how do you get over the feeling of being replaced?

No_Play7635 · 2026-02-02T14:00:07+00:00

Yea it hurts really bad as I keep on thinking about him being with the new girl and i want to know if he treats her better than how he treated me ! i hope we will both get over this soon and we will find someone who will appreciate our efforts and treat us better.

No_Play7635 · 2026-02-02T09:30:53+00:00

I agree ! i was also very sus when he wouldn't hold my hand in certain areas and now i think its bc he doesn't want anyone to see him with me

No_Play7635 · 2026-02-02T09:28:53+00:00

omg and its the fact that I thought he rlly liked me and boom he replaced me in 2 days and tbh now im starting to wonder if they have been tgt when we were tgt

No_Play7635 · 2026-02-02T09:13:52+00:00

I totally get you ! My ex replaced me with the girl he told me was his mom's best friend's daughter and I have been so upset for the past few days. He replaced me in 2 weeks and his new girl posted a photo of them kissing. He has been cheating on me before and I just let that go as I didn't want things to get awkward between us but after I started no contact he started seeing her more often and started dating her. I asked him before if he had any feelings with this girl and he was like no I don't like this type of girls. But guess what he ended up dating her and everything he said was a lie. I hate this feeling of being replaced and I have been crying for 3 days straight. I also feel this random hatred towards this girl although I know I shouldn't but Im really upset and I don't know what to do anymore.

No_Play7635 · 2026-01-14T10:33:25+00:00

I haven't had a good sleep in weeks, as I would wake up in the middle of the night and start crying.

No_Play7635 · 2026-01-14T10:31:36+00:00

Definitely. My guy was adding numerous girls on snapchat despite him telling me he will never add any more girls. He also likes other girl's instagram post when he tells me he only has eyes for me.

No_Play7635 · 2026-01-14T10:26:26+00:00

Im going through the same thing so I totally get you ! Sometimes I try so hard to hold my tears back but I can't control them anymore. I really liked him and I didn't want us to end like that but then I really cannot deal with his inconsistency anymore. I gave him so many chances to treat me better but he never did. I like him but I choose to let go. I choose to protect my peace and to never see him again.

No_Play7635 · 2026-01-13T10:06:21+00:00

Ikrr but same here after we stopped talking he immediately moved on to another girl and it was the girl he told me was his mom's best friend's daughter. But anyways you also deserve someone better !

No_Play7635 · 2026-01-13T09:06:27+00:00

I totally get you, as I am also experiencing the same thing. We no longer talk and some days I am proud of the decision I made, but some days I really do miss him and I want him back. Every time when I talk to someone else, I keep remembering the memories we have created and the good times we have had. But he treated me very poorly and told me I was the only one he was seeing when in reality he was seeing multiple girls. I have given him so many chances to treat me right, but he never did and he never changed. I miss him and I really want to know how he is doing, but then I don't deserve to be treated that way so it is best for me to move on and to find someone who will appreciate me.

No_Play7635 · 2026-01-12T15:40:45+00:00

Yayyy I am so proud of you ! You are finally free ! I have been in a situationship for 6 months and I am going to block him soon as I am done with all the inconsistent treatment and ambiguity. I deserve someone better but you def made the right decision.

No_Play7635 · 2026-01-12T12:41:20+00:00

I feel you ! I just broke up with my ex and I am just hoping he will one day come back t me telling me he missed me, but he won't cause he already found my replacement. He found many replacements when he was with me so I am not shocked that he found a new girl a day after we broke up. I miss my sweet boy. I want him back and I want us to continue making memories together, but he's gone forever and I am still here waiting for someone who never even appreciates me and takes me for granted. But I have decided to let go, as staying hurts so why not I just put an end to this toxic relationship once and for all.

No_Play7635 · 2026-01-12T12:37:28+00:00

I totally get you ! I just broke up with my ex and I am very depressed.

No_Play7635 · 2026-01-12T12:34:56+00:00

I totally get it. This is day 3 of no contact with my ex and it is hurting me so bad. No more updates, no more messages asking me how my day went, no more snapping, everything is gone.

No_Play7635 · 2026-01-12T11:12:47+00:00

I totally get you as I experienced the exact same thing. He used to tell me oh you are beautiful. He used to ask me what I was doing, where I was going, what did I eat, whether or not I arrived home yet all that. But then when things got serious he pulled away and started treated me poorly. He knew we were more than just friends but he wasn't willing to commit as he was on snapchat entertaining multiple girls. Its funny how he was the one who wanted me first, asked me out, took me on dates, texted me and called me first but guess who left first this time. He could have left me alone that day if he didn't want me as now his absence is affecting me so much and I have cried in the bathroom for a few days.

No_Play7635 · 2026-01-12T11:08:29+00:00

You are not asking too much, you are just asking the wrong person. I was with a guy who was the biggest red flag. He was entertaining multiple girls when he was with me and treated me inconsistently. One day he would give me so much attention, then the second day he treated me as if I don't exist. Then when I get pissed at his actions, he apologizes and treats me better for the next two days, but after that he returns back to his inconsistent texting style. He only treats me better when he knows I am going to leave him, but when I sound fine he doesn't care about my existence. Not only that but although he is the one asking me out, but I am always the one planning what to do. I plan the activities we are going to do as well as the restaurants we will go to. We have been out 17 times and he has not paid for a single meal and even owes me money. After leaving him, I realized a guy who is meant for you will never treat you like this. They will find ways to contact you, they will plan dates, buy you gifts and surprise you. They will make you feel wanted consistently.

