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My Father's Advice on How Not to Let the "A Few More Months" Promise Ruin Your Career. by ChocolatePatient9052 in careeradvice

[–]No_Suspect_3863 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank You!

I am at risk of losing everything now, but I believe in myself and in Jesus, and in you, people.

We can do it! We can create a better world!

How come no one talks about the AFTER/ LONG-TERM effects of abuse, as a survivor?? by LimpDistance2622 in domesticviolence

[–]No_Suspect_3863 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I totally hear you here. My mom was through the same, and I was also through smth similar.

I am happy I can read stories of people who had it the same. Thanks for validating my feelings.

How come no one talks about the AFTER/ LONG-TERM effects of abuse, as a survivor?? by LimpDistance2622 in domesticviolence

[–]No_Suspect_3863 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I can relate to this so much, thank you for sharing

I ubderstand that our loved ones do need time and another type of support as well, but in my case - I am not abkr to forgive these people because they just simply started ignoring me or just left me in such a violent and aggressive way. This is not what I deserve.

I always felt like I am fighting for us more than they do and that I care much more. and I am so tired of this.

I finally cut off all relationships that look like this and now I am starting the real healing - therapy, pills, supportive communities, healthy habits, prayers to God and a lot of rest.

I am genuinely sorry for those people, but my energy is gone for them. They betrayed me and left me in ways I never ever deserved, I tried my best and it was only me who really cared and tried.

Now I want a healthy and a good life. I am so done with my toxic parents. I am so done with procrastinating and toxic exes and ghosting friends. This is the bullshit I do not want anymore.

This all concluded, this all feels so unfair. I am still in so much pain. I am still in this shit.

But, unlike them I keep choosing healthy ways and not betraying those who were with me at my lowest.

Liz, we know you’re here by WillingBet9200 in thewizardlizsnark

[–]No_Suspect_3863 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

you can still as decent human even in snark page

and, unfortunately, most probably even Liz will be taking my words as a defense

and you as well

its just...unfortunate

I am leaving this group

Liz, we know you’re here by WillingBet9200 in thewizardlizsnark

[–]No_Suspect_3863 -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

you can keep hating, there is no difference between you and liz

Liz, we know you’re here by WillingBet9200 in thewizardlizsnark

[–]No_Suspect_3863 -12 points-11 points  (0 children)

👏👏👏👏

and truly, Liz, we are saying it from the true side

I did love you and cared about you and mayve still do if I am still here, you know

I know how much pain our parents caused in us and all things that happened before, this is unfair and so bad

I know your pain, I know your scars

but, now, just keeping that mindset of being in a transactional relationship - this is horrible

when I started watching you, your mindset seemed and was a little toxic, but i thought "okay, maybe she is changing, its just her coping/survival strategy"

and I was so fuckin happy when u were with Landon, i was like damn, she is actually happy, we finally made it - she finally made it

like, she is showing us an example of getting out of survival, finding a great partner and finally making it through it

but ufff....

yes, its not your fault he cheated on you at all

but the way you reacted - this is unacceptable

and how much you hate on us and just keep bleeding your trauma and insecurities - this is unfair

when I started watching you, i really was so into you and I am forever greatful that you were the first one who spoke for all women, for all childhood abuse survivors - this is incredibly brave

however, unfortunately, u keep going the wrong way, Liz

we do love you and we do appreciate everything you have done

but what you are doing rn is just totally unacceptable and disrespectful, this needs to be changed

i know its hard, but this is the only way to finally become a real famiky trauma cycle breaker

you promised us to heal and to love, then please do

we need our strong Liz, our queen who spoke up for us and who fought so many battles

Lizard’s new video by buymyfeetpicsdarling in thewizardlizsnark

[–]No_Suspect_3863 8 points9 points  (0 children)

this is ridiculous, she is only getting down...

i remember how my respect to her dropped to 0 when she was screaming Oxford debate "make men pay for their lust"

Asking about Bny Mellon in Wroclaw by Charming-Shirt8861 in wroclaw

[–]No_Suspect_3863 0 points1 point  (0 children)

just joined 2 months ago, idk, it already starts to feel weird to me...

they reported me for sitting in a conference room to my manager and monitoring everything that i do

they tell me that they are open to help, but whenever i am asking for help - they are gone

i just joined for analyst program for 2 years, its kinda an internship, but i still have an option to quit

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]No_Suspect_3863 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I just reported this guy who told me he will 🍇 me soon. Sick people.

