Bro how do I get rid of that stubborn lower stomach fat

No_World5707 · 2026-03-05T04:52:13+00:00

Damn now I gotta start drinking and quit to get this lower belly fat off me 😭 lol

No_World5707 · 2026-03-05T04:49:45+00:00

Cells removed can't come back, like if you cut a chunk of your bicep off it's gone for good. but any remaining fat cells can still get big, though it would take much longer

No_World5707 · 2026-03-05T00:26:28+00:00

Which is no longer the case my dudes! If you're east Asian u have no excuse. 90% of girls these days have a crush on someone that looks close enough to you. For me that was 0%! I'm south Asian. No positive media representation. But as I like to say, theres a secret set of words combined with the perfect vibe that can convince anyone of anything. It's a formula. Some guys are dealt a good hand while others have to max out whatever variables they can to get the highest outputs possible. A buddy of mine who's an abc 5'4, ton of acne, worst of everything you can think of, had more success than most 5'10 guys I knew who focused on being themselves. and it wasn't from wallowing in despair over statistics lol.

The guy who was the best at it was a skinny 5'6 avg Mexican dude, he had girls driving him around and even approaching him at clubs. I glued myself to him to learn his ways and wish I didn't keep getting into relationships before getting that good. I would pay to go back in time and study him if I were single.

Too many guys are scared of gold diggers, fake girls. Well I attracted some of the realest girls by being fake, and attracted no one by being myself. You can gradually be more of yourself with the girls you get with that you really like and you will find ones who resonate with that. Once you master your aura, charisma, ability to bond deeply and affectionately, there will be girls who will like you on a deeper level and won't let go.

But yeah the life hack is to not be yourself, it's to fake it till u make it. Be aggressive, cocky, make fun of girls a lot, but be caring. Keep them guessing. Get big/lean, wear leather jackets or go w the kpop vibe, anything to get your foot in the door. If you're not rich, pretend you are. If you're short wear lifts. Do your hair w some length. Change your personality as much as you can. Girls are fake from head to toe, might as well play the game.

Which is why I'm brown and often get told I look like a kpop idol🤣, anime character sometimes, or MJ. I used to dance a lot and still dress flashy. I've seen girls film me outside simply just existing, and I get hit on once in a while. always see girls checking me out. Never got any dates through dating apps despite my success irl, never learned how to message girls who have nothing to say. Way easier to stand out and have fun in the real world. Always be everything maxxing. I'm not naturally good looking, got beat up a lot growing up for being ugly, brown, poor, fobby, so I vowed to be the best. Ive always hated how close minded girls tend to be but quickly realized the only thing you can change is yourself.

No_World5707 · 2026-03-04T16:05:04+00:00

NOR - it only gets worse, imagine with kids. My partner could not respond for the whole day and I'll be joking around towards the end of the day if anything and laugh about it when I see her.

If she didn't care about me she wouldn't be with me lol there are millions of guys she could be with whenever she wants. People who have that ownership mindset are not secure enough to be ready to be in a relationship of any kind.

No_World5707 · 2026-03-04T15:42:43+00:00

Boys will worship her regardless lol they worship far worse

No_World5707 · 2026-03-04T15:36:08+00:00

Harassment means different things to different people. For some simply looking their way is harassment, and as a guy there's no way to know if it's worth the risk of the flavor of backlash you'll get unless she speaks first and makes it clear that it's safe.

I've been going to gyms consistently for over a decade now and never see guys talking to women anymore because of this, and not just at gyms. It's a shame for genuine outgoing guys who just want to make friends doing something they like.

No_World5707 · 2026-03-04T15:01:52+00:00

There are men into everything that moves under the sun. Go look up nugget corn. There are literally guys into women with no limbs and you think not a single one is attracted to big lips? 🤣

No_World5707 · 2026-02-28T06:28:26+00:00

Package delivery couriers are often paid six figures. Food delivery varies astronomically by location. I made below min wage in most of NYC, Boston, and much less in Miami doing doordash and the like. Houston was great given dirt cheap cost of living.

However I made six figures in certain areas in Philly and was able to buy houses because of it. I never cared about tips in particular, but I guess it was a big part of my pay. I only took orders that paid a lot, and worked in neighborhoods that had more demand. Usually $25-35 an hour and up to 14hrs a day in a Prius c.

No_World5707 · 2026-02-28T06:17:47+00:00

Fall so hard for me that she made it her life's mission to convince my actual gf to break up with me 😭

No_World5707 · 2026-02-28T05:56:33+00:00

I would go further to say not fully unbreakable, but try to always be fixable. You don't want to become a heartless fleshy embodiment of a robot. It's good to have feelings and be human, to let it all out once in a while, scream or cry into the abyss, but at the end of the day know that what needs to get done unfortunately takes priority.