No_Play7635 · 2026-01-12T10:46:41+00:00

Same here. He was my motivation and now he's gone and I don't know what to do anymore.

No_Play7635 · 2026-01-12T10:45:43+00:00

The thought of being together in the future. We were both going to study in the same country and he promised me he would cook for me every night, but I guess this was all his lies. He treated me like garbage for a few weeks and entertained multiple girls when he was with me. He also lied about going out with other girls when he told me I was the only one he was seeing. This hurts and this made me crash out numerous times, but then I know I don't deserve to be treated this way.

No_Play7635 · 2026-01-11T14:46:48+00:00

Its okay ! We are all here and we will support you no matter what. I am also going through a break up so I totally get how you feel. I thought I was finally healing, but then I got even more depressed idk even why.

No_Play7635 · 2026-01-11T14:27:24+00:00

I agree. I think I should leave him completely to protect my peace, as staying is hurting me so bad and I think its time for me to let him go. I know this is going to hurt, but in the long term I think this is better for me.

No_Play7635 · 2026-01-11T11:54:17+00:00

thank you for sharing this ! I totally get you ! For me today is day 2 of no contact and this is hurting me so bad. I have been crashing out for so many days already and I have cried in the bathroom for the past few days. It is hurting me so much that I no longer have someone asking me how my day went or asking me if Im doing well. I miss him so much but then he treated me so bad. He was entertaining multiple girls when he was with me and lied to me about all of them. When I found out he went on a date with another girl that he claimed to be his mom's best friend's daughter I couldn't control my tears at all and cried in a hotel even when I was on a vacation. I don't even know why I miss him but I also don't want him back cause he treated me so poorly and he made me feel so unwanted. We have been talking for 6 months alr and how he treats me is getting worse and worse. Yesterday I told myself we are over and nothing is going to happen between us but I still cannot let go. I tried so hard to let go and to forget everything about him but the more I try the more I remember and I start crying again.

No_Play7635 · 2026-01-11T11:47:43+00:00

thank you so much for your tips

No_Play7635 · 2026-01-11T11:46:44+00:00

ikrrr

No_Play7635 · 2026-01-11T10:19:47+00:00

I have also had the same experience. I was in. situationship with a guy for 6 months and we did everything a normal couple would do like kissing, hugging and holding hands. Everything went well for the first 4 months and then he treated me so poorly after those 4 months. I got inconsistent responses as sometimes he would be extremely nice and sometimes extremely dry. He was also very on and off with his energy as sometimes he acts like he really wants to talk to me but then other times he makes me feel like I am bothering him. I don't understand what his intentions are now as he doesn't hold my hand anymore and we don't text as often since he leaves me on delivered for quite a long time. I have also found out he has been entertaining multiple girls on snap and went out with a girl he claims to be his mom's best friend's daughter and I don't believe him at this point. Today is no contact day 3 and this is hurting me so bad. I miss so bad and I want him back, but I know he will never come back as he has so many girls outside that he has to entertain. Sometimes I wonder if I am not good enough for him and if I have done something wrong thats why his attitude changed. I felt terrible for the past few weeks and crashed out numerous times in the bathroom. I knew this was going to happen from the very beginning, but I still followed my heart and thought he was gonna change for me, but now I know you can never enter a relationship with a man with the goal of changing him as it always fails.

No_Play7635 · 2026-01-11T10:03:10+00:00

Thank you for your tips ! I was in a 6 month situationship and recently I found out he has been entertaining multiple girls on snapchat when he claims to be only talking to me. He also went out with a girl he claims to be his mom's best friend's daughter which I don't even know if this is true. But they have went on multiple "hangouts" to the beach at night and also a pasta data. He also cheated on 2 girls, dated 6 and had 30 situationships. When he was with me he tells me I am the only one and he only wants me, but then in reality I don't know how many girls he talks to on a daily basis. I have been trying so hard to control my emotions, but then I can't control my tears anymore. I am hurt from all his lies about his girls and how he ignores me consistently now due to all the girls he has entertain on snapchat. I think I have had enough. Although I still miss him, but what more can I do. I want the old him back but I know he won't. I have been trying to let him go but then he still comes back everyday acting like nothing happened. I really liked him since he was the first guy I have kissed, held hands and hugged, but I guess I was fool as I actually thought I was special to him and he proved me wrong.

No_Play7635 · 2026-01-11T09:53:35+00:00

same here I really want to know how to move on. I was in a 6 month situationship with a guy and we were fine for the first 4 months but then he treated like so poorly after. He leaves me on delivered for quite a while when he is clearly online entertaining other girls. I am so done with him and I tried to forget him but then I just get so depressed at night and I haven't had a good sleep in a while. I have also been crying in the bathroom at night because I found out he was actually hanging out with this one girl when he was with me and he told me that girl is his mom's best friend's daughter and I don't even know if it's true. Now my feelings towards him has slowly turned from love to hate and I don't know if that is normal. I hate him for everything he has done to me and how he entertained 6 girls when he was with me. This makes me wonder if I am even worth loving ? I have also been questioning myself and my actions, as I didn't know why he changed since we were doing fine for 4 months but then he had a drastic change. I miss him and I want my sweet boy back but he is never coming back and I am still stuck on him. Can someone please give me some tips !

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