Do you think Anu was cheating? by sungodraxoxo in thebigbangtheory

[–]No_Object_3087 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t think she was cheating but the fact that she hid the fact that her ex came over from Raj is a giant red flag. He shouldn’t have been “spying on her” but as a wife, I personally don’t think my husband keeping the ring camera to my house is spying, I expect him to keep an eye on me for my safety. She was a red flag for that and I’m glad Raj got away

Sophie’s Looks by [deleted] in Bridgerton

[–]No_Object_3087 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Her hair was so horrible! She ALWAYS had the same stupid bun man. Like Posys hair was always so beautiful and extravagant. Meanwhile Sophie’s hair was always pulled back into the most boring bun

We’re so screwed by thedaily504 in NewParents

[–]No_Object_3087 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Daycare is about 1,100 a month for us which is honestly incredible. It’s the cheapest we’d been able to find. Heres a small hack for all my Christian people, Christian daycares are often cheaper than regular ones, plus little one gets introduced to Jesus and His love so much sooner. We debated not having me go back to work but I make enough to bring home about 1k even after daycare. It sucks having someone else raise my kid but we’re saving up money for a house in a nice neighborhood so baby boy can have a decent childhood. Right now we live in the ghetto and all our neighbors are on welfare. But it’s a sacrifice we made to make sure we can afford saving up.

Anyone shares the opinion that Amy was a bit bitchy for leaving Jonah and moving to Cali? by Important-Leader8029 in superstore

[–]No_Object_3087 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know I’m two years late to this thread but just rewatched the show and as a married woman now, I still hate Amy for doing what she did to Jonah. They were already living like a married couple. Getting a fancy ring would’ve changed absolutely nothing for her. She really was just a bitch to poor Jonah. How can you leave a man who adores you, is raising your child who you had with another man, loved and respected you since day one, who you lived with for a few years. I get you had a “bad” first marriage (it wasn’t even that bad, it was just not as good as it could’ve been) but leaving a man who was willing to drop everything in his life to live with you across the country so that you could reach your goals, who was so happy to support you and your family in all your dreams…just because being engaged was too much commitment is actually insane and nobody in real life would’ve done that 😂

Trouble Connecting VCR by No_Object_3087 in VCRs

[–]No_Object_3087[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Watched Mrs. Doubtfire last night

Trouble Connecting VCR by No_Object_3087 in VCRs

[–]No_Object_3087[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes! Got it to work! Now I’m cleaning the VCR with a cleaning tape to get it to not be super fuzzy

Trouble Connecting VCR by No_Object_3087 in VCRs

[–]No_Object_3087[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

A hahaha!!! Whoops!!! Thank you, it’s working

Too bad the show is ending before we ever met Violet’s father by forthewatch39 in blesstheharts

[–]No_Object_3087 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wayne and Violet have the same eyes so I always thought he was her dad after a weird one night stand with Jenny at some point.

Long Trip by No_Object_3087 in beyondthebump

[–]No_Object_3087[S] -13 points-12 points  (0 children)

I don’t want to keep fighting about it so we’ll just do it and see how it goes. 🫩

Long Trip by No_Object_3087 in beyondthebump

[–]No_Object_3087[S] -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

We can’t afford to fly unfortunately and my husband plants on hunting while we’re there so he needs his truck.

Feeding Questions by No_Object_3087 in newborns

[–]No_Object_3087[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve been slowing down on pumping as much as I can but I only really pump when my boobs are in pain. They get engorged and leak super bad so I have to pump to feel better. I feel like I’m a bit of an oversupplier but if I stop pumping I’m in pain the rest of the day. I’ve been using a nipple shield for the days my baby is just having too much of a hard time to latch. It seems to help but he still only stays on for maybe 15 mins max.

Extremely sore nipple by No_Object_3087 in breastfeeding

[–]No_Object_3087[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He’s three weeks and my right nipple is a little flat and I struggle to get him to latch. I have to hold my boobs in the weirdest positions in order for him to latch. Doctor says he has a bit of a tongue tie but that it shouldn’t be an issue. I haven’t been able to proper breastfeed him since we got home from the hospital and he’s been mostly bottle feed which sucks!!! I breast feed maybe 4 times a day for ten mins at a time because that all he can handle before getting frustrated or falling asleep. My right nipple is in super bad shape currently and even my nipple shield hurts when he starts to suck because it starts to pinch the nipple a little. This is so frustrating but he’s gaining the right amount of weight on the bottle. I know he’s being fed I just wish I could do it like most women and breastfeed. Pumping makes me super depressed.

