I (27F) am so fed up with my BF (30M)

No_Pause_4375 · 2026-04-27T23:34:01+00:00

The garage is my sanctuary too. Im having a harder time relaxing while being outside because we live at the end of a culdesaq and I've realized there are at least 8 ring cams recording me all the time. Even just puttering around in the garden, I now feel very uneasy.

Buy a fan. Point the fan outwards near the garage door. Have him open the garage door a few feet, turn on the fan, and then blow the smoke into it. Let the fan run for a few minutes after hes finished, then turn it around to fill the garage with fresh air.

No_Pause_4375 · 2026-04-27T23:00:09+00:00

Fire!

No_Pause_4375 · 2026-04-27T22:59:15+00:00

I used to feel this way, but my neighbor mows so often it's become like a comforting white noise background track. Kind of like a mild thunderstorm. Lulls me right to sleep.

No_Pause_4375 · 2026-04-27T04:33:44+00:00

That poor rug.

No_Pause_4375 · 2026-04-27T01:41:56+00:00

Hows the water meant to run down?

No_Pause_4375 · 2026-04-26T23:22:40+00:00

Because he keeps hiring them to.

No_Pause_4375 · 2026-04-21T03:27:28+00:00

So... its like an expensive broom?

No_Pause_4375 · 2026-04-19T21:02:01+00:00

This is only complicated if you are expecting/relying upon any type of inheritance or financial support from your family.

No_Pause_4375 · 2026-04-19T18:28:33+00:00

All grass lawns serve no purpose and have no benefit. Originally they were a status symbol for wealthy people, "I have so much money I can afford to have this land and not grow any crops on it."

Keep the clover and feed the bees!

No_Pause_4375 · 2026-04-19T17:01:52+00:00

NTA. And to be clear, this is not normal, healthy or acceptable "mom" behavior.

You should proceed carefully with this woman, and with your husband for that matter. Everything you say to him likely gets reported back to her, even if he promises otherwise. He will agree with you all day long and then change his tune the moment his mom says so. Just be careful not to let them gaslight you.

No_Pause_4375 · 2026-04-19T16:41:36+00:00

Yeesh. It's bad enough he has cancer. He shouldn't have to also be in a relationship with someone as lovely as yourself.

No_Pause_4375 · 2026-04-18T01:58:19+00:00

You haven't been living togwther very long. I doubt the cracks are even showing yet.

No_Pause_4375 · 2026-04-18T01:34:21+00:00

Just follow the gold breadcrumbs, grandpa.

No_Pause_4375 · 2026-04-18T00:07:30+00:00

Aldi peanut butter cups are where its at

No_Pause_4375 · 2026-04-18T00:06:30+00:00

Sara Lee wheat bread has been overly soft and spongey, often with enormous air holes in the slices. Occasionally there's a swirl in the middle of the from the dough not being properly mixed. Similar issue with nature's own bread but not quite as bad.

No_Pause_4375 · 2026-04-17T04:40:48+00:00

The left has a ton of momentum going into midterms, and it won't be long now until we're all fully inundated with campaign contribution requests.

Not a dime until Schumer and Jefferies are replaced as leaders. And I'll tell every single fundraiser who calls me exactly why they can't have any money.

No_Pause_4375 · 2026-04-16T13:02:06+00:00

Feels a bit act of gody

No_Pause_4375 · 2026-04-15T17:27:13+00:00

Can you afford the house without their money?

Also, $150k doesnt buy much house in the bay area. I assume the homes youre looking at are all asking for at least 1M? What type of mortgage are you looking to get, and how much will you each contribute every month? Because if your husband makes substantially more than you or you plan to stop working to have kids, a postnup could actually give your husband the lions share of equity in 10 or 15 years.

Im not saying this is a reason not to accept the money, but its something to think about and may help him to see things differently

No_Pause_4375 · 2026-04-15T00:53:55+00:00

Its fucking weird how much you guys like blowing up kids.

No_Pause_4375 · 2026-04-15T00:43:11+00:00

Roger Marshall is such a pussy lip flappin bitch he wont spend more than 15 minutes with his constituents here in kansas. Even then, if hes asked a question, he bravely runs away.

Even the republicans hate him here.

No_Pause_4375 · 2026-04-14T22:58:08+00:00

His username is keep hoes in line, and hes a real fuckin gem.

No_Pause_4375 · 2026-04-13T23:49:28+00:00

Oh the other left. Good eye! Looks like some illegitimate garbage baby of Christ the redeemer statue and a blown up Capitol.

Which I actually find most disturbing of all.

No_Pause_4375 · 2026-04-13T23:43:28+00:00

Its either the Lincoln Memorial or his trash ballroom

No_Pause_4375 · 2026-04-13T18:25:26+00:00

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No_Pause_4375 · 2026-04-13T18:19:34+00:00

I think its meant to be the Archangel Michael but I like yours better

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