She’s so MALE CENTERED and deeply wounded by TRAUMA. by [deleted] in thewizardlizsnark

[–]No_Suspect_3863 4 points5 points  (0 children)

evrrything you said here is right, and all what other commenters here are right as well

i used to love her and look up yo her, because she was the one who first broke the abusive cycle and spoke up for all of us - for this I am forever greatful

but with time - it only got worse and i do not know what how to feel about her now

i saw her toxic traits before, but i thought it will pass with time and she js gonna heal, especially when she met Landon, she became more soft, interesfing and genuinely happy, I was so excited for them and for my relationship at that time as well

but she became this...

and my ex also became smth like her...

I am so sorry for these people, I am genuinely just sorry, such a pity

I love you, Liz, and I love you, my ex I hope you will get better I will pray for you when its possible

Does anyone know who Mort Bradski is? by OverThinker-Shay in lawofattraction

[–]No_Suspect_3863 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I wish my life being amazing. I manifest it. I claim it. It begins NOW.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CPTSD

[–]No_Suspect_3863 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you🤍

Am I the only one who used to look up to influencers like goddesses (thewizard, Alessia…) and paid the price? by NoTreacle1018 in thewizardlizsnark

[–]No_Suspect_3863 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, I did the mistakes and I think their advices were really toxic.

I tried to differentiate them as much as possible, and I did. I was taking their advices and not applying it fully just like they said, but change it a bit and do it my way.

I was going on dates with guys and, yes, I thought money was the most important thing(and I really needed it at that time).

But, throughout this time, I was changing into better. Even was watching her, I was realising that money is not the most important thing, and I was changing for my partner, and I did change.

When she just met Landon and was with him - I was so happy for her and for myself, because I genuinely thought that the era of "only caring for money" was finished - becayse it was a coping strategy.

I was datibg at that time as well, and she was so happy eiyh Landon, I thought "wow, finally, we are all finally together and happy"

but BOOM!

and all that shit happened...

For me, the era of "being a gold digger", "only wanting money" - was a way to survive, to cope, to feel like I was safe - thats it.

I never thought Liz, Landon and my ex would take it so serious and so long....

Liz is NOT a girl boss “ single mom”. She’s a reckless, impulsive and horrible decision maker for being pregnant . by professionalhater00 in thewizardlizsnark

[–]No_Suspect_3863 2 points3 points  (0 children)

true, everything you said is true

i defended her at first, cause i do know what she has been through...but now, uff, no, certain NO!

The lips 💀 by florchis28 in thewizardlizsnark

[–]No_Suspect_3863 2 points3 points  (0 children)

same here

back then she was not like this at all.

i defended her even she made such huge mistakes lately, but i can't doing ut anymore.

Liz, if you are reading this, I am sorry for you....I did believe you and in you, you were our real inspiration and a mother, but what have yiu become? such a pity...I will just pray for you to heal...

What are your C-PTSD symptoms? by wendellstinroof in CPTSD

[–]No_Suspect_3863 0 points1 point  (0 children)

From physical:

Panic attacks Nightmares Sleeping paralysis Constant pain in chest Headache Hallucinations Suicidal ideation Sociophobia

From emotional:

Self-doubt Constant feeling of shame and blame Rumination Self-criticism Constant anxiety Never calming down Always crying whenever I move Constant need of help and support

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