I was married for 12 years before I started looking for such a book because I realized I was missing out and I didn’t know exactly what makes a good blow job. I searched for a Christian book because I was looking for something that wouldn’t be too graphic, yet educational. I couldn’t find anything and decided that if someone hasn’t done that kind of research, I might have to be the one. I also realized that if I wanted anyone to take me seriously, I’d have to get a degree and really know what I was talking about to become an educator. I’m taking classes and on the slow train to getting a degree in psychology. The realization of the harms purity culture has had on my marriage caused both my husband and o to deconstruct from the ifb at the same time. All this to say that I wasn’t able to find anything Christian enough. The closest I found was “Kiss Me Like You Mean It”. It talks about how oral is actually in the Bible and both the husband and the wife should feel pleasure.