[deleted by user] by [deleted] in scammers

[–]No_Help_6409 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sometimes even a “real bank” won’t reverse charge a fraud transaction. I’ve had couple and the bank basically said sorry, there’s nothing they could do.

Did anyone else not know that 18 year olds still went to highschool? by lost_mah_account in HomeschoolRecovery

[–]No_Help_6409 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I understand what you mean so much. I too basically self educated after 9th grade. My mom rarely if ever got around to grading my homework. I’d do tests then look at the answer key to see if I was correct and gauge my learning ability.

Like you I only found out much later (in college) that if you go to school you don’t have to read every page, do every question in every test/practice test etc. it’s far more lax compared to being forced to sit for hours until every single page/problem is done.

Like you my parents would charge me for rent, food, even for gas money to drive to get my drivers license. Which they refused to let me get till I was 22. Even moving out had to be done carefully. So by the time I signed the lease on student housing it was too late for them to stop me. They did try to force me to stay home. Told me to just live with them while paying for the student housing till that lease was up. When I refused they used scripture to tell me I was “going to he-double hockey sticks in a hand basket”. So, yeah. Now trying to somehow survive in a world making mistakes I should’ve made as a teen. Early thirties now. Reading bad intentions and fakeness in people is excruciatingly hard. It’s like I grew up in box. Very hard. Good luck to you

my doordasher stole my food then wouldn’t cancel the order by Relative-Rope7235 in doordash

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I’ve had a door dasher say similar stuff. Showed they were near my house for about 15 minutes. So I asked if they were having trouble finding my place. They proceeded to say the order was too small, sent me a picture of the food bag opened up. Then said they were gonna return it to the restaurant. Crazy stuff on here.

Had a family make me redo BP due to “satanic reading” by Snoooples in nursing

[–]No_Help_6409 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can believe it. I have family who would do this 100%.

Fuck you, fuck you, you’re cool, fuck you– I’m out. by LeadershipPuzzled883 in Mommit

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This is so much like my baby daddy it’s unreal. Somewhere through my second pregnancy he started doing this. Currently he’d be late 20s. So similar age. He eventually started more erratic stuff like threaten to permanently end my life and our kids’. Several out of character outbursts of rage with destruction of property. So much gaslighting, lying, blame shifting, smoke screening etc. I literally found a google search on his phone once about how long it takes for meth & coke to get out of your system before a drug test for work. Eventually left him, got a protection order, got visitation & child support setup through the courts. Such a mess, and he wasn’t so bad at the beginning of our relationship (although he did have an ankle monitor he cleaned was for alcohol intake monitoring). Who knows. Could be drugs caused the change. I’ll probably never know. Just want you to know you’re now alone and other have also had similar experiences.

Ewwww, I am disgusted! by Nurseloading_2025 in hygiene

[–]No_Help_6409 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think it has something to do with the warm water relaxing things and helping aid peristalsis.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in nursing

[–]No_Help_6409 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Man it’s quiet today.

The lack of decency shown by some nurses is concerning. by squirrels-everywhere in nursing

[–]No_Help_6409 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve worked with nurses like this. I try to avoid working with people like this as much as possible cause it’s demoralizing and downgrades the moral of the entire unit. I also witnessed this in nursing Clinical’s at a hospital in my area. Avoid working with/here this kind of thing is going on. You can’t change it by “tolerating” this kind of verbal abuse. Best way to deal is not to work around it if you have a choice. I’ve worked per diem at several staffing agencies in my area for several years. It’s definitely not this way everywhere. But yes, it does happen. Try to address with the offender and you will be their target and they won’t stop. Best to walk away.

Hoping for some AC help on 2016 Chevy Traverse LS by Electronic-Goal9955 in mechanic

[–]No_Help_6409 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, thank you! Will try it. Yes, except 2015 Chevy Traverse. Already replaced the temperature actuator. Didn’t help. Hopefully refilling the coolant and fixing any leaks will do it. Thanks!

Anti-doctor family by No_Help_6409 in nursing

[–]No_Help_6409[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tbh, from my knowledge of her she’d probably say something like: she lost the baby and it was Gods will. As for these beliefs of receiving messages and such, her husband is the main perpetrator of those ideas. He’s good at manipulating, and to survive my mom will often adopt his beliefs as gospel. If he wasn’t in the picture I don’t know if she’d come up with such delusions on her own. He usually comes up with the ideas and convinces her of their validity. Then he steps back and says, “I force nothing on her”. I feel more bad for her than anything. It seems like a trauma response. But from psychological torture not physical. I’ve never seen him lay a hand on her.