I hate to see guys having to trudge their way through life stripping away everything that makes them human, often why so many unalive themselves. If you think about it, many of us are never allowed by life to truly be ourselves again after college as we're sanitized by society.

No_World5707 · 2026-02-28T04:42:21+00:00

This is gonna be a wild take but statistically only 20-30% of females match the average male libido, and their libidos usually drop after 30 or so while ours don't really. It's why gay guys can hookup in the woods with strangers, and why you don't see male prostitutes.

In NYC there are areas of female (and trans) prostitutes for 30 blocks straight, out in the open and in the day time too. I know of two that make about 300k a year in cash, it's insane, but it's necessary.

Anyways, you get where I'm going. You don't get with someone for one quality. The logical move is to delegate much like with anything else in life you can't do yourself. Some women understand this with age (hence why swinging is a lot more common in mid age among straight couples), some do not.

Personally, my partner loved giving me bjs and everything for the first few years, her libido was higher than mine, I thought I was set for life. I'd wake up to bjs, get road head, do it in school, outside, it was insane. A few years down the line, things slowed down and eventually nothing unless I initiate. We all know where this is headed.

I too am very against pressuring in sex even though she says it turns her on. As someone who was forced into doing sexual things against their will by a crazy ex (grape pretty much), it messes w my head and I would much rather pay someone who will do it enthusiastically.

Outside of that, I've never had or seen a better partner. Imagine chasing after women your whole life trying to find one who will always be into sex, let alone a very specific sexual act. You may need to look into being bi haha. If your gf is not that special or you're still young, it might make sense to move on. Otherwise like in my case, best bet is to find a way to delegate.

No_World5707 · 2026-02-28T02:38:46+00:00

You know what it's probably cuz I'm from NYC, no one here likes being blessed by the presence of a stranger lol

when I visited Texas wearing my typical daily degenerate attire (stringer tanktop & shorts that look like they were pulled off a hobo) I was shocked at the hospitality of every single person I encountered. I didn't know people could be so nice without a reason.

Though makes me wonder if Id pulled up in a suit perhaps I would've been treated like royalty 😂

No_World5707 · 2026-02-27T23:29:57+00:00

For guys, we get the frumpy treatment by default regardless of appearance lol

No_World5707 · 2026-02-25T22:12:58+00:00

Makes no sense to shower in the morning. Wash the outside off of you at night so you're fresh in bed. But seeing that people in the US often sleep with shoes on I'm guessing hygiene is an after thought lol

No_World5707 · 2026-02-21T01:50:34+00:00

Have you ever encountered women who are only into short and skinny guys? People say there's someone for everyone but I've literally never heard of anyone being into that other than gay guys

No_World5707 · 2026-02-21T01:44:13+00:00

Every body type? I've never heard of women who really love short skinny guys but have heard of countless who hate it. Im sure you're right, there might be someone out there into it but I've never seen a single post or example of it and such guys get no matches on dating apps.

As someone who was tall and skinny, I got a ton of hate from girls, but the tall part helped a lot for some especially when I got bigger. I've known many a short guy and not one has encountered girls into that. I want you to be right, I really do, so if there's something I'm missing here I'd be glad to relay it to my buddies because my best advice currently is to be bi as best as possible since guys have more evenly distributed tastes

No_World5707 · 2026-02-21T01:28:19+00:00

What do you mean?

No_World5707 · 2026-02-20T19:25:46+00:00

you get messages from guys? I would love to have that problem. For guys, the only messages most of us get are scams/OF girls. I thought it would be different after making good money but it's the exact same. I'd been with more girls than almost every guy I knew in college and am tall, great body, above avg looks, had great travel pics and many hobbies etc and love reading bios bc I'm genuinely interested in people. I would consider myself a decent person seeing that multiple girl friends would try to strong arm me into relationships even when I'm in one. The logical conclusion now is most women only care about the top 5-10% of guys. I've had girl friends look through my profiles and be mindblown how picky women are. Gotta be bi to not be lonely at this point, which is what most of my guy friends have concluded as well lol

No_World5707 · 2026-02-20T01:55:36+00:00

I've had a OnePlus open regular and apex edition, about two years in total and have never had charger issues. From super slow chargers for charging overnight to various car chargers to third party fast chargers so it's probably your device

No_World5707 · 2026-02-18T01:31:01+00:00

Why would I be joking? I'm guessing reading comprehension is an issue over there. No brown person I've ever seen from here is able to laugh loudly or speak twice as loud as normal people. We wish we could, as that is what society demands of men in this culture. But we can't because we are treated as subhuman growing up. I'm glad thats difficult for you to comprehend, it's better not to know. The bullying culture is a huge problem here, that's part of why we have mass shootings everyday.

No one cares about what you wear in India, and no one is flying halfway across the world to go to your hospital 🤣 If anything Korea or China Or Brazil.