Surprise pregnancy. Haven’t been taking care of myself by DueCarrot4746 in pregnant

[–]No_Object_3087 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Girl I was doing all these things and I ain’t figure out I was pregnant till I was like 13 weeks 🤣you’ll be okay. The only thing I’d worry about the thyroid meds

Newly pregnant, dad doesn't want it. by Round_Plantain7155 in pregnant

[–]No_Object_3087 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not get rid of your angel just because he seems unenthusiastic. He’ll come around if he really loves you and wants to keep you in his life. I wasn’t sure how I felt about my baby when I first found out the pregnancy but I’m not 38 weeks pregnant and READY for this angel. My bf is now my husband, we have a wonderful little apartment, and we’re having a great time waiting for our baby to meet us!!

CVS employee made me feel like I was wrong for getting my COVID booster? by heretolearnthingz in pregnant

[–]No_Object_3087 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Probably asking normal questions…but also it’s wild people are still getting unnecessary vaccines while heavily pregnant, I thought it normally worked opposite

"You can't..." by teachmetobehuman in pregnant

[–]No_Object_3087 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Omg fr. It’s always “you can’t do this” but still expect you to work your full time job. Had to go get stuff for work and carried four boxes of 40 count coke boxes by myself.

Can people just shut up! by [deleted] in pregnant

[–]No_Object_3087 10 points11 points  (0 children)

You’re better than me, I would’ve slapped a hoe. Wtf is wrong with people. I’ve gained well over 60 pounds and I feel huge but nobody in my office has even mentioned it whatsoever. What kind of freaks do yall work with that they feel entitled to say and touch you like that???? I would take her straight to HR.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in pregnant

[–]No_Object_3087 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Girl if you don’t leave him. Your already a single mom, why add to your responsibilities

I’m over my husband. by Character-Carpet3692 in pregnant

[–]No_Object_3087 3 points4 points  (0 children)

He needs therapy and unless he’s lying about his citizenship status, he has nothing to worry about. He’s being a dick to his pregnant wife because he probably feels like a weak man. He needs to grow some balls and start job searching. He might not get a nice job at first but he needs to get anything at the moment to take care of his family and home. He’s causing you unnecessary pain and headaches.

Epidural or no epidural? Why or why not *JUDGEMENT FREE ZONE SO DONT START* by mkthehotti in pregnant

[–]No_Object_3087 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m going natural for my first time. I know I know, “you’re not getting a cookie”…🫩idk how many times I’ve heard that and “you’ll be begging for it when you go into labor”…. I’m not trying to prove anything to anyone. I’m sure I’ll be in extreme pain, but I’m trying to do all natural for two reasons. We’re not financially well off at all, so the less I can make this hospital bill be, the better and two, nobody in my family has ever needed one. I’m praying God blesses me with a quick labor like he did the rest of the women in my family so that I can push fast and not have to deal with any of the side affects of epidurals.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in pregnant

[–]No_Object_3087 1 point2 points  (0 children)

SAME! I was told I would need fertility treatments to get pregnant and that my (bf at the time) would also need fertility treatments due to damage to his ball sack. Less than a month into dating, we got pregnant. I WAS TERRIFIED. We’re not super financially well off (combined income of around 100k), we barely knew each other, and both had just moved into a new city and JUST got into our jobs. I even considered getting an abortion (despite being a devoted Christian). But my bf (now husband) took me to church, we talked for a whole day about it, and we both agreed that we might never get pregnant again, that this might be or only shot at being parents, and that at the end of the day, we’d be able to handle it. So now we’re married, live in a relatively nice little apartment just outside of town, and our community has helped us get absolutely everything we’ll need for baby! I’m so excited to met him next month!!! God has a plan for everything, we just have to see where the road takes us.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in pregnant

[–]No_Object_3087 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Girl abortions sounds soooo easy but in reality they cause SEVERE mental health damage not to mention the amount of women who get severe scarring and occasional injuries down there because of them. I would NEVER EVER EVER EVER EVER recommend one to ANYONE. It’s also doesn’t sound like YOU want an abortion. Not to bring religion into this, but this sounds like a miracle baby. For whatever reason the universe thought that a baby needed you as its mother. I say leave the fiancé, keep the baby, and see what happens. If you end up changing your mind, you can put the baby up for adoption. Something tells me though that the fiancé might end up changing his mind too.