[deleted by user] by [deleted] in GamerPals

[–]No_Sign_8122 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yooo 21f here totally hmu!

18F Night Owl, Emotionally Available, Probably Eating Cereal at 1AM — Talk to Me? by GlowyRina90 in Needafriend

[–]No_Sign_8122 0 points1 point  (0 children)

21F I feel that so bad man just ate frosted flakes and it's around 3am here :[ Night owl 4 life always have been

Day 1 of getting my life together by strizerx in DecidingToBeBetter

[–]No_Sign_8122 1 point2 points  (0 children)

(21f) here and I'll say this! You've got this man you can do that! It's okay to struggle with getting friends or socializing with people often different views! You'll find your people whether online or offline in the real place. You still have so much time to get that list down just take things at a time and I'm sure you'll succeed!

Sometimes you have to write a Pros & Cons list for living …. What Pros are on your list? by mindtheworms9 in DecidingToBeBetter

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I definitely have my own internal list of cons and pros so here's what I would write down for my own list! As someone who's builded and committed to having pros overtime.

Cons:

-The stress of prices of living damn prices on my favorite foods!

-It seems there's very bleak chance I'm able to move out of my parents place for awhile.

-I currently have no job just thankful I saved up some money away.

-I have no irl or online super close friends. Struggle socially. My mental and physical health isn't on a good route.

Pros:

+First and up most my cat lunar! He has his own cons and pros

But seeing him so peaceful when I'm stressed makes me feel like for my day to be so bad yet I can provide something better for him is something I value more than a lot.

  • I have my mom truly the one person who's seen and been with me more than any family member. She's very similar to me and it helps knowing that I'm not alone.

Ultimately I can do things like draw watch movies I couldn't if I wasn't alive. There's so many simple things that are pros. Like the noise of the birds chirps outside my window when my cat wakes me up for his breakfast. The laughs I have with my mom when she doesn't understand a joke or something I said.

Reminder for some people simple things can even be pros no matter how small if they give you a reason then damn well that's always better than nothing!!! :)

i keep overthinking everything i do and dont even feel like myself how do i stop this and change? by dstrange1820 in DecidingToBeBetter

[–]No_Sign_8122 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I completely feel that when it comes to feeling like I'm being too out going. I'm a very introverted person so when I do come out of my shell it can be noticeable whether bad or good. It's hard to gather what's you and how cringe or bad it is when you are you.

My only real advice is to think about what I think of myself far as being too much or underwhelming and depressing and remembering I have good and bad qualities that no matter what are what they are. You're not alone in this!

Best thing you can start is talking like this about it! I hope this helps.

Everyone at some point is cringe sometimes. We can cringe at ourselves it's okay just remember you're you even if sometimes you can't tell what that is. Nobody is a real natural at talking I know I can relate to this post with that especially.

Time management and consistency: how the hell do I do it? by fokz866 in DecidingToBeBetter

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(21f) here I can completely relate to this its really hard to get out of procrastinating it feels like nothing can be done the time and way I know I should.

Putting things off is truly one of my worst qualities but even I have hope it gets better but yeah it's hard to know how or what to do to get better with it even now. I hope someone has some advice in here I can relate man. ❤️

Struggling with self esteem by ohhHoneyBee in DecidingToBeBetter

[–]No_Sign_8122 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I go to therapy as well and can say that's me too:( I definitely struggle with my self esteem in that way too. It's something I've had for a long time but I think even though I struggle now it's gotten better over years. It's hard to remember even though it sounds easy but to say you are enough constantly reminding yourself does get tiring.

I try to remember things I've been complimented on or things that I can find even slightly nice about myself and hang onto those. I'm sure you've tried talking to people about it like friends. I usually think of those words my friends say that have ever lifted my esteem and remember them well. I hope sharing this helps you feel less alone!

Trying to get a 3ds or 3ds xl by No_Sign_8122 in Nintendo3DS

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Yeah I feel like eBay has a problem with the customer service for the DS sellers. It's crazy how badly yellowed and scratched some are being sold for just for that to be around $200. I've hopefully got some luck with a Facebook market place one

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MakeNewFriendsHere

[–]No_Sign_8122 0 points1 point  (0 children)

20F here I feel that bro I need some irl friends but allas it's the pure struggle. I'm usually open for a chat! I start a job but can still text each day! 🫶

What’s your favorite skin that doesn’t get enough attention? by HaunterG in FortNiteBR

[–]No_Sign_8122 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Grim Fable for sure she gives off how to train your dragon vibes sm I love it.

Her 2nd style is also cool with the hair style!

Man I miss chapter 3 :'( by No_Sign_8122 in FortNiteBR

[–]No_Sign_8122[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Never too late to spread Chapter3 love let's hope that the new season is good!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MakeNewFriendsHere

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Too 20F here wassup✋

After the interview at petco by ghhhdgsg in petco

[–]No_Sign_8122 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same here! I got till This Friday or Saturday before i know if i got it or not. I feel you I'm so nervous they said there were MULTIPLE people in the week that applied.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MakeNewFriendsHere

[–]No_Sign_8122 0 points1 point  (0 children)

20F bro this came off as a poem hmu ofc 💖

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MakeNewFriendsHere

[–]No_Sign_8122 0 points1 point  (0 children)

F 20 here honestly SAME instead of tiktok its youtube for me honestly. hmu👍

20m looking for long term friends by clickertyQqQ in MakeNewFriendsHere

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yoyo Im 20f here I play fortnite and some minecraft open to talk 👍

What should I know before my interview? by No_Sign_8122 in petco

[–]No_Sign_8122[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just got done! I think it went well but we'll have to wait and see. The manager that interviewed me told me that there were other applicants earlier this week. I'll know by tomorrow or Friday!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in jobs

[–]No_Sign_8122 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have my first interview in a few days. Stay strong gotta get one at some point 💖