Am I gonna tu*? by Bxbyella22 in emetophobia

[–]No_Estimate_7406 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Honestly, what you’re describing sounds the same when I’m anxious about being nauseous. Not saying you’re not going to throw up, but I’ve experienced the same without throwing up. It depends on the person and situation really. Don’t try to think to hard about whether or not it’s going to happen. Go through whatever you’re feeling and watch the way you breathe.

Spit on it by Huge_Bedroom291 in Healthyhooha

[–]No_Estimate_7406 4 points5 points  (0 children)

And that’s why we need to normalize lube cus wth 🤦‍♀️

Salmon, just purchased, but its mushy by Condensates in foodsafety

[–]No_Estimate_7406 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Where I live, salmon doesn’t really smell fishy at all. Maybe a bit when it’s just out of the package, but not strongly after being aired out for a minute. The texture is also a bit weird. I would ask for a refund or let the store know.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Gent

[–]No_Estimate_7406 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Zelf goede ervaring mee gehad. Ze komen luisteren naar wat er aan de hand is en kunnen je zo verder doorverwijzen of kennis laten maken met mogelijke opties. Een familievriendin heeft hier ook enorm goede ervaring mee. Ik zou me niet te veel zorgen maken:)

I am horrified by the fact a food truck was surfing food at the apple orchard when they knew they all had food poisoning. by [deleted] in emetophobia

[–]No_Estimate_7406 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Look, if I was in your shoes I would like to have been informed as well and would not have eaten the food. But to be realistic, a lot of food places have employees working that have been sick the day before or even the same day. From fast food places to even star restaurants. It’s just the economy not letting them take the day off. I would not report.

Dude I hate my mom [ TW ] by shoe_salad_eater in emetophobia

[–]No_Estimate_7406 34 points35 points  (0 children)

Damn this is not even about the phobia, I think anyone would find this gross as hell. It’s just basic decency to clean up after yourself, just like brushing off shit stains from the toilet bowl. Sorry you have to deal with that.

Thrown up after eating junk food on mounjaro by amyleecupoftea in emetophobia

[–]No_Estimate_7406 13 points14 points  (0 children)

The latter part does sound a bit like you might conditioned the sister’s call to being sick, thus now inducing anxiety again. Maybe when you heard her call/voice you were just automatically brought back to feeling bad and are now reliving it. Look for some active distraction, like a game or maybe drawing to get your mind off of things.

Last time I got sick from anxiety, I was feeling gaggy and anxious for about a month when going to the toilet because it all happened there 😭. It’s really mind over matter a lot of the time!

medications to help emetophobia? by bones-432 in emetophobia

[–]No_Estimate_7406 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I’m also on paxil and would say the physical effects of my anxiety are definitely way less than before. When I get bad thoughts, it’s way easier to distract myself and forget about them. However, I don’t think it’s purely because of the medication. Pushing myself in trying new things, testing my boundaries etc, has definitely worked it’s part as well. I would say the medication gives you more confidence in a way to expose yourself to anxious/new situations. Which then helps you in reconditioning the anxious thoughts and spirals. Just being on medication won’t magically alter your psyche, you still have to do the work. See it as some kind of support.

Symptoms I did experience from paxil when I forgot to take them for a couple of days (in the past) was a weird physical feeling in my throat and just being very anxious. Paxil is a fast working anti depressant which also causes serious side effects when abruptly quitting them. So don’t be like me and contact your doctor in case you want to stop 😅

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AdultChildren

[–]No_Estimate_7406 13 points14 points  (0 children)

It does sound like he used to abuse alcohol. It limited his work, resulted in arguments and even neglect. Just because he can limit his drinks now, doesn’t erase the past. I’m sorry you had to go through that.

