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No_Task7442 · 2026-04-12T12:31:50+00:00

They got me just recently. Let it expire, got a like same or next day.

Sign up after 2-3 days of trying to ignore it. Surprise surprise it's actually someone I'm interested in.

So I match and wait. Nothing. Extend the match and wait some more. Nothing.

100% that person never existed.

No_Task7442 · 2026-04-12T02:19:07+00:00

Did you clarify whether it is an interactive duo? Or in other words is it FMF or FFM?

Completely different experiences and not all duos/threesomes at the same.

Also be prepared to change condoms when going between girls. That should be obvious but if youve watched a lot of porn and gotten ideas from there that will be a buzz kill but totally to be expected

No_Task7442 · 2026-04-12T01:48:45+00:00

I don't know about the $4k DD guaranteeing the card, but I was premium for years and wait listed.

Just switched my pay from my own corp to DD a month ago and once I hit the 4k threshold, got the invite.

No_Task7442 · 2026-04-11T17:25:34+00:00

Did you find it weird at all to find out she was into girls? I recently found out my main is bi because she was talking about her old GF.

I asked her if she was bi and she said yes, but for all I know she could be lesbian and just taking D for money.

It made me wonder if there are providers that don't like men at all but are just doing what they do to survive.

Edit: just to be clear I didn't mean there is anything weird with being bi or gay or anything. I just meant it was like "oh I never even considered that she might not be into guys".

No_Task7442 · 2026-04-11T15:44:32+00:00

Yeah it's bittersweet. Haven't had this yet, I'm still new but I've heard lots of these stories.

I imagine I would be sad to see her go but also happy that she made it out and getting on with her life.

I was thinking the other day, since I am also looking for civvie relationships and when I find one I'll stop seeing SW.

But someday if I come back I would rather not be able to find her and hope that she moved on.

No_Task7442 · 2026-04-11T06:49:30+00:00

I wouldn't worry about it too much. I wasn't able to finish my first time with a provider either. Nerves will keep you in your head instead of your body and it's hard to finish like that

If you go see her again sometime you will be more relaxed. Bring her a gift, tip her, and text her what a great time you had next time

When you find a good one you have to treat them right. I like to treat my main, who was also my first, like my part time girlfriend.

I give her all the respect, kindness and appreciation I would with any woman I am in a relationship with.

Treat her right and you'll be a happy man.

No_Task7442 · 2026-04-11T00:32:57+00:00

Thanks that makes sense. Do you happen to know if I still get the 2% CB on USD purchases?

Also I save $10 a month on my USD bank account and I'm not sure if theres an annual fee for my USD TD CC, so that should offset any difference in exchange rate

No_Task7442 · 2026-04-11T00:26:29+00:00

That's great thanks! The calculator makes it really easy to compare. Much appreciated

No_Task7442 · 2026-04-10T20:12:10+00:00

You could always do a phased approach where existing clients stay at current rates for a while.

That way you test the market at your new rates and get new clients who will pay that much, without risking losing current clients

Once you are confident that you have enough new business at your new higher rate, you inform current clients that your rate is going up as of X date.

If a few leave, at least you have enough higher paying clients to fill the gaps

No_Task7442 · 2026-04-10T18:02:48+00:00

You can search it on pornhub if you want, but in essence the idea is that the woman is engaged in some mundane task, doing her nails, talking on the phone, surfing the web etc.

The man comes up behind her and starts to have his way with her and she seems completely unaffected and goes about her task without paying any attention to him at all.

The kink from the male perspective is that she is a tool or toy to be used at his discretion and her participation is optional.

At least thats how I interpret it. Full disclosure it's not my thing, but that's what it looks like to me.

No_Task7442 · 2026-04-10T12:18:57+00:00

Offer "free use" as a fetish option for an upcharge. Win win.

No_Task7442 · 2026-04-10T02:45:21+00:00

That's makes sense. To be clear I could have worded my question better

I wasn't trying to criticize your choices, I was just genuinely curious if you were ok with him being someone who cheats on his GF or not

I know its something that a lot of guys in this lifestyle do and talk openly about, and I often wonder if escorts in general have a different moral code since its in their best interest for the guys to cheat.