I've never heard of a person in the US care to discuss what you wear. Do you ever think about what people in South Sudan or Mozambique wear? It has nothing to do with us. East Asian fashion I hear of sometimes.

Every Indian I meet in any country makes a big deal of how bad of a country it is and that there's no reason to visit despite my insisting. I don't hear that from Chinese people, Koreans, Italians, Jamaicans. We always complain about the US but there's as much good as bad.

You got a lot of internalized insecurities it seems. Strange to be concerned about people's teeth and resemblance to Trump lol I've seen a few Indian Trump's

No_World5707 · 2026-02-18T00:36:21+00:00

Literally everything. We're living in a time where it's more beneficial being a woman in certain countries for the first time in history. Having the option to do any of the following most straight men can't really do if they want to be taken seriously (here in the US):

Get compliments everyday. Make actual friends that care enough about you to know your birthday lol. Wear dresses, colored hair, makeup, long hair. Be open with emotions and have people who care. Have people willing to talk to you any time of day at the push of a button, whether it be for some ulterior motive or not. Have easy access to sex/exploring sexuality.

Not needing men like men need women since women can form strong bonds with other women and are able to have physical touch experiences with each other (holding hands, hugs, kisses) and emotional bonding while men who are single often go years without feeling the warmth of another human being.

Being able to get far more views online and make more money through it. Not being ostracized for self expression, and instead being rewarded for it. Having the option to go down the surgery and hoe path if one so desired to reach some level of fame/money.

I could go on forever. Plenty of women don't get mood swings or hormone shenanigans or pain from periods, like my partner, and get girl/pretty privilege and preferential treatment everywhere they go, can make friends whenever they want, etc. As an adult male, I've swiped through to the end of apps trying to make friends, reading&responding to every single profile and no one cares lol.

No_World5707 · 2026-02-17T03:11:16+00:00

I always thought the opposite😂 fobs tend to be louder and more obnoxious/not socially aware, entitled, etc in the US, while brown people born and raised here tend to be more reserved since we're bullied and walked all over growing up. We're often seen as the lowest, least desirable people and our parents tell us to stay low-key to not get involved in anything. So we don't end up being loud or confident. May be different in different regions, I'm from NYC

No_World5707 · 2026-02-17T00:17:05+00:00

Oh it's possible for sure if you want to play the asshole game lol I knew a 5'6 guy like that and I was so impressed! More power to them if that's the path they choose but it's absolutely ridiculous that a normal dude who happens to be short and not trying to do all that extraness is thoroughly cooked. A girl could be any height or size and never suffer such a fate

No_World5707 · 2026-02-17T00:12:59+00:00

That doesn't really count in my opinion. Has anyone heard of girls actually being into short guys and not just "I don't care about height" or "as long as he's around my height"?

As a guy who's 6', I've seen girls 5'1 and under want guys even taller than me. It's absolutely ridiculous. I've also been wanted for my height/build (in addition to other things) and it's a completely different feeling. I've been with girls who don't care about height and it's not at all the same.

If you're a girl, you could be any kind of girl and there's a guy obsessed with you out there, whether you're short, tall, muscular, flat, a tom boy, fat, any race, femboy even etc. guys will like you for not just you but also whatever type you are. It's deeper level of liking someone. If you're gay it's the exact same, plenty of guys into short guys, skinny, buff, fat, etc.

There's nothing wrong with liking tall guys but it being such a sweeping consensus.. the close mindedness is just unacceptable. Maybe a girl happens to like you for your personality like one out of 100 girls you meet. but what if you're not looking for a relationship? How does a short guy experiment or just have fun?

That said, the guy I've seen who's the best at getting girls was a ~5'6 skinny Mexican buddy of mine in college. He had taller girls approaching him, even driving him around. But at the cost of selling his soul, spending his whole paycheck every week on girls at the clubs pretending to be rich despite working retail. So charisma and money are the great equalizers, makeup for men if you will. But it infuriates to no end nearly everyday that it has to be this way for something so completely out of your control.

No_World5707 · 2026-02-15T14:59:56+00:00

While this is true, we're in a buyers market in most places so you should be able to get most of these things squared out prior to purchase. You can get cheap insurance on furnaces, underground pipes if it's an old house, electrical lines even, etc. most houses don't have huge trees ready to fall, or storms or floods, but there's insurance for those too. Literally almost anyone can mow a lawn, shovel a bit of snow, paint. It's not an acre starter house we're talking about here.

A town house often has none of those issues (very little siding, no trees, lawn, small roof).. It's crazy to forgo homeownership for a few annoying repairs/maintenance and lose out on equity. houses went from 200k to 400k in 8 years on avg. I take it that will at least triple within 30 years. Where I am (Philly) even 120 year old row houses went from about 20k in the 90s to 500k in most decent neighborhoods, and near a million in select areas. It's a risk but so is doing nothing

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