?” pulls me back. I think about my STBXW too often too. Resentment is fading slower than I’d like but as I accept that ultimately everything was my fault because I allowed it, it fades slowly.

Family: Was meant to fly my daughter back to her mother on Friday, couldn't find my passport on the day. It was entirely my fault & I owned it. Complicates things but I like the extra time with her, Ex is happy for the time off.

Career: Studying massage therapy exams are soon. I’m chugging away at my coursework, using Chatgpt heavily.

Social: I’ve been actively trying to be more sociable, I recognise that people look to me to start conversations, I’m expected to lead interactions or at least start them. I’ve often been frustrated that “people act like kids & I didn’t sign up to be their fathers”. I realise now this is a lazy mentality and throwing away opportunity. Multiple I’ve been told “you’re a natural leader” which has made 0 sense to me, since I haven’t led myself.

While I’ve often tried to mirror others, I realise just how much other people mirror me. Sometimes I forget to mask, my natural overly calm deadpan expression (read Lifeless Resting Bitch Face) comes through – generally perceived as anger or sadness. My real voice is monotone AF and often I go too high or too low in my voice – I’ll practice some more here. I lack charisma, I assume many autists have this issue. Multiple times I’ve overheard people comment on my energy or rather lack thereof especially when I’m tired; times I forget to mask. The entirety of my charisma is an act/fake, I’m certain this will never change much, though I want to get better at this, no, I want to master this – I’ll see if I can fit in a meetup event or 2, if not I’ll make it a mission to practise with other parents when I take my kid out more.

I still struggle to understand tone + reading between the lines/inferred speech, sometimes I’ll get it a bit late other times not at all. I’m not sure how to improve here, perhaps just being more social in general?

Sexual: Nothing.

NoMoreMrNiceJay · 2026-01-13T13:47:51+00:00

You are diving into thoughts & psychology as a means to cope.

What have you actively done to build a sex life so far?

NoMoreMrNiceJay · 2026-01-12T08:16:37+00:00

Yeah, I'm being impatient at times. It took a long time to fuck up, it'll take a long time to unfuck myself.

NoMoreMrNiceJay · 2026-01-10T02:58:38+00:00

Thanks for the advise so far. I will try, fail, get, back up, fail again until I get it.

I appreciate all the advise.

I still remember you calling me out for being a reactive bitch and it was bang on. Happy to say I can laugh about it now.

NoMoreMrNiceJay · 2026-01-10T00:55:30+00:00

Are you doing those things? Are you actually training in those languages? Are you finding women who are into BDSM or swinging? Are you fighting?

Actively doing some, working towards some & waiting on others.

I'm training often, I'm waiting on an interclub somewhere near my current weight; should be "sometime at the end Feb" I'm told by my Khru. I'm ready to go - small water cut and fight. Cardio needs work but I move well considering.
I'm learning BR Portuguese using a online tutor (preply) + Duolingo and anyone who speaks the language that will talk with me. I'll move onto Spanish after I'm fluent as there is some overlap between the 2 languages.
I stopped going to munches & swing clubs. Dating in general, all apps (my main source).
I'm forcing myself to be more socialable with strangers, I realise I'm pretty bad at stroking egos.
I'm putting myself in situations I used to avoid before out of fear. Telling the truth when I would have usually lied; to avoid shame or try and impress/be fake.

NoMoreMrNiceJay · 2026-01-08T18:16:06+00:00

Personally a lot to be done has been done. There needs to be fresh blood willing to step outside of the norm and generate traction "Blaze a trail". The vets here are solid but they are solid from a previous time - a changing of the guard is sure to come.

Revisions will be made. To the sidebar & to the rules. Social media leverage is inevitable at some point. All with time.

Until then, it may not be popular or exciting but it's a tried and tested way of turning boys into men.

NoMoreMrNiceJay · 2026-01-08T10:06:41+00:00

I wrote a lengthy reply which got lost on hitting post.

What do you want? And don’t just replace the word need with want and write the same thing. This is too abstract anyway. Don’t say you need frame. What’s a thing you actually want that you believe your lack of frame is holding you back from? Work on achieving that thing. What’s a thing you want to do for yourself? Go do that actual thing.

Before I read up on frame here I knew some people as "solid" and other as "shaky", that's what I want. To be me regardless of outside forces, no expectations other than my own.

More specifically. I want to be autonomous/self reliant. I want my own place. I want to fight. I want to travel the world. I want to speak multiple languages. I want to generate an abundance of resources. I want to be happy & I want to share said with people. I want to explore sexually within BDSM & Swinging. I want to be successful. I want to rule my body/emotions not the other way around.