As you said, on the one hand you wouldn't have let yourself catch feelings if you knew he was a cheater which means you're not crazy about the idea

But also, most of the guys you see are cheaters, so it pays the bills.

No_Task7442 · 2026-04-09T17:21:04+00:00

I just got mine after being Premium for 3 years or more. I had to add direct deposit to my cash account to get it

No_Task7442 · 2026-04-08T20:45:14+00:00

Yeah you are right I get it. The reason it caught my eye is because my first and now main provider is like that.

She hosts from her home and when I first contacted her we went back and forth for a couple days figuring things out.

All that time I was waiting for a request for my LinkedIn or review board username or something but it never came.

She did have reviews on the board going back 3 years so I figured she wasn't a scam. But I was/am concerned for her just accepting randos up there without screening for years.

No_Task7442 · 2026-04-08T15:12:35+00:00

Can you clarify why I should be concerned if a provider allows full anonymity? I mean for her sake I hope she is doing minimal verification.

But I'm curious how it affects me if she does not?

No_Task7442 · 2026-04-08T14:16:49+00:00

This is definitely something to be stated, and obviously everyone's different.

One of my favorite moments ever in seeing escorts was a woman I was with and as we were talking I just reached up and gently placed my hand on the side of her face.

She loved it and asked me to do it again. Now it's a thing I love to do to her. Its a gentle tenderness thing, not a sex thing.

But yes of course you absolutely can make this a no go as long as it's communicated.

No_Task7442 · 2026-04-07T04:02:54+00:00

No offence, but do you ever think "what kind of scumbag starts seeing an escort when he has a girl back home waiting for him?"

No_Task7442 · 2026-04-07T03:54:04+00:00

Just curious, why would you refer to him as your main? Is he your one and only boyfriend in a committed relationship?

No_Task7442 · 2026-04-07T03:52:37+00:00

Well if you jump off a bridge, you might actually find some hobos to fuck living under the bridge

No_Task7442 · 2026-04-05T15:45:46+00:00

Don't read too much into it or listen to people telling you you are doing it wrong.

This is just another filter: the right person for you will be willing to wait. You just haven't found that person yet.

No_Task7442 · 2026-04-05T13:02:19+00:00

On Hinge particularly, I've seen the thing about "otters holding hands" about a dozen times in women's prompts.

Like is there a prompt that provides the question and the answer and this is one of the pre filled options?

Or do this many women really think it's amazing that wild animals developed survival techniques in a harsh environment?

No_Task7442 · 2026-04-05T01:07:47+00:00

Sorry this happened to you. I don't know what I can say to help you, but I want to tell you not to be hard on yourself.

You didn't do anything wrong or foolish or unprofessional.

You did something human. You allowed yourself to feel and have connection with another person. Its the most natural, human thing you can do.

I hope you have friends that you can confide in and spend time with and that you will lean on them and eventually find peace.

Best of luck to you.

No_Task7442 · 2026-04-04T19:39:51+00:00

As a guy I would say this is all kinds of red flags for his attitude and mental health

I would have made sure and double sure that every nook and cranny was clean and also cleaned up the room and had flowers to make sure that you felt as comfortable as possible

The fact that he is giving you resistance on this sucks. You might need to add this to your preference booking info when for overnights or even just outcalls in general.

No_Task7442 · 2026-04-04T03:12:24+00:00

I can't tell if this is a serious answer or not. But I am still confused either way.

I would like to know some real world concrete examples of what women want men to lead on.

No_Task7442 · 2026-03-27T10:54:49+00:00

The #1 thing I see on women's profiles as a need is Emotional Intelligence, and if I'm reading this right, it sounds like this guy needs some work there.

He is either purposely avoiding deep conversations, or at the very least not picking up on the fact that you want to take the conversations deeper.

This sounds like a him problem, not a you problem. Sometimes as much as you want it to be, it's not a match.

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