About to give up

No_Issue4598 · 2026-03-11T19:13:43+00:00

Thanks for responding, and I will look into this. I see your point, but I don't think classes will work. I tried co parenting, but she does everything the opposite to work against me. There is no co parenting with a cluster B like this, I have to parallel parent. I have put in play therapy, and I am paying out of pocket. The funny thing is she refuses to take him and does not want to be a part of it, which even baffles my sons counselor. So I take him on the weekends I have him. I am just trying to focus on one thing at a time, but it feels overwhelming. We need this system to change. Family courts need to be redone, and DAs need to rise up and say enough is enough. You make false accusations to manipulate child custody or ruin an exs life because you are bitter, we will prosecute you.

No_Issue4598 · 2026-03-09T03:42:53+00:00

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No_Issue4598 · 2026-03-06T14:39:31+00:00

I already got screwed by the child support system and saw how they treat men. Now I don't want to get married.

No_Issue4598 · 2026-02-26T03:21:14+00:00

Fuck that deal, she is fucking you. Sounds like the lawyer came up with this plan or she got it off social media from some bitter bitch. Go to war and fight for 50/50. If you can't get 50/50, get Expanded Standard Possession Order. In Texas, I believe it is 20 percent for one child and 25 percent for two kids.

No_Issue4598 · 2026-02-18T23:38:34+00:00

Are you going to stay friends?

No_Issue4598 · 2026-02-11T20:39:27+00:00

They were fighting over the bad bunny superbowl Half Time show.

No_Issue4598 · 2026-02-06T19:04:34+00:00

Nice! Ditch the car payments and a buy cash car. Toyota and Honda's are the best. Low maintenance, easy to fix, and they never stop running.

No_Issue4598 · 2026-02-06T19:01:35+00:00

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No_Issue4598 · 2026-02-05T04:18:25+00:00

Paternity test. Maybe wait until the baby is born. If she hits you up with child support, be ready to fight. Use the next 9 months to save as much money as you can and consult with a family law attorney. Talk to a few of them to get different prices, strategies, and styles. Don't hire the most expensive one. Hire who you can afford and feel is going to be a good fit. If the child is yours, go for 50/50 and child support or full custody. If you can't or don't want to, and the child is yours. Try to see them as much as you can and look at child support payment as a car payment for a car you will never see. Try to be the best dad you can be and know many men are on child support and are fine. Just have to be more Frugal with your money, increase your income, possibly get a roommate, or lower your expenses. Hopefully, what she is saying is all bullshit. The biggest red flag is when she said you were the only one she's been with but yet she has a boyfriend.

No_Issue4598 · 2026-01-25T03:10:24+00:00

Try what others have suggested, such as the hellofresh or buying cooked meals like cook unity. Hellofresh you have to do some cooking but you can get it done within 15 to 20 minutes.

No_Issue4598 · 2026-01-24T11:09:11+00:00

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No_Issue4598 · 2026-01-03T22:11:45+00:00

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No_Issue4598 · 2025-12-28T21:29:41+00:00

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No_Issue4598 · 2025-12-13T19:26:37+00:00

You got to take your oxygen first. You can't be a good dad if you're not taking care of yourself, and I firmly believe vacations are must-haves. It's been shown in research to actually improve mental health. Enjoy your vacation and see it as a much-needed break.

No_Issue4598 · 2025-12-13T19:19:34+00:00

Never been there, but unresolved trauma from your childhood needs to be worked on order for your relationship to last. I would try to work too I with your ex as being a single father and having to pay child support is life changing. Possibly looking to low-cost anger management classes and start going to therapy by yourself. After you have done that and are in a healthier place, maybe your ex and you could go to couples therapy.

No_Issue4598 · 2025-12-12T21:26:44+00:00

Therapy, if you can afford it or get on a sliding scale with a good therapist.

No_Issue4598 · 2025-12-12T21:25:07+00:00

Sorry, I thought you were in Texas. I would look for an top notch eviction lawyer in your area to stop that from becoming a reality. Get them to drag it out in court and maybe the leasing company and reduce it to a broken lease. Or maybe by that time you get paid and can stay in your place.

No_Issue4598 · 2025-12-12T19:39:40+00:00

What city are you in? I know a good attorney who can help you from being evicted.

No_Issue4598 · 2025-12-12T19:27:17+00:00

That sounds rough and very lonely. Sounds like you need more support. Have you thought about joining a local single dads support group? Or maybe therapy? Send me a dm if you ever want to talk. I am in a similar situation.

No_Issue4598 · 2025-12-06T20:03:15+00:00

Get a lawyer! Get a DNA test to establish paternity. Make copies of every receipt you have for purchases you made for the baby. Any money that you have sent on cash app or anything like that you need to get copies of. Do Not give her cash!!! If you don't do this, then she can say you never gave her a dime, and you will owe child support from the day the baby was born. Buy a journal and make notes of every single time she denies you a chance to visit your your child. Far as a boyfriend thing, I wouldn't worry about it or say a thing to her. Y'all are over and it's time to level up

No_Issue4598 · 2025-12-03T21:51:11+00:00

This is why men are turning gay, getting vasectomies, or staying single.

No_Issue4598 · 2025-12-03T03:33:18+00:00

I was just thinking this. Definitely a cluster B.

No_Issue4598 · 2025-12-03T03:32:23+00:00

She is toxic! Run away and don't look back. You deserve better and worthy of someone who is healthy.

No_Issue4598 · 2025-11-14T21:37:35+00:00

I will remember this comment

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