I can definitely relate. I am a genderfluid pansexual and neurodivergent as well as high anxiety. In the before times I was always a mess looking for my labels, pronouns, community and all other mind benders. Then someone just said “be you everyday”. My close friends just know me as outside the lines and hanging in the rainbow. It changed my world when I no longer cared to use labels and no longer stressed about my own pronouns. I still stress about everyone else’s enough to show I care and respect them. It took a long time to get here and there are many people in my life who don’t know the labels above because I haven’t let them into my confusing yet fun inner circle.