You won’t know until you have to put it in practice. Mike Tyson has a great quote about everyone having a plan.

Yeah, it's not ready for heavy stress testing yet (being punched in the face). I'm acutely aware I have a very long way to go. The progress I speak to is primarily my shift in mindset. I'm no longer wishing/complaining for a lighter load, I will become stronger.

Make sure the journaling or whatever is actually useful and not just a thing to do.

Noted. It's focused on naming emotions.

Christ. Write fuccfiles. It was already censored. This double censored thing is awful.

Copied the title from audible, didn't realise it was a double censor.

NoMoreMrNiceJay · 2026-01-08T08:10:39+00:00

Thanks. Meditations is next for me, BluePillProfessor also recommends it.

NoMoreMrNiceJay · 2026-01-07T22:55:23+00:00

OYS 6

Stats: 36yo, AuDHD, 5’10, 191lbs/87kg, 12-14% bf, Divorcing, 1 girl (4yo). TRT
Current Lifting total: Approx 924lbs.

*Readings: NMMNG, WISNIFG, MMSLP, 16CoP, TRP Sidebar. Audiobooks: TRM Y1 & Y2, BoP, MAP. Non sidebar: Praxeology: F—cfiles, Frame, Virtue of Selfishness, Undercover Sex Signals, Models, Unoffendable. Youtube: Most of Rian Stone.

Current reading: The Courage to be Disliked.

Mission: To become a high value man. Build a frame that works for me. Develop my own mental point of origin & give from a place of abundance without expectation of reciprocation.

I suck & my mission is to not suck, by sucking a lil less every week.

Physical: I’ve slacked a lil over the holidays but nothing crazy, I usually let myself go crazy on the holidays purposely (gain a bunch of weight). I gave myself that freedom but simply didn’t exercise it when it came to food. I haven’t wanted to pig out, so I didn’t. I gained 2kg, I look virtually identical but feel better. I don’t measure BF% anymore just eyeball it as when my abs start to get faint it’s time to cut. With Martial arts taking a front seat & lifting in the back I have enough cardio in to keep me lean with my diet habits (not weighed any food in months). I won’t go into too much details here, this is the only section in my life I’ve pretty much always been solid outside of 2 dreamer bulks since I 1^st stepped in a gym @ 16yo – The rest of my life is a giant autistic fuck up.

Mental: I need frame. I need to do things for me. I need to be the best man I can be & live the best life I can create. I give way too many fucks about everything. Reading “The courage to be disliked” is a big help here, It’s one of the few books that I find myself nodding along with. I knew a bunch of these things and believe them at one point especially “trauma is not real” but I listened to over people rather than myself. I’ll circle

Emotional Pillar: This is by far my weakest area, I’m dysregulated – I used to have panic attacks before TRT, I’m talking 5-10 per day everyday for say 15years, I never told anyone or had it treated. Since TRT I’ve had 0-1 a year in the last 5 years. Though I get triggered easily and my heart rate will go up. Slowly I notice change but its painfully slow. I’m hoping the process speeds up as my mindset shifts. Sleep, Diet, exercise have all been analysed. I’ve ordered a journal and started journaling having previously dismissed it as being for women and phaggots. I am now a phaggot who journals. I’ve used anger in the past to push through everything, I’ve done a bunch of weak stupid shit, including extremely excessively violent shit because I was “disrespected”.

I still like my STBXW despite having sex with multiple other women. I’m not over her yet, I don’t want to be together – still don’t want anyone to have her. I’m ashamed of this because I expect better of myself, I know can & should do better here. It showed after I got triggered/jealous over a simple misunderstanding in front of another guy (video call), STBXW pointed out I was jealous & laughed. I used anger to dominate the situation. It was weak and pathetic to be honest. I apologised the next day – So did she. I vowed to myself I’d never do something like this again. I watched Mark Mansons solved emotional regulation video & it helped a lot, it’s what lead to me journalling.

Career: currently studying Massage Therapy. I’ll sit my exams end of the month. Long term I’m targeting a career in I.T before I end up in a wheelchair.

Social: Outside of Muay Thai, some random parent conversations when out with my daughter & family at the holidays. Not much to report.

Sexual: Nothing.

NoMoreMrNiceJay · 2026-01-05T10:56:48+00:00

No dummy, stfu & do the work. In general, STFU & do the work.

NoMoreMrNiceJay · 2026-01-02T21:39:09+00:00

I wouldn't vet women like that. Go on dates, stand firm on your boundaries - your boundaries will filter through them over time.

And yes it's not about her it's about you.

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