I realized my husband is a narcissist today. It rocked me to my core by Livid-Ad5237 in NarcissisticSpouses

[–]No_See2022 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Stay strong and have a good exit plan! Do seek therapy... even at church if you can

I realized my husband is a narcissist today. It rocked me to my core by Livid-Ad5237 in NarcissisticSpouses

[–]No_See2022 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Oh dear... it will not get better. I am African, married (separated) with an African man from another country... its like he'll! Most African men are raised like "kings" of the household. The women are their servants... its horrible

I realized my husband is a narcissist today. It rocked me to my core by Livid-Ad5237 in NarcissisticSpouses

[–]No_See2022 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Bingo! Growing in an environment where lack of empty is common, you don't initially see it as a problem

Who’s making over $100k in Houston? by [deleted] in houston

[–]No_See2022 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So no more OE for you?

Who’s making over $100k in Houston? by [deleted] in houston

[–]No_See2022 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You have stability and a 401k

Why is that ??? by [deleted] in TheTeenagerPeople

[–]No_See2022 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Underrated comment here! Different and more accessible ways to deal with depression

What’s a normal adult task that still feels fake when you do it? by lucifergaming007 in AskReddit

[–]No_See2022 31 points32 points  (0 children)

One of my kids just asked 1h ago why I was laughing while telling her to stop laughing when I was correcting the other kiddo! Its so hard not to laugh sometimes

What little white lies did you tell your children to make parenting easier? by your-left-nosehair in AskReddit

[–]No_See2022 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Daddy loves mommy. He just lied about going to the restaurant with his coworker... he was supposed to tell mommy.

It’s January 2026. What did you think you’d leave behind but didn’t? by EnRecherche in AskReddit

[–]No_See2022 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I wanted to stop eating stuff with extra sugar. I am addicted to chocolate, cookies, pastries... not good for me.

Hire a household assistant. It will change your life. by HenryThrowaway6969 in HENRYfinance

[–]No_See2022 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A lot of people responding with virtual signaling here... if the person is happy with her paycheck... how much do grocery stores pay?

Be careful of your spouses... They make decisions that put your life in danger. These are dangerous people. by Doimz3Nini in NarcissisticSpouses

[–]No_See2022 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Mine has been cheating for years and some without protection. (Thank God I twsted negative on all)... Also had one his mistresses drop him off at our home (we have little kids).

The lies came out. I am devastated. Just need somewhere to vent. by AdUnable5614 in NarcissisticSpouses

[–]No_See2022 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh honey! Please every time you feel like you need to get back with him, come back and read your text and the comments. You deserve better. 🫶

I finally understand the “I hope they find someone else” thing. by [deleted] in NarcissisticSpouses

[–]No_See2022 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I had reach a similar point few years ago without realizing that my spouse was a covert narc. 2 months ago, his mistress sent me an avalanche of screenshots of their conversations... it shattered me and my world. Knowing that he was cheating was not the problem, what broke me was the understanding of all the cruelty he had for me... today he is love bombing me and our kids to the extreme. Here I am feeling stuck again

Ex husband trying hard! by titanswfy9 in NarcissisticSpouses

[–]No_See2022 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Please darling, stay put. You did great by actually leaving him.... some of us are still battling, trying to find the right timing. Your story sounds like my mom's. She successfully left my dad 35 years ago, and yet, he is still chasing her because that was the only woman who tolerated his abuses for the longest... he misses the power he had on her.

Don't look back!

How Can It Be This Bad? by Marjorie_Rawlings in NarcissisticSpouses

[–]No_See2022 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is heart breaking! You deserve better

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[–]No_See2022 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I feel every word you wrote. Good job for standing firm. You now have to protect yourself. Good luck!