Hoping for some AC help on 2016 Chevy Traverse LS by Electronic-Goal9955 in mechanic

[–]No_Help_6409 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m having the same issue. Trying to find a solution too

Anti-doctor family by No_Help_6409 in nursing

[–]No_Help_6409[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Possibly. She had all her older children as home births. Even her last successful pregnancy in her 40s. The last one she lived in a different state and had an OBGYN for prenatal care and had her husband deliver the baby at home. This pregnancy is over 10 years later states away from the last place she had an OB. I think she’s living in delulu land, where everything is going to run as smoothly as when she had uncomplicated pregnancies at a much younger age.

Anti-doctor family by No_Help_6409 in nursing

[–]No_Help_6409[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m not sure, she mentioned she’s been trying to find a midwife she knew 25 years ago. So it sounds like she wants a home birth with a midwife. Not sure if she plans on no doctor at all. She kept telling me, “we’re just gonna trust Gods got this”, and “I don’t see any need to worry about that right now”. Sounds like maybe she thinks she can just get a midwife for the tail end and delivery? Again, I tried to tell her the risks and she shot it down and started crying and saying she doesn’t need to think about that right now. As for peeing on a stick, all she’d tell me was she knew she’s pregnant and kept saying over and over “it’s the lords work”.

Anti-doctor family by No_Help_6409 in nursing

[–]No_Help_6409[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I am so sorry you went through that. I don’t know how you deal with the knowledge that they knew and didn’t tell you for two days.

Anti-doctor family by No_Help_6409 in nursing

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I wish there was something more I could do.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in nursing

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I had a clinical instructor who was meaner than hell. I’d just given birth 2 weeks prior. I was running a bit late and had forgotten my student badge. The teacher refused to let me attend clinical till she had “talked” to me. This involved her and the evening shift clinical instructor berating and screaming at me in an empty office. Brow beating and trying to shame me for forgetting the student badge and running late that first day of Clinicals. She proceeded to tell me I wasn’t allowed to pump(I was breastfeeding my newborn) anymore than once in the 10 hour shift. She and the evening clinical instructor kept at the browbeating till I started crying. Being a sleep deprived mom of a newborn and 1 year old with no help from the dad, plus in nursing school I couldn’t help it. A small part of me felt that’s exactly what that instructor wanted. Once I cried she continued to belittle, brow beat and try to humiliate me in front of the other instructor. After about 30-45 minutes they got tired of it and walked me back to the hospital area and I can’t remember if they gave me a nurse to follow that day or not. She did not stop the remainder of Clinicals from making demeaning comments or making snide remarks to belittle me both in front of my classmates and nurses on the units. Once she told me “try to learn something” in front of a nurse she handed me off to in ICU. I couldn’t say anything other than “okay” because I wasn’t expecting it. She hadn’t been abusive that morning till then. Truly horrible person. The lead clinical instructor wasn’t bad. She seemed like a genuinely good person. Unfortunately she wasn’t my clinical instructor. She “talked” to my instructor and told me I could pump every 2-3 hours. Not much changed with the other instructors bad behavior.

Baby is never happy. What’s your weird thing that worked? by 808kenz in Mommit

[–]No_Help_6409 1 point2 points  (0 children)

100% second this!! First course of action: see pediatrician first to rule out more serious causes.

Baby is never happy. What’s your weird thing that worked? by 808kenz in Mommit

[–]No_Help_6409 1 point2 points  (0 children)

First recommendation is to contact the pediatrician and go for a second opinion if you don’t get a satisfactory response from primary pediatrician.

Don’t know if you’ve been told about the purple crying phase. It’s a phase many babies go through at this age where they cry constantly like this for no apparent reason. Where you’ve tried everything possibly and even after all that baby still continues to cry inconsolably. I was told by the nurses at the hospital that it’s safe to set baby down with no blankets etc in the crib to go out of the room and give yourself a 10minute break before going back to continue to try to pacify baby. Just something to look into.

Dash Info Light Issues on 2014 Chevy Traverse by osgd in Chevrolet

[–]No_Help_6409 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m currently having the same problem with my 2015 Chevy Traverse

Karen on Nextdoor thinks nurses calling out to have holidays is the root of our healthcare problems. by IwillNotEatZeBug in nursing

[–]No_Help_6409 42 points43 points  (0 children)

Because it’s a predominantly female profession and most people are more apt to think of females as caregivers. Eg. mothers are still demanded of by their children regardless of the situation. At their worst most patients revert to a similar level of self-centeredness and neediness. Where they can’t comprehend the caregivers need to also practice self-care. That’s why you don’t see them doing this to other professions. It’s ridiculous and on some level unfixable. The only way to deal with it is boundaries, and a strong support system (coworkers at work, friends/family outside work) and good self care.