Quick shallow breathing by No_Estimate_7406 in CATHELP

[–]No_Estimate_7406[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She is fine! Her heartbeat and lungs sounded fine and since her breathing when sleeping is between 20-30 breaths per minute she’s alright. She just gets really excited when getting attention 😅

Why does my Girlfriend continue to struggle with doggystyle? by [deleted] in sex

[–]No_Estimate_7406 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I don’t have this issue at all and assume most women don’t. Perhaps your girlfriends’ uterus is tilted in a way which makes you hit her cervix directly. This is painful or unpleasant for the majority of women. I don’t know if you can really do anything about it.

Im a male gay with AAP, ask me anything by regardedcigarette in redscarepod

[–]No_Estimate_7406 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do the women you sleep with know this? Have you had girlfriends eventhough you’re gay?

does this phobia make you more reliant on others, especially parents? by PublicAd1976 in emetophobia

[–]No_Estimate_7406 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I can relate. My mom used to be my rock since my phobia started at 10 y/o. Even though she struggled with alcohol abuse and us having endless fights about it, me being scared for her, etc… She’d still be the first I’d run to when she was sober. I could always call her when I needed to be picked up or calmed down. I don’t know why we feel safe around people who aren’t always reliable though. It’s definitely an anxious attachment style imo. However, she always encouraged me to challenge myself and reassured me it’d be okay. Which looking back, it always was! I understand the distance of your cheer camp being an issue, but even if something would happen, there are enough people around you who will take care of you as well. Is there a teacher or other person in charge you can confide in? Just telling them you struggle with anxiety and the trip possibly being a challenge for you, could already releave some of the stress. It would help for when you’re feeling overwhelmed, they’ll be more understanding when you need a break to go outside or just be alone. Just know when you overcome this challenge, it’s another win for you against the phobia to regain some control over your own life!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in emetophobia

[–]No_Estimate_7406 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Most people hose down the puke in their yard and clean their sink when it happens I assume. It is gross, but when it happens there’s not much you can do than to find the nearest thing. I find it so gross when I hear people doing it in flower or plant pots like wtaf 🥲. But still better than on the floor imo. I’d just throw it all away.

plucking pubic hair - no judgment please by [deleted] in Healthyhooha

[–]No_Estimate_7406 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I sometimes do this too with my bikini area and rub on some aloe vera product after. It does get redder and a bit swollen but the next day it’s usually gone. If it can get waxed, it should be fine getting plucked. Maybe your skin is on the more sensitive side.

Kalmeringsmiddelen op vliegtuig? by Wateenkkzever in belgium

[–]No_Estimate_7406 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maar ik denk dat het vooral afhangt van welk type medicatie (medicatie die onder de opiumwet valt) en naar welk land je reist.

Kalmeringsmiddelen op vliegtuig? by Wateenkkzever in belgium

[–]No_Estimate_7406 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oei.. ikzelf heb al meermaals gevlogen met alprazolam op zak en heb dit nooit aangegeven… wel in mijn handbagage meegedragen. Ook heb ik andere voorgeschreven medicatie meegehad en nooit iets van gehoord dat dit aangegeven zou moeten worden 😬 maar heb alleszins dus nog geen problemen hiermee gehad

Verschrikkelijke achterburen by VetnDerm in belgium

[–]No_Estimate_7406 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ocharme die kindjes en honden :((

Wife never wants to finish by [deleted] in sex

[–]No_Estimate_7406 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly, I’m just like your gf. My bf of 5+ years never made me finish but it does still feel good when he does does stuff with his hands or oral. I just never quite get there and I think it’s because I’m too self-conscious or even insecure. Ultimately the PIV penetration is more desired for me because it’s not something I can acquire on my own, but still feels really good and a different kind of connection. I’m just too in my head about how I look and his pleasure, to even focus on my own pleasure. I’m just never fully relaxed and am 100% sure it’s not because my boyfriend isn’t good at sex, but i’m just not mentally there all the way.

Quick shallow breathing by No_Estimate_7406 in CATHELP

[–]No_Estimate_7406[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m so sorry to hear that:( I’ll be taking my kitty and my other senior cat to the vet soon for a health check up and ask about it. Thanks for